Distance Domination-Support Thread

[intothewoods]

Ok, let me switch into Mom role now. Don't you think you two should take the itinerary out of your posts? It's freaking me out.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Ok, let me switch into Mom role now. Don't you think you two should take the itinerary out of your posts? It's freaking me out.

LOL..freaking you out how?? it doesn't have flight numbers, or confirmation numbers and most of all not His name anywhere..LOL ..all it has is times.....

 

[intothewoods]

LOL..freaking you out how?? it doesn't have flight numbers, or confirmation numbers and most of all not His name anywhere..LOL ..all it has is times.....

The date is somewhere, right? I don't know, so many details! I'm just a worrier, don't mind me.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

The date is somewhere, right? I don't know, so many details! I'm just a worrier, don't mind me.

*giggles* yea, it has the dates, but what can they do with that?? it doesn't even say what airline He's coming in on ....i guess if someone wants to stalk Him bad enough they could do a HECK of a lot of research and find the flight numbers, what airline he's flying, and such but good god, it would take a WHOLE LOT of research..LOL..no worries..

 

[myinnerslut]

w00t! looks like two subs are getting visits from there Doms in June great news rose

if you count me (which im not sure you should) then make it three

 

[intothewoods]

*giggles* yea, it has the dates, but what can they do with that?? it doesn't even say what airline He's coming in on ....i guess if someone wants to stalk Him bad enough they could do a HECK of a lot of research and find the flight numbers, what airline he's flying, and such but good god, it would take a WHOLE LOT of research..LOL..no worries..

I have a lot of stalkers. I'm just wanted by SOOOO many men. Really, it gets tiring some times.

 

[Toa_lin]

if you count me (which im not sure you should) then make it three

hehe, of course you count, and nope, only two with you, rose got switched to May but hey, just goes to show I'm psychic like all subs think us Doms are ((not going to point fingers or name names on who does *coughgraceannecough* of course.))

 

[minx1]

I have a lot of stalkers. I'm just wanted by SOOOO many men. Really, it gets tiring some times.

yeah its a real drag being so damn desireable sometimes *giggle*

 

[minx1]

All this talk of subs and Masters meeting up is giving me itchy feet......I better get away from this laptop befor I book a flight *laugh*

 

[lil_slave_rose]

All this talk of subs and Masters meeting up is giving me itchy feet......I better get away from this laptop befor I book a flight *laugh*

*giggles* well it is time for this subbie to go pick up her kids from school...ahh it's been a good day *smiles*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*giggles* well it is time for this subbie to go pick up her kids from school...ahh it's been a good day *smiles*

yes, its been a good day... but also a long one... ack, its only noon...

 

[myinnerslut]

Again? You seem well-behaved to me.

yeah, well.... the punishment (a) was well deserved, (b) was for a minor offense, and (c) matched up very well to fit what i did wrong

even so, i am in a good mood, on A's good side still (he is always insistant that he is not mad at me, even i i have to be punished for something), its gorgeous out, and i get to go home tommorrow and see my family. still no A, but i miss my family so it will be nice

 

[myinnerslut]

hehe, of course you count, and nope, only two with you, rose got switched to May but hey, just goes to show I'm psychic like all subs think us Doms are ((not going to point fingers or name names on who does *coughgraceannecough* of course.))

well, actually, we will both be home on summer break for the end of may, june, july, and the beggining of august so we wont be long distance at all during that point, only 10 minutes away... we still wont see each other every day, but even so, it wont really be a LDR at that point

 

[myinnerslut]

*giggles* well it is time for this subbie to go pick up her kids from school...ahh it's been a good day *smiles*

nice AV!!

