I was wondering if there were any Dominants