Disappointments................
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My sister just called. They caught the guy who did it. Well, didn't actually "catch" him. They killed him. I'm not sure how they traced it to him, but he apparently was a drifter. They went to a motel (across town from where her in-laws lived) and when they confronted him, he drew a gun on them (the cops) so they shot him and he died. There was a 15 year old boy with him whom the cops are questioning. Somehow they connected the murder of a 61 year old man with him, also. And....when they checked out his car, there was the body of an 80 year old man in the trunk!
Apparently this was a rather "random" thing, and they interrupted him as he was trying to break into their house.
I'm glad the murderer is known, but I wish he hadn't gotten off so lightly. Well, burning in hell isn't light, but you know what I mean. I wish he'd had to face justice here on earth. But God's justice is much better than any justice he would have faced here. And at least my sister and her family won't have to go through a long drawn out trial and everything.
I will know more later today or tomorrow; the police are having a news conference this afternoon. The autopsies are planned for today, also.
Thanks again for your prayers.
Apparently this was a rather "random" thing, and they interrupted him as he was trying to break into their house.
I'm glad the murderer is known, but I wish he hadn't gotten off so lightly. Well, burning in hell isn't light, but you know what I mean. I wish he'd had to face justice here on earth. But God's justice is much better than any justice he would have faced here. And at least my sister and her family won't have to go through a long drawn out trial and everything.
I will know more later today or tomorrow; the police are having a news conference this afternoon. The autopsies are planned for today, also.
Thanks again for your prayers.
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i am glad that they found out who did it...and you are so right Blue...no one's justice can compare to the Creator's...i know that isn't much comfort at this time but i want you to know that i am here if ya need me. hugs to ya'll, and ya'll are in my prayers....
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evenin bashful....how are ya?
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i am going to be out of town as well until sunday...so ya'll be at least really bad, cause if you are like me that means that you will be really good....
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Disappointments.......
Good morning to all......
After scanning through this thread I seem to be more confused and frustrated.
This problem does not seem to be limited to the female species. Over the past year I have encountered several females with promises of rocking my world only to be greatly dissappionted.
We would spend many months chatting, cybering, the picture exchange bullshit, and conversations over the phone only to find that they are in fact terrible lovers.
Against my better judgement recently I agreed to meet with someone I meet here on Literotica. After month's of open communication we meet. GOD, it was the most horrid evening. I could understand why her significant other was no longer interested in her!
Oh, yes she reached her multiple orgasms, legs weak, and was trembling. Me on the other hand ZERO! I didn't bother to fake a orgasm as I wanted her to sense that in fact she was a failure. Unfortunately I don't think the message got through. She had absolutley no idea how to excite a male and ladys we DON'T require much!
I personally am not a great supporter of sex!
I want more!
So how do you find that fantastic lover? Is there a book? Where do you meet people that truly know the meaning of pleasure? I am not interested in that 5 minute quickie that went out with high school! There boring as hell!
Whats the answer?
I know I given up!
Recently, I've found more excitement from my shower massager...
Just curious to hear an answer cause I'm totally lost...
Jaded1, CT
Really tired of kissing frogs.....
Good morning to all......
After scanning through this thread I seem to be more confused and frustrated.
This problem does not seem to be limited to the female species. Over the past year I have encountered several females with promises of rocking my world only to be greatly dissappionted.
We would spend many months chatting, cybering, the picture exchange bullshit, and conversations over the phone only to find that they are in fact terrible lovers.
Against my better judgement recently I agreed to meet with someone I meet here on Literotica. After month's of open communication we meet. GOD, it was the most horrid evening. I could understand why her significant other was no longer interested in her!
Oh, yes she reached her multiple orgasms, legs weak, and was trembling. Me on the other hand ZERO! I didn't bother to fake a orgasm as I wanted her to sense that in fact she was a failure. Unfortunately I don't think the message got through. She had absolutley no idea how to excite a male and ladys we DON'T require much!
I personally am not a great supporter of sex!
I want more!
So how do you find that fantastic lover? Is there a book? Where do you meet people that truly know the meaning of pleasure? I am not interested in that 5 minute quickie that went out with high school! There boring as hell!
Whats the answer?
I know I given up!
Recently, I've found more excitement from my shower massager...
Just curious to hear an answer cause I'm totally lost...
