Distance Domination-Support Thread

[MasterPhoenix]

Hello everyone

I've been lurking on this thread for about a week now (it's taken me that long to read through all the posts from the beginning ) Just as it has been stated by other people here, this thread has been wonderful to read, helpful, heartfelt and comforting. All of you are good people (from what I've read) and the sense of support and comraderie warms my heart.

I have been in a LDR for a year and a half now. Master and I live in the same country (USA) but on opposite sides of it. We started off just as friends (we both played an online game and met there) and from the beginning we really clicked. Simple friendship soon turned into something more and not long after we began our journey down the BDSM M/s path. It's been an amazing journey so far and I am looking forward to many years of happiness with Master.

I'm sure there are a million things I could say here, stories to tell, opinions to give, but I'll wait until I get a bit more comfortable

~Sibh

weclome to the thread... and I know the feeling of being on the opposite sides fo the country..

 

[MoDuinesPet]

weclome to the thread... and I know the feeling of being on the opposite sides fo the country..

welcome to the thread! no need to be shy just jump on in and start posting *smiles* this thread dies for a few days and then comes back..it always comes back soooo..welcome aboard!

I have to say that I love reading about you two. Everyone's stories, experiences, histories and issues have touched me on some level and a part of me can familiarize with just about everyone (especially Fury, my situation is like hers but backwards, kinda ) but you two just make me smile and make me really think. I think it's absolutely awesome that you two will be together soon and have no doubts that it will be a long lasting strong relationship.

rose, as for not having your meds, I've been in the same boat twice in the past year. If there's anything I can do to help, even just a cyber shoulder to cry into or bite, my inbox and messenger is always open. * hugs *

 

[naughtyassistant]

nice to have this outlet

I have been battling the desire to try the sub role, hubby would never go for it so i put myself out there and found a wonderful D, although we are very far away the bond between us is undescribable. I have made the decision to trust him and allow him to teach me and love me in a way my husband cannot or will not. Our relationship is one of the upmost love and respect for each other. I just as of last night wrote and read to my master my pledge to him. This is a new world for me and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful D to gradually bring me in. The excitment of this is amazing and only look forward to the things Master will lteach me. Thanks for this opportunity.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I have to say that I love reading about you two. Everyone's stories, experiences, histories and issues have touched me on some level and a part of me can familiarize with just about everyone (especially Fury, my situation is like hers but backwards, kinda ) but you two just make me smile and make me really think. I think it's absolutely awesome that you two will be together soon and have no doubts that it will be a long lasting strong relationship.

rose, as for not having your meds, I've been in the same boat twice in the past year. If there's anything I can do to help, even just a cyber shoulder to cry into or bite, my inbox and messenger is always open. * hugs *

*hugs* and thank you so much for your kind words about me and Sir. it's been a LONG road, and very very bumpy at times, but we're here, and going strong *smiles* i just might take you up on that PM offer sometime

 

[MoDuinesPet]

I have been battling the desire to try the sub role, hubby would never go for it so i put myself out there and found a wonderful D, although we are very far away the bond between us is undescribable. I have made the decision to trust him and allow him to teach me and love me in a way my husband cannot or will not. Our relationship is one of the upmost love and respect for each other. I just as of last night wrote and read to my master my pledge to him. This is a new world for me and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful D to gradually bring me in. The excitment of this is amazing and only look forward to the things Master will lteach me. Thanks for this opportunity.

Welcome to the thread naughtyassistant
It's really nice to see so many people here. I wish I hadn't lurked for so long.

*hugs* and thank you so much for your kind words about me and Sir. it's been a LONG road, and very very bumpy at times, but we're here, and going strong *smiles* i just might take you up on that PM offer sometime

one thing I always say to people "if everything were perfect all the time there would be nothing for anyone to strive for, no lesson to be learned, and no awesome make up sex "
sincerely, PM me anytime, or message me on MSN. I'm literally always online (just not on the screen name in my profile. if you would like my "regular" one just let me know

~Sibh

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I have been battling the desire to try the sub role, hubby would never go for it so i put myself out there and found a wonderful D, although we are very far away the bond between us is undescribable. I have made the decision to trust him and allow him to teach me and love me in a way my husband cannot or will not. Our relationship is one of the upmost love and respect for each other. I just as of last night wrote and read to my master my pledge to him. This is a new world for me and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful D to gradually bring me in. The excitment of this is amazing and only look forward to the things Master will lteach me. Thanks for this opportunity.

welcome to the thread! i'm glad to see so many new people joining. there is alot of good, supportive people on this thread, hell on the whole forum! welcome aboard!

