Distance Domination-Support Thread

[the captians wench]

Wow, moms can really put it to you sometimes, eh?

Thanks for your thoughts, wenchie. I'm okay at the moment. Just treading water, I guess.

I can relate to the comment "you were a perfect teen," in that no one would ever guess in a million years my deep dark secrets.

I definitely miss FM. He's my rock. But it's also good for me to know I can find strength within, too.

I really was a sweet and innocent teen. I was not rebelious in the slightest and didn't really have any dark desires. *shrugs* guess I'm just a late bloomer

 

[xseraphimx]

After reading

this thread I now know why I've been a brat towards my Master the past few months. Considering all the dynamics, primarilly that this is my first ever online relationship, also, the first time I've felt "in love" in r/l or online, I assumed my frustrations were to do with the technological side via the internet. Little irritations such as his cable giving out then not being able to make contact for a few days, silly things like that made me moody. Having said all that, the distance thing wasn't something I had even considered. We had been fighting alot lately, bickering mainly about little things and recently (in fullforce brat mode) I broke it off with him as I couldnt stand the fighting any longer. It was physically draining (those 4am fights ending in a flick of the OFF switch) and emotionally I wasn't equipped to deal with it. I now have a new insight into why I've been so - moody. I don't know what my next step is but I do know I love him and if We can sort out Our distance thing I believe We can make it work in r/l. I really appreciate all the insights You have given me on the way You all have dealt with and handled things. I shall be watching this thread closer now.

 

[myinnerslut]

welcome aboard xseraphimx

 

[the captians wench]

I had a wonderful chat with my love tonight. We've decided to take my training further and move me another step closer to slave. I'm very excited about it and can't wait to see how things progress.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Welcome xseraphimx

 

[lil_slave_rose]

this thread I now know why I've been a brat towards my Master the past few months. Considering all the dynamics, primarilly that this is my first ever online relationship, also, the first time I've felt "in love" in r/l or online, I assumed my frustrations were to do with the technological side via the internet. Little irritations such as his cable giving out then not being able to make contact for a few days, silly things like that made me moody. Having said all that, the distance thing wasn't something I had even considered. We had been fighting alot lately, bickering mainly about little things and recently (in fullforce brat mode) I broke it off with him as I couldnt stand the fighting any longer. It was physically draining (those 4am fights ending in a flick of the OFF switch) and emotionally I wasn't equipped to deal with it. I now have a new insight into why I've been so - moody. I don't know what my next step is but I do know I love him and if We can sort out Our distance thing I believe We can make it work in r/l. I really appreciate all the insights You have given me on the way You all have dealt with and handled things. I shall be watching this thread closer now.

welcome to the thread. LDR is hard by itself, throw D/s into the mix and it becomes MUCH harder, but it's all worth it in the end. it's been 3 almost 4 years for Master and i and that time is getting close that we will no longer be LDR, it's been a rough road for sure and in the beginning we didn't have a means to talk everyday, and we actually started out as just 'student/Mentor' and then it evolved into ALOT more..good luck to you and i hope you find what you're looking for whether it be with the one you just broke it off with, or someone else

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I had a wonderful chat with my love tonight. We've decided to take my training further and move me another step closer to slave. I'm very excited about it and can't wait to see how things progress.

that's good to hear wenchie! on both accounts *smiles* keep us posted

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

I had a wonderful chat with my love tonight. We've decided to take my training further and move me another step closer to slave. I'm very excited about it and can't wait to see how things progress.

So glad that you got to talk to your master tonight...I know thow good it is to be able to hear our Masters..that is awesome that your training will be going further to move you a step closer to slave..

 

[lil_slave_rose]

*sighs* it's been a long day, and now that it's winding down finally, i find myself missing Master and feeling like the weekend just didn't give us enough time once again. on weekdays i go to bed at 9:00 or 10:00 in order to get my kids up for school and all that fun motherly stuff *smiles* on the weekends i stay up to spend time with Master, but it seems like those days (the weekends) just fly by and that we don't talk much at all. yea, we're on the phone, but it's like we barely say anything. tonight He gets off work at the exact same time i'm going to bed, so He'll call me to tuck me in and that'll be it. *sighs* i guess i shouldn't complain as alot of you don't get to talk to your Master's nearly as much as i do, but i can't help it...i miss Him.

i'm with fury, it just seems like there's been too much distance for everyone on this thread lately

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*sighs* it's been a long day, and now that it's winding down finally, i find myself missing Master and feeling like the weekend just didn't give us enough time once again. on weekdays i go to bed at 9:00 or 10:00 in order to get my kids up for school and all that fun motherly stuff *smiles* on the weekends i stay up to spend time with Master, but it seems like those days (the weekends) just fly by and that we don't talk much at all. yea, we're on the phone, but it's like we barely say anything. tonight He gets off work at the exact same time i'm going to bed, so He'll call me to tuck me in and that'll be it. *sighs* i guess i shouldn't complain as alot of you don't get to talk to your Master's nearly as much as i do, but i can't help it...i miss Him.

i'm with fury, it just seems like there's been too much distance for everyone on this thread lately

Rose...*hugs*..sorry that the weekend has went by and you didn't get much time with your master..I know how disheartening that can be....I am sorry that you are going to bed when he gets off but know it will be great to have him tuck you in...*tight hugs*

Yes the distance is rougher right now for all of us seems like....

