discussion: how old is too old to still be a virgin?

[favritpuppy]

as my 20th creeps closer and closer, i can't help but continue to turn this question over in my mind. it's not like i'm not interested, i certainly have the sex drive for it, but i'm absolutely terrible at meeting people IRL! so i ask you, good people of literotica, at what point does it start to become downright embarrassing?

 

[LeinadVirgo]

I was in my early 20s when i lost mine. I had been sexually active before that, but not sex sex. I had also explored online plenty too, so it wasn't a mystery. But i wanted to wait to find the right one.

I didn't miss the years i had waited, i was busy with college and work and stuff. But I'm also glad i didn't wait longer. No finite cutoff point: wait till you're ready and willing, but after a point it will become more difficult to connect with people on the same level if you don't have shared life experiences.

 

[Saint_Ann]

as my 20th creeps closer and closer, i can't help but continue to turn this question over in my mind. it's not like i'm not interested, i certainly have the sex drive for it, but i'm absolutely terrible at meeting people IRL! so i ask you, good people of literotica, at what point does it start to become downright embarrassing?

You're wasting time that you will look back on and forever regret.

 

[Fiestykitten]

There is nothing wrong with your age and being a virgin. The right time for everyone is different. Losing your virginity is a big step, and you should make sure it contains mutual respect, understanding, tenderness, & care. The right time is when you feel you are ready and NOT a second before. It doesn't matter what age you are sweetie, what matters is all of the above. Make sure you're ready and you find the right partner. What is right for someone else may not be right for you. It doesn't matter how you do or when it's as long as YOU are comfortable and in your own time. I wish you the best!