Jaded1, CT
Really tired of kissing frogs.....
mayi
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to jaded 1
this is my small take on things......we lead ourselves to disappointments. the computer age comes with it's own set of rules and until one can figure out those rules heartache is the norm. first one must distinguish the difference between sex and love. having sex is not making love. having a great lover comes with time and understanding. what makes a great lover is one who is willing to think of only your wants and needs, knowing that in the end, they will have their wants and needs fulfilled. this does not happen when two people can not meet in person. thus the rules to the computer age. computers allow you to meet large numbers of people who might draw your interest, but the rest of it is far from reality. the computer gives us the oppturnity to express ourselves in a way that we could not or would not in real life. it gives us another idenity that will never allow us to get hurt by our feelings or self expression.
is there love on-line, yes i still think it is possible. but one must be willing to take that real risk and know that it is not a sure thing, you will have toads that are toads.......but you will also have one toad that turns out to be the prince or princess you want. never give up on happiness..........never give up on yourself.......never give up on life. it may not happen today or tomorrow, but one day it will happen and all the things leading up to it will make it that much sweeter.
jaded 1 and anyone else who reads this......yes i have been hurt by what i thought was the truth, but it has made me stronger and wiser........with wisdom comes strength and with strength i am a better person.
love comes when you are ready to accept it and cherish it. just be understanding when it does not end the way you want it to.
my best wishes to you.
this is my small take on things......we lead ourselves to disappointments. the computer age comes with it's own set of rules and until one can figure out those rules heartache is the norm. first one must distinguish the difference between sex and love. having sex is not making love. having a great lover comes with time and understanding. what makes a great lover is one who is willing to think of only your wants and needs, knowing that in the end, they will have their wants and needs fulfilled. this does not happen when two people can not meet in person. thus the rules to the computer age. computers allow you to meet large numbers of people who might draw your interest, but the rest of it is far from reality. the computer gives us the oppturnity to express ourselves in a way that we could not or would not in real life. it gives us another idenity that will never allow us to get hurt by our feelings or self expression.
is there love on-line, yes i still think it is possible. but one must be willing to take that real risk and know that it is not a sure thing, you will have toads that are toads.......but you will also have one toad that turns out to be the prince or princess you want. never give up on happiness..........never give up on yourself.......never give up on life. it may not happen today or tomorrow, but one day it will happen and all the things leading up to it will make it that much sweeter.
jaded 1 and anyone else who reads this......yes i have been hurt by what i thought was the truth, but it has made me stronger and wiser........with wisdom comes strength and with strength i am a better person.
love comes when you are ready to accept it and cherish it. just be understanding when it does not end the way you want it to.
my best wishes to you.
Jaded1
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Disappiontments....
Good afternoon, Mayi............
You are with out dought a intelligent woman and your words speak of beauty.
However, it is perhaps I have just kissed to many dam frogs and no princess recently.
I most definitely know the difference between sex and making love!
I guess that my quest for that sensual, caring, trusting, erotic, and passionate person has come to an end for me.
It is always nice to have a special someone to share life with!
But, it is not a necessity!
Jaded1, CT
Good afternoon, Mayi............
You are with out dought a intelligent woman and your words speak of beauty.
However, it is perhaps I have just kissed to many dam frogs and no princess recently.
I most definitely know the difference between sex and making love!
I guess that my quest for that sensual, caring, trusting, erotic, and passionate person has come to an end for me.
It is always nice to have a special someone to share life with!
But, it is not a necessity!
Jaded1, CT
mayi
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we must share our lives...........we are here because we are looking for just that. but your quest will never end until the space in your heart is filled. i can only wish you the best for no one knows what tomorrow will bring, just never stop kissing the toads, never stop believing in love and that princess will be there for you.
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bashfull said:Well said, darlin'. And it is the expectations that kill us. Expect nothing and always be pleasantly surprised.
Bash
thank you bash, but like i said, just my small thoughts........you are correct about expectations, that is why i have learned not to expect much and be greatful for what is offered.
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here is a disappointment for you.........when someone you think of as your best friend and confident hurts you in a way you never thought possible.......when this person takes all your dreams and desires and uses them against you...........i can not imagine anything more disappointing.........it sadders my heart.
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bashfull said:There is truth to the saying "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer."
Bash
not sure i like you take on things......that would mean i would have enemies so close that true friends would never see me or find me.......or want to get close to me.....
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no mayi, i don't think that is what he meant with that...because a really true friend would never do that to someone that they care about.
Jaded1...like mayi said, don't give up...but be sure that you know what you are looking for...perfection is something that we all want and i don't think that any one of us is totally capable of. you are right in this is not just limited to the female sex of the species...believe me.
bash, thank you for being "just you".
thanks Blue, i went, i saw, i conquered...and i barely made it home again. we have about 18 inches of snow on the ground at the moment and the roads are a true mess....
Jaded1...like mayi said, don't give up...but be sure that you know what you are looking for...perfection is something that we all want and i don't think that any one of us is totally capable of. you are right in this is not just limited to the female sex of the species...believe me.
bash, thank you for being "just you".
thanks Blue, i went, i saw, i conquered...and i barely made it home again. we have about 18 inches of snow on the ground at the moment and the roads are a true mess....
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Hi Everyone.....I'm home.
NA, glad you made it home safely. Hope you had a good time, or whatever you made the trip for.