 

[goodlittleslut]

on line sub new to the board

Hi everyone. This is my first post. I am new to the board.

I am an online sub and have only met my Master once in person. I talk to him on the phone almost daily and we chat on line a couple times a week with at least one cam session. I do anything and everything he tells me to do happily.

I want so badly to see him in person again and please him. However, it is not easy to arrange such a meeting due to the distance between us and his private life that of course takes all priority over our D/s relationship. I do understand all of this and I am okay with it and I know my place but I get impatient sometimes. Master says I need to work on this and I must learn to be patient. He is very patient with me and is teaching me. He reminds me often I have a lot to learn. I should probably add that this is my first D/s realtionship. I am sure that it will be my last too if anything ever happens to disolve our relationship as I cannot imagine any other Dom in my life who could even begin to make me feel like my Master does. I cannot even imagine submitting to anyone else for that matter.

I am encouraged by him to seek out playmates often and I am trying very hard to do so. It is not easy though trying to meet people and get to a point where you feel safe enough to go and play with them. He wants me to meet enough people so that I can call someone on any given day of the week and find someone to play with. He knows that his little slut needs to be used and use. I get impatient with the whole process of meeting people too......again I need to work on this.....and I am trying.

I am wondering if there are any other on line subs out there in a similar situatin and how do you handle your desires to be with your Master when you cannot?

I am sorry to ramble......any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Hi everyone. This is my first post. I am new to the board.

I am an online sub and have only met my Master once in person. I talk to him on the phone almost daily and we chat on line a couple times a week with at least one cam session. I do anything and everything he tells me to do happily.

I want so badly to see him in person again and please him. However, it is not easy to arrange such a meeting due to the distance between us and his private life that of course takes all priority over our D/s relationship. I do understand all of this and I am okay with it and I know my place but I get impatient sometimes. Master says I need to work on this and I must learn to be patient. He is very patient with me and is teaching me. He reminds me often I have a lot to learn. I should probably add that this is my first D/s realtionship. I am sure that it will be my last too if anything ever happens to disolve our relationship as I cannot imagine any other Dom in my life who could even begin to make me feel like my Master does. I cannot even imagine submitting to anyone else for that matter.

I am encouraged by him to seek out playmates often and I am trying very hard to do so. It is not easy though trying to meet people and get to a point where you feel safe enough to go and play with them. He wants me to meet enough people so that I can call someone on any given day of the week and find someone to play with. He knows that his little slut needs to be used and use. I get impatient with the whole process of meeting people too......again I need to work on this.....and I am trying.

I am wondering if there are any other on line subs out there in a similar situatin and how do you handle your desires to be with your Master when you cannot?

I am sorry to ramble......any advice would be greatly appreciated.

i've been in an LDR D/s relationship for almost 4 years. in those years i've met my Master twice and hopefully will be seeing Him again in the next couple of months. i am impatient as well, but He is too so not much He can say to me on that one *grins* the best advice i can give is communication is key.....good luck and welcome aboard!

 

[Toa_lin]

Hi everyone. This is my first post. I am new to the board.

I am an online sub and have only met my Master once in person. I talk to him on the phone almost daily and we chat on line a couple times a week with at least one cam session. I do anything and everything he tells me to do happily.

I want so badly to see him in person again and please him. However, it is not easy to arrange such a meeting due to the distance between us and his private life that of course takes all priority over our D/s relationship. I do understand all of this and I am okay with it and I know my place but I get impatient sometimes. Master says I need to work on this and I must learn to be patient. He is very patient with me and is teaching me. He reminds me often I have a lot to learn. I should probably add that this is my first D/s realtionship. I am sure that it will be my last too if anything ever happens to disolve our relationship as I cannot imagine any other Dom in my life who could even begin to make me feel like my Master does. I cannot even imagine submitting to anyone else for that matter.

I am encouraged by him to seek out playmates often and I am trying very hard to do so. It is not easy though trying to meet people and get to a point where you feel safe enough to go and play with them. He wants me to meet enough people so that I can call someone on any given day of the week and find someone to play with. He knows that his little slut needs to be used and use. I get impatient with the whole process of meeting people too......again I need to work on this.....and I am trying.

I am wondering if there are any other on line subs out there in a similar situatin and how do you handle your desires to be with your Master when you cannot?

I am sorry to ramble......any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I may not be the pyl in my relationship, but the feeling is the same on both ends I think. I often find it hard not having my pet here at my feet, it feels so empty w/o her. But as far as satisfying our desires w/o her, well, we're actually extremely loyal to e/o, so I can't help too much, except let u know it CAN be done, even with-out ANY playing otuside of the few times u see e/o





Note to rose: I think soo many people on here are soo big on the distance thing... because this IS the support thread.... I'll admit, I too struggle with it.... But if ur looking for somone with hope to bring u some as well, i'm less then two months away from having my pet at my feet day-in and day-out for three months. And that thought has made the distance less ominous. So I send a message of hope to all who struggle with it, u CAN do it, don't give up.