 

[minx1]

yeah, well.... the punishment (a) was well deserved, (b) was for a minor offense, and (c) matched up very well to fit what i did wrong

even so, i am in a good mood, on A's good side still (he is always insistant that he is not mad at me, even i i have to be punished for something), its gorgeous out, and i get to go home tommorrow and see my family. still no A, but i miss my family so it will be nice

Glad that you are getting to spend time with your family Mis...enjoy

 

[Toa_lin]

well, actually, we will both be home on summer break for the end of may, june, july, and the beggining of august so we wont be long distance at all during that point, only 10 minutes away... we still wont see each other every day, but even so, it wont really be a LDR at that point

hehehehe, so, someone understands what I was thinking as well eh? A week after break to make sure I take care of everything then i'm heading down to only 5 minutes away from my pet Though, most days I'll be working for my Uncle, (staying with my cousin next door who also works for him, and he and I are practicly brothers lol) but could u imagine the look on my Uncle's face if he found out I'm coming down mostly just to see my pyl, and to have some "fun" with her? ((I also intend to do the work, i mean hell, 16 bucks an hour for a summer job??? i'll take it))

 

[intothewoods]

I can't tell you all how difficult this week has been, and I'm really surprised. I'm not usually like this. I feel particularly awful because I feel so disconnected from him this week, and he deserves better than that (that makes me tear up, actually ). No, not doubting him or pulling away or anything like that. But just...well, disconnected. I just reread some of his PMs, and that helped, but ... I don't know. It's just so hard.

This is why D/s scares me. I'm not used to being this vulnerable. I'm incredibly strong and independent. I can play all day - and most of my posts on this board are just playful - but letting that little inner submissive out? It's scary stuff for me.

I don't know. This has just been a shitty week.

 

[minx1]

I can't tell you all how difficult this week has been, and I'm really surprised. I'm not usually like this. I feel particularly awful because I feel so disconnected from him this week, and he deserves better than that (that makes me tear up, actually ). No, not doubting him or pulling away or anything like that. But just...well, disconnected. I just reread some of his PMs, and that helped, but ... I don't know. It's just so hard.

This is why D/s scares me. I'm not used to being this vulnerable. I'm incredibly strong and independent. I can play all day - and most of my posts on this board are just playful - but letting that little inner submissive out? It's scary stuff for me.

I don't know. This has just been a shitty week.

*soft smile* join the club itw, I know that feeling very well. Although again I have to say I am much easier with it a few months down the line.

If it helps at all I was exactly the same last year, when I was a few weeks in...I mean having major wobbles, thinking whether it was for me.

To be honest it scared the crap out of me and brought emotions to the surface that I hadn't experienced before. Like you and many others on here, I regard myself as strong, independent and opinionated and the feelings that it exposed were really alien to me and made me panic a few times! lol

I think its a perfectly normal reaction to feel a little scared at times. I bet you will be ok next weekwhen you can talk about it...but I will also put mone on it that you will feel like that from time to time. I know I do......ask my Master! lol

 

[intothewoods]

*soft smile* join the club itw, I know that feeling very well. Although again I have to say I am much easier with it a few months down the line.

If it helps at all I was exactly the same last year, when I was a few weeks in...I mean having major wobbles, thinking whether it was for me.

To be honest it scared the crap out of me and brought emotions to the surface that I hadn't experienced before. Like you and many others on here, I regard myself as strong, independent and opinionated and the feelings that it exposed were really alien to me and made me panic a few times! lol

I think its a perfectly normal reaction to feel a little scared at times. I bet you will be ok next weekwhen you can talk about it...but I will also put mone on it that you will feel like that from time to time. I know I do......ask my Master! lol

Thanks, minx. I don't feel like I'm wondering whether it's for me, more like just processing the feelings without making judgments on them (I know that sounded hippy dippy, but bear with me). I think it's just that, for me, and I'm sure for plenty of people, the highs and lows of a D/s relationship are a lot more intense than a vanilla relationship. Part of what draws a normally tough and in control type like me to D/s is that you want to find someone strong enough, and with whom you feel safe enough, to let go and kneel to. But then when you let go, it's like, oh yeah, fuck, this is actually scary.

I know I'll feel better next week, and I think this will be a good learning experience. I mean, everything difficult is a good learning experience. Even if the only thing you learn is, damn, don't want to do that again!

 

[the captians wench]

Hugs and kisses to all.