 

[naughtyassistant]

welcome to the thread! i'm glad to see so many new people joining. there is alot of good, supportive people on this thread, hell on the whole forum! welcome aboard!

than you so much for the warm welcome, i hope i get the support here that i may need from time to time and its great to not feel embarrssed about anyhting. My master has submitted something on here in the past, but he finally found me. What a lucky pet i am.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I have to say that I love reading about you two. Everyone's stories, experiences, histories and issues have touched me on some level and a part of me can familiarize with just about everyone (especially Fury, my situation is like hers but backwards, kinda ) but you two just make me smile and make me really think. I think it's absolutely awesome that you two will be together soon and have no doubts that it will be a long lasting strong relationship.

rose, as for not having your meds, I've been in the same boat twice in the past year. If there's anything I can do to help, even just a cyber shoulder to cry into or bite, my inbox and messenger is always open. * hugs *

Glad my often inanane ramblings on here were fo service.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I have been battling the desire to try the sub role, hubby would never go for it so i put myself out there and found a wonderful D, although we are very far away the bond between us is undescribable. I have made the decision to trust him and allow him to teach me and love me in a way my husband cannot or will not. Our relationship is one of the upmost love and respect for each other. I just as of last night wrote and read to my master my pledge to him. This is a new world for me and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful D to gradually bring me in. The excitment of this is amazing and only look forward to the things Master will lteach me. Thanks for this opportunity.

Glad you have found your way into this lifestyle. I must say that be careful as entering into this with even an online Dom can cause tension or worse in your marriage. Its probably none of my business, but I just get concerned, thats all..

 

[HottieMama]

I have been battling the desire to try the sub role, hubby would never go for it so i put myself out there and found a wonderful D, although we are very far away the bond between us is undescribable. I have made the decision to trust him and allow him to teach me and love me in a way my husband cannot or will not. Our relationship is one of the upmost love and respect for each other. I just as of last night wrote and read to my master my pledge to him. This is a new world for me and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful D to gradually bring me in. The excitment of this is amazing and only look forward to the things Master will lteach me. Thanks for this opportunity.

Wow..something told me to read this thread tonight. i'm in the same situation as you, only i have a female "life partner" and not a husband. How is your hus. handling all this? My partner goes between being ok with it and hating it....sometimes within minutes.

My PYL lives in KS where i am moving next month (with my partner due to some family issues...not for Him.) , so while the distance is crappy now...i know it will be better soon. i just worry about how my partner is going to react when S exists more than just on the computer or on the phone.

Argh..i'm rambling..anyway..if you ever want to PM..please feel free.

 

[minx1]

Hi Minx dear..How are you feeling? I hope that you are feeling better!!

Hey DW

I'm much better thankyou hon. Got a job interview too next week

Only piggin thing is I have to do a presentation (I hate them ) and they don't tell me what its on until I get there *laugh*
.......talk about making it easy

Hows you DW?

 

[minx1]

I have been battling the desire to try the sub role, hubby would never go for it so i put myself out there and found a wonderful D, although we are very far away the bond between us is undescribable. I have made the decision to trust him and allow him to teach me and love me in a way my husband cannot or will not. Our relationship is one of the upmost love and respect for each other. I just as of last night wrote and read to my master my pledge to him. This is a new world for me and I am so lucky to have found such a wonderful D to gradually bring me in. The excitment of this is amazing and only look forward to the things Master will lteach me. Thanks for this opportunity.

Welcome naughty

Hey you joined around the same time as me and its my first time exploring this side of me too. I too have been lucky enough to find a wonderful Master and am sometimes completely taken aback by the strength of our feelings and bond that we share.
This thread is great and everyone is really supportive, I guess because we all know how bloody difficult a LDR can be....hope you find it welcoming

 

[Little_Kitten]

Thank you very much for the welcome DomWharfsBitch. I'm pretty much online ALL the time. I'm currently not working and had to take at least a semester off from college due to some health issues (physical and emotional, of course both working against the other, blah blah blah). I pretty much waste my day working on stories, blogging, playing a few online war games (yes, I'm an RP nerd )
doing domestic chores and texting back and forth with my sister all day. Very boring but it's managable for now.

I am sort of new to the BDSM world. I've been dominant all of my life until it fell apart almost 2 years ago and had "dabbled" a bit into the Domme aspect but nothing ever lasted. Then I met Master, who had absolutely no BDSM experience at all, and our amazing journey began. Wow what a ride it's been! I have never been happier in a relationship in my life, even with the complications that we have.

I have told him about this thread and hope that some day he might stop by and post. I won't hold my breath though as its busy season for him at work It would be lovely though to be interactive with him somewhere other than messenger/e-mail/webcam.

Also, since MoDuinesPet is a bit long to type out, feel free to call me Sibh. just seems easier

Man... I can relate to you so well Welcome Sibh ^^

 

[the captians wench]

Hey DW

I'm much better thankyou hon. Got a job interview too next week

Only piggin thing is I have to do a presentation (I hate them ) and they don't tell me what its on until I get there *laugh*
.......talk about making it easy

Hows you DW?