Damn...I NEVER want to go through a week like that again. Last week nearly killed me. And the actual funeral wasn't much better. 2 hearses, 2 caskets....closed, out of necessity. Hard to feel closure.
This week won't be much fun, either. I've got my knee surgery on Friday. Oh, joy! NOT!
OK....my .02 worth on the current topic of discussion.
Jaded1...hi...don't think I've chatted with you before; nice to "meet" you. I'm kind of bossy and opinionated, but you'll learn to love me just like Bash has. LOL! Just kidding. Well, not about the bossy and opinionated part.
Mayi.....that was very insightful. You made very good points. And I'm so sorry that you got burned by someone who you thought was a friend.
Bash.....good comment about friends and enemies.
OK.....now on to my take on the topic. Jaded1, I'm sorry that you got "screwed", so to speak. May I ask what it was that made her such a bad lover? You don't have to give details, of course....just curious about generalities. I assume that she took without giving. Was she just bad at what she did, or didn't she "do" anything? Or did she just lay there like a dead fish?
If I'm asking too much, forgive me. Add "nosy" and "obnoxious" to my list of qualities(?) I listed above.
NA, glad you made it home safely. Hope you had a good time, or whatever you made the trip for.
Damn...I NEVER want to go through a week like that again. Last week nearly killed me. And the actual funeral wasn't much better. 2 hearses, 2 caskets....closed, out of necessity. Hard to feel closure.
This week won't be much fun, either. I've got my knee surgery on Friday. Oh, joy! NOT!
OK....my .02 worth on the current topic of discussion.
Jaded1...hi...don't think I've chatted with you before; nice to "meet" you. I'm kind of bossy and opinionated, but you'll learn to love me just like Bash has. LOL! Just kidding. Well, not about the bossy and opinionated part.
Mayi.....that was very insightful. You made very good points. And I'm so sorry that you got burned by someone who you thought was a friend.
Bash.....good comment about friends and enemies.
OK.....now on to my take on the topic. Jaded1, I'm sorry that you got "screwed", so to speak. May I ask what it was that made her such a bad lover? You don't have to give details, of course....just curious about generalities. I assume that she took without giving. Was she just bad at what she did, or didn't she "do" anything? Or did she just lay there like a dead fish?
If I'm asking too much, forgive me. Add "nosy" and "obnoxious" to my list of qualities(?) I listed above.
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Afternoon, ladies...
NA~welcome back, darlin'. Hope your weekend was, ahem, productive. Care to share?
Blue~Howdy, hon. {{{{Blue}}}} We'll help you get through this. Just holler and I'll come running.
Mayi~Ever read "The Art of War"? That saying is thousands of years old and most appropriate. Means cherish your friends and always know where your enemies are and what they are doing.
Jaded~I still hold to "Expect nothing and always be pleasantly surprised". Have you spoken with her since? And is she on Lit and seen your posts?
Bash
NA~welcome back, darlin'. Hope your weekend was, ahem, productive. Care to share?
Blue~Howdy, hon. {{{{Blue}}}} We'll help you get through this. Just holler and I'll come running.
Mayi~Ever read "The Art of War"? That saying is thousands of years old and most appropriate. Means cherish your friends and always know where your enemies are and what they are doing.
Jaded~I still hold to "Expect nothing and always be pleasantly surprised". Have you spoken with her since? And is she on Lit and seen your posts?
Bash
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Jaded 1-better add those qualities to my list too. i tend to agree with both Blue. i would have to know more to make a judgement on whole situation...
thanks Blue and i was truly beginning to wonder if i was ever going to make it home...the roads (including interstate) was nothing short of a health hazard here and some still are. got a phone call a little while ago from a friend and we are going a little later to dig her out...seems that is what i have spent the morning doing. digging someone out....ahhh well, good workout for me...
just what would ya like to know there bashful? yes, i am going to make you come right out and ask...best way that i know of for you to get over being so bashful...
thanks Blue and i was truly beginning to wonder if i was ever going to make it home...the roads (including interstate) was nothing short of a health hazard here and some still are. got a phone call a little while ago from a friend and we are going a little later to dig her out...seems that is what i have spent the morning doing. digging someone out....ahhh well, good workout for me...
just what would ya like to know there bashful? yes, i am going to make you come right out and ask...best way that i know of for you to get over being so bashful...
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actually, i had a great time, we talked and cuddled alot...he values my opinion on computers so we went shopping and got him a new tower...we met with gottabeme for brunch and she and i went shopping (he was a good guy about it and patiently waited for us).
we played some poker and some pokeim...
i needed the break, and yesterday i spent the day shovelling the neighbors out and helping to push cars out of the snow banks.
c'mon bashful, you know you want to know more....
we played some poker and some pokeim...
i needed the break, and yesterday i spent the day shovelling the neighbors out and helping to push cars out of the snow banks.
c'mon bashful, you know you want to know more....