I know a lot here have had a bad week, but mine has been awesome and I'm going to go back to work monday totally refreshed. my Master and I got to try a bit of what he's working on pushing with me, so I'm also enjoying a nice healthy reward of as many cums as I like until 12:22 his time (aka 24 hours from when he granted me the pass) . Had a few play dates, some bad, some really really good. Discovered some new things about myself, and opened up a bit. Overall I'm in a really good place.

Now I'm going to call mom and see if she wants to do dinner with me.

Hope every one else has a better week next week.

 

[minx1]

Hugs and kisses to all.

I know a lot here have had a bad week, but mine has been awesome and I'm going to go back to work monday totally refreshed. my Master and I got to try a bit of what he's working on pushing with me, so I'm also enjoying a nice healthy reward of as many cums as I like until 12:22 his time (aka 24 hours from when he granted me the pass) . Had a few play dates, some bad, some really really good. Discovered some new things about myself, and opened up a bit. Overall I'm in a really good place.

Now I'm going to call mom and see if she wants to do dinner with me.

Hope every one else has a better week next week.

Hey Wenchie,

Glad things are going well for you hon

Sounds like you had a good time with your playdates!

 

[the captians wench]

Hey Wenchie,

Glad things are going well for you hon

Sounds like you had a good time with your playdates!

we had a few snags....okay some major snags, but it largely had more to do with things in my past than what he was doing. We talked things out yesterday and I think we'll work out better than what I had thought. And today he left me with pretty hearts for the weekend. I can't wait to show Master my hearts. they look like a tatoo *giggles* And I'm learning something that is very important to my own safety, and that's how to talk while I'm in a slave mind. I usually just sub out and go blank and put all the presure on my partner to know if my sugar is getting low, if I've been in a position for too long, if I have a cramp or what ever. But really no one can know for sure what I need. So I'm not fully comunicating, but I'm learning "juice" when my sugar is droping and I need a pick me up, "knees" when my knees lock up, and just what ever I can think. He's been very good at understanding what I mean and giving what I need. I do regret that I let my past judge this person a bit harshly, but I don't regret saying what I felt and speaking up, and I'm glad we could work things out.

in other words yes I've had lots of fun.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Happy Friday All..

Thank Goodness the weekend is finally here...So thankful for that...

inthewoods sorry you have had a shitty week..I hope that it gets better for you once your Master gets back...Here are a few *hugs* for you..Hope they may help some what.

Wench..Glad that you had a good time playing..And you learned some things along the way..That is wonderful!

 

[FurryFury]

we had a few snags....okay some major snags, but it largely had more to do with things in my past than what he was doing. We talked things out yesterday and I think we'll work out better than what I had thought. And today he left me with pretty hearts for the weekend. I can't wait to show Master my hearts. they look like a tatoo *giggles* And I'm learning something that is very important to my own safety, and that's how to talk while I'm in a slave mind. I usually just sub out and go blank and put all the presure on my partner to know if my sugar is getting low, if I've been in a position for too long, if I have a cramp or what ever. But really no one can know for sure what I need. So I'm not fully comunicating, but I'm learning "juice" when my sugar is droping and I need a pick me up, "knees" when my knees lock up, and just what ever I can think. He's been very good at understanding what I mean and giving what I need. I do regret that I let my past judge this person a bit harshly, but I don't regret saying what I felt and speaking up, and I'm glad we could work things out.

in other words yes I've had lots of fun.

So wait, you worked it out not with your Master but with some dude that you were talking about, who wanted to punish you for relating your feelings???

If so, may I ask how? Cause I was pissed on your behalf.

*goes to read up the thread a bit and see if there is an explanation here.*

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Happy Friday All..

Thank Goodness the weekend is finally here...So thankful for that...

inthewoods sorry you have had a shitty week..I hope that it gets better for you once your Master gets back...Here are a few *hugs* for you..Hope they may help some what.

Wench..Glad that you had a good time playing..And you learned some things along the way..That is wonderful!

Yes, thank GOD it's Friday and I can relax for a few days. Sorta.

*hugs, and for all! who want em*

Fury