Distance Domination-Support Thread

[littleone77]

You have both given my food for thought. He just introduced the possiblity of it tonight and nothing is set in stone yet. Its just that I am torn in several different, conflicting ways on the whole thing. But I think, when it comes right down do it, its about Trust. Simple Trust. Trust that He will understand and accept, me Trusting that fact, and knowing that I have tried it, and recovered mentally well enough so trying it once more won't be that bad.

Isn't there a rule, try everything in bed at least twice?

And I am really and truly glad I stumbled across this thread. It has helped me beyond words.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

You have both given my food for thought. He just introduced the possiblity of it tonight and nothing is set in stone yet. Its just that I am torn in several different, conflicting ways on the whole thing. But I think, when it comes right down do it, its about Trust. Simple Trust. Trust that He will understand and accept, me Trusting that fact, and knowing that I have tried it, and recovered mentally well enough so trying it once more won't be that bad.

Isn't there a rule, try everything in bed at least twice?

And I am really and truly glad I stumbled across this thread. It has helped me beyond words.

you never know though the next time you may not bounce back mentally 'well enough' it sounds like it's something that you really detest, i mean if it made you ill, that just doesn't sound like something i would be able to do again, regardless of who it was with. as i said though, i've got the same problem, and my answer thus far has been and as far as i know, will remain a 'no' simply because it hurts me, not in a good way, and so i've made it a 'hard limit' yes, as i said as a submissive it's hard for me to say 'no' to Him about this, and i feel terrible alot of the time, but i have to do what's safe for me also, and i know that He understands, but it doesn't make it any easier for ME to accept that there is something i just cannot physically do for Him. i'm rambling, because i'm tired, but i'm sure there is some sense in my words somewhere if you weed through them *sleepy grin*

 

[littleone77]

you never know though the next time you may not bounce back mentally 'well enough' it sounds like it's something that you really detest, i mean if it made you ill, that just doesn't sound like something i would be able to do again, regardless of who it was with. as i said though, i've got the same problem, and my answer thus far has been and as far as i know, will remain a 'no' simply because it hurts me, not in a good way, and so i've made it a 'hard limit' yes, as i said as a submissive it's hard for me to say 'no' to Him about this, and i feel terrible alot of the time, but i have to do what's safe for me also, and i know that He understands, but it doesn't make it any easier for ME to accept that there is something i just cannot physically do for Him. i'm rambling, because i'm tired, but i'm sure there is some sense in my words somewhere if you weed through them *sleepy grin*

*Joins you with a sleepy smile*

No weeding needed. I know its the sub in me popping out along with my devotion. Pre-Him the answer would be a flat out no. And the issue I have with it, is mental. Mental enough so that afterwords I react physically to it. For me and for most others its more than a bit taboo. So...yes I will share my thoughts/concerns, and hopefully we will find a medium on it. And if I do ended up trying it again, well...this time at least He is there to get me through it. This is the first time when something kinkwise has come up when we haven't agreed totally. (Well besides my interest in blood...maybe we could bargain, jk). K now I am rambling.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

*Joins you with a sleepy smile*

No weeding needed. I know its the sub in me popping out along with my devotion. Pre-Him the answer would be a flat out no. And the issue I have with it, is mental. Mental enough so that afterwords I react physically to it. For me and for most others its more than a bit taboo. So...yes I will share my thoughts/concerns, and hopefully we will find a medium on it. And if I do ended up trying it again, well...this time at least He is there to get me through it. This is the first time when something kinkwise has come up when we haven't agreed totally. (Well besides my interest in blood...maybe we could bargain, jk). K now I am rambling.

*giggles @ bargaining* good luck to you and i'm sure you will be able to find a medium. i'm glad you didn't need to weed through my words much to find some sense *smiles*

 

[Luciden]

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

 

[raven2]

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

Congratulations.

 

[neonflux]

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

Congratulations!!!

 

[Sprinkles22]

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

I know your excitement, Luciden

Altho He already had my collar, I knew about it, knew what it looked like ... He still made me wait until His timing was right to place it on me.

 

[littleone77]

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

I am soo happy for you!

 

[myinnerslut]

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

we want pictures!!!

 

[littleone77]

I have decided that at night I will no longer think

Just curious but does the closeness, the total immersion in Him, the lost of yourself, the intimacy of the wholeness ever scare you?

 

[BeBe81]

.......

I get my collars tomorrow!!! I'm so excited!

Congrats!

 

[ChromeCollar]

Just curious but does the closeness, the total immersion in Him, the lost of yourself, the intimacy of the wholeness ever scare you?

Only at first. The fear was a self protection mechanism, it will fade.

 

[Luciden]

Collars!!!

Just got my collars! The one with the cross is for everyday, the one with the chains is for Sir and I.

 

[myinnerslut]

Just got my collars! The one with the cross is for everyday, the one with the chains is for Sir and I.

VERY NICE!!!!



i still have to wait till my birthday, but im getting more excited every day

 

[Luciden]

VERY NICE!!!!



i still have to wait till my birthday, but im getting more excited every day

Thanks I'm so excited, I love them

 

[BeBe81]

.....

Just got my collars! The one with the cross is for everyday, the one with the chains is for Sir and I.

Oh..... very nice indeedy!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Just curious but does the closeness, the total immersion in Him, the lost of yourself, the intimacy of the wholeness ever scare you?

maybe at first a little bit.....but i LOVE those feelings now

 

[the captians wench]

OMG 5 days with out net have been misserable!

hopefully they'll be out to fix it tomarrow

I miss our play time, but I miss our chat time more.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Just got my collars! The one with the cross is for everyday, the one with the chains is for Sir and I.

Congratulations.

 

[raven2]

OMG 5 days with out net have been misserable!

hopefully they'll be out to fix it tomarrow

I miss our play time, but I miss our chat time more.

Glad to see you back.

 

[neonflux]

Just got my collars! The one with the cross is for everyday, the one with the chains is for Sir and I.

Congratulations, Luciden! Like the one with the chains - for some reason the cross on your everyday one didn't show up (too shadowed)

 

[Luciden]

Congratulations, Luciden! Like the one with the chains - for some reason the cross on your everyday one didn't show up (too shadowed)

*sniffle* yeh, the pictures are really dark. But, the cross has a silver/metal backing on it, and glued on black gems on the front. Very hot. ^_^

 

[the captians wench]

Glad to see you back.

Thanks, but it's limited...

I'm jacking mom's hot spot.

hopefully I'll be back full time soon.

 

[neonflux]

*sniffle* yeh, the pictures are really dark. But, the cross has a silver/metal backing on it, and glued on black gems on the front. Very hot. ^_^

Sounds stunning!

Oh, and welcome back Captains_Wench! Missed seeing your pink bottom on these boards.