That sounds really cool. But then I love being center of attention so anything to get me there sounds cool to me. *giggles*

 

[MoDuinesPet]

Man... I can relate to you so well Welcome Sibh ^^

Thank you for the welcome Little_Kitten. I've had so much on my mind tonight that I almost forgot that I looked up a little information for you. (Master's been ill all week and stressed from work and I've just been all around yucky)

This is a site where you can "practice" for free for the GED test here in the states.
Free GED practice test

just to give you an idea of what is on the test.

Also, I believe you mentioned Pittsburgh is where you desire to move to. There is a schlew of community colleges and 2 year colleges in that area. I don't live too far from there and one of my dearest closest friends lives in the city. If you would like any more information just let me know. ( I thrive on research )

~Sibh

 

[MoDuinesPet]

Only piggin thing is I have to do a presentation (I hate them ) and they don't tell me what its on until I get there *laugh*

on the spot presentation for an interview? ewwww. No stress there or anything

Maybe they'll give you something really easy like "peanut butter-smooth or crunchy?"

sorry, haven't slept since yesterday. I'm a little loopy

regardless, best of luck to you at the interview!

~Sibh

P.S HAPPY BIRTHDAY/VACATION Wenchie!
(not sure if it's your birthday AND vacation, or just vacation.)

 

[minx1]

That sounds really cool. But then I love being center of attention so anything to get me there sounds cool to me. *giggles*

*laugh* you are so funny wenchie!

I wish I could embrace it like that...actually for someone who is pretty confident I loathe presentations...all eyes on me. Yuck

 

[minx1]

on the spot presentation for an interview? ewwww. No stress there or anything

Maybe they'll give you something really easy like "peanut butter-smooth or crunchy?"

sorry, haven't slept since yesterday. I'm a little loopy

regardless, best of luck to you at the interview!

~Sibh

P.S HAPPY BIRTHDAY/VACATION Wenchie!
(not sure if it's your birthday AND vacation, or just vacation.)

Hey Sibh

*laugh* fingers crossed its something like that or 'why women like to shop/buy shoes/beauty products'......or another variation on that theme.

But I'm guessing that will be as unlikely as 'why being a sub is so great'. EASY

 

[MoDuinesPet]

Hey Sibh

*laugh* fingers crossed its something like that or 'why women like to shop/buy shoes/beauty products'......or another variation on that theme.

But I'm guessing that will be as unlikely as 'why being a sub is so great'. EASY

Well, if it's a woman interviewing you, and she's pretty hot, and she lets you pic your own topic, that just may be the way to go

 

[minx1]

Well, if it's a woman interviewing you, and she's pretty hot, and she lets you pic your own topic, that just may be the way to go

*giggles* Its a panel of people...9 I think.
Perhaps my strategy should be to use my girly power to strike a chord with the women and the men...well I'll just flirt outrageously......
Actually to hell with their gender or sexuality. I'll just flirt

Oh yeah I got this job in the bag lol

 

[myinnerslut]

Hello everyone

I've been lurking on this thread for about a week now (it's taken me that long to read through all the posts from the beginning ) Just as it has been stated by other people here, this thread has been wonderful to read, helpful, heartfelt and comforting. All of you are good people (from what I've read) and the sense of support and comraderie warms my heart.

I have been in a LDR for a year and a half now. Master and I live in the same country (USA) but on opposite sides of it. We started off just as friends (we both played an online game and met there) and from the beginning we really clicked. Simple friendship soon turned into something more and not long after we began our journey down the BDSM M/s path. It's been an amazing journey so far and I am looking forward to many years of happiness with Master.

I'm sure there are a million things I could say here, stories to tell, opinions to give, but I'll wait until I get a bit more comfortable

~Sibh

welcome!!!

 

[myinnerslut]

after some emrgency room drama last night, all i want right now is to curl up in A's arms and sleep

 

[MoDuinesPet]

after some emrgency room drama last night, all i want right now is to curl up in A's arms and sleep

(((mis))) I sincerely hope everyone is all right

 

[minx1]

after some emrgency room drama last night, all i want right now is to curl up in A's arms and sleep

Hey Mis

Hope you are ok hon *hugs*

 

[littleone77]

I got myself into trouble. Serious, some one is going to pay trouble and I never even intended it to happen.
I was using a thread on Lit to vent about some D related things, I never once mentioned who I was refering to...just ranted and vented. Apparently He found the thread and my postings....Not at all happy and for once I am concerned I may have over stepped some where. Gad what a mess. I am mostly concerned what this might do to us, more than what I may earn out of it.

Ick.