Final note: Just joined the thread, though looking at the situations here, I'm kicking myself for not doing so sooner, I'm not big on suppotr groups, but this seems to be one I won't mind joining.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I may not be the pyl in my relationship, but the feeling is the same on both ends I think. I often find it hard not having my pet here at my feet, it feels so empty w/o her. But as far as satisfying our desires w/o her, well, we're actually extremely loyal to e/o, so I can't help too much, except let u know it CAN be done, even with-out ANY playing otuside of the few times u see e/o





Note to rose: I think soo many people on here are soo big on the distance thing... because this IS the support thread.... I'll admit, I too struggle with it.... But if ur looking for somone with hope to bring u some as well, i'm less then two months away from having my pet at my feet day-in and day-out for three months. And that thought has made the distance less ominous. So I send a message of hope to all who struggle with it, u CAN do it, don't give up.



Final note: Just joined the thread, though looking at the situations here, I'm kicking myself for not doing so sooner, I'm not big on suppotr groups, but this seems to be one I won't mind joining.

welcome to the thread toa_lin. this a great thread for support and it's helped me through many 'tough times' of missing Master or just needing someone to talk to. it's alot different than alot of the other threads on Lit. everyone is so supportive of each other....so welcome aboard! and great to hear that you will have your lil one at Your feet soon..i know how that feels..well i'm the one sitting at His feet *giggles* but You know what i mean...

 

[myinnerslut]

I had a wonderful chat with my love tonight. We've decided to take my training further and move me another step closer to slave. I'm very excited about it and can't wait to see how things progress.

CONGRATS!!!!!!

 

[myinnerslut]

goodlittleslut and toa_lin: glad you both started posting. the more people posting on this thread the more of a support it really is. and i dont think theres a one of us stuck in a LDR that couldnt use the support at one point or another.

 

[myinnerslut]

*sighs* it's been a long day, and now that it's winding down finally, i find myself missing Master and feeling like the weekend just didn't give us enough time once again. on weekdays i go to bed at 9:00 or 10:00 in order to get my kids up for school and all that fun motherly stuff *smiles* on the weekends i stay up to spend time with Master, but it seems like those days (the weekends) just fly by and that we don't talk much at all. yea, we're on the phone, but it's like we barely say anything. tonight He gets off work at the exact same time i'm going to bed, so He'll call me to tuck me in and that'll be it. *sighs* i guess i shouldn't complain as alot of you don't get to talk to your Master's nearly as much as i do, but i can't help it...i miss Him.

i'm with fury, it just seems like there's been too much distance for everyone on this thread lately

and {{hugs}} and

and i agree, far too much distance latly... who is up for inventing a teleportation machine so we can all go visit our SO's????

 

[MasterPhoenix]

and {{hugs}} and

and i agree, far too much distance latly... who is up for inventing a teleportation machine so we can all go visit our SO's????

You mean a way to send ourselves like we would an email attachment...

 

[minx1]

Actually, I was thinking his pants...

Steady itw....I want to be happy, not delirious!

 

[minx1]

I had a wonderful chat with my love tonight. We've decided to take my training further and move me another step closer to slave. I'm very excited about it and can't wait to see how things progress.

Hey thats really wonderful wenchie

It would be great to know how your training progresses hon

 

[minx1]

Just a quick Hi to Goodlittleslut, Tao Lin and xseraphimx

Welcome to the thread its great new people are posting and to get your perspective and experience on your LDRs

 

[the captians wench]

Hey thats really wonderful wenchie

It would be great to know how your training progresses hon

thanks DWB, rose, mis, and minx, I'm very excited.

we're going to start pushing my pain levels a bit, as well as touching on some of my limits. Objectification is going to be a significant roll as well. And I'm going to have to watch the cheek a bit more. *giggles* that's prolly going to be the hardest part.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Welcome goodlittleslut and Tao Lin to this wonderful thread..This thread is very helpful to us all and so glad that it is here...We are here to support each other...and that is a wonderful thing..

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

thanks DWB, rose, mis, and minx, I'm very excited.

we're going to start pushing my pain levels a bit, as well as touching on some of my limits. Objectification is going to be a significant roll as well. And I'm going to have to watch the cheek a bit more. *giggles* that's prolly going to be the hardest part.

You are most welcome wench..

Have fun with the pushing of the pain levels..that is always fun to test out...

I know you will do great and good luck on this part of your journey!

 

[myinnerslut]

You mean a way to send ourselves like we would an email attachment...

something like...

i was thinking something along the lines of teleporting over for the night and being able to get back here before classes in the morning, or being able to get to see him for a weekend or an afternoon or something like that. right now travel is too expensive and too time consuming to fit our lives. teleportation seems like the obvious answer, dontcha think?