Discouraged by butt plug experience but want to try anal again

[Cutjewel]

Hi there,

As the title pretty much explains, I had an anal encounter with an old boy friend a few years ago. It was one that you could pump up and expand once it was inside you. It gave you a very erotic feeling of pleasure but always tinged with a wonder if we were doing it safely.

After a few tries, it seemed to have an adverse affect post session. With a bit of bleeding (minimal but for a first time, a bit off putting).

I never did it again, but my thoughts seem to come back to it these years later. I'd love to try it again but with out that worry (or physical after effects?). Does anyone have any suggestions? Is it just a comes with practice thing? I see porn videos online with girls who have huge anus holes because of what I can only imagine I'd from practice? Am I right ir is there anything else to take into consideration?

I'm open to anything including alternatives.

 

[SpiritRider]

Not having any idea how you actually used the inflatable plug I can't answer if you were doing it safely, but I can tell you that the blood you experienced is not what I'd consider normal.
Did you try to much to soon? (over inflation)
Did you use it properly? (inside the canal, not at the sphincter)

The "huge anus holes" you mentioned can be from any number of things that have nothing to do with practice.

 

[Aedue]

Currently there are already a large number of threads on the board that give advice on how to prepare for and how to engage in anal for both partners. Try perusing one and see if that answers your question.

As a general rule of thumb though, if you are bleeding afterwards, that is not a good thing. Unlike the vaginal canal, the mucus membrane inside the anal canal is much thinner, does not self-lubricate, and is very liable to infection.

That said,

The "huge anus holes" you mentioned can be from any number of things that have nothing to do with practice.

Is half right. There are other ways to get to that point besides practice, but speaking from experience practice helps A LOT. Go slow, and don't try and push your body and over time you should be able to accommodate your partner (or a toy) and have that wonderful anal sex you were hoping for!

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Hi there,

As the title pretty much explains, I had an anal encounter with an old boy friend a few years ago. It was one that you could pump up and expand once it was inside you. It gave you a very erotic feeling of pleasure but always tinged with a wonder if we were doing it safely.

After a few tries, it seemed to have an adverse affect post session. With a bit of bleeding (minimal but for a first time, a bit off putting).

I never did it again, but my thoughts seem to come back to it these years later. I'd love to try it again but with out that worry (or physical after effects?). Does anyone have any suggestions? Is it just a comes with practice thing? I see porn videos online with girls who have huge anus holes because of what I can only imagine I'd from practice? Am I right ir is there anything else to take into consideration?

I'm open to anything including alternatives.

As mentioned, if it bled, you were probably trying to go too far too fast. Go VERY slow. Use LOTS of lube. The girls with gaping anuses have been doing this for a long time and most likely worked themselves up to that size with stretching exercises and gradually larger butt plugs. Be safe and have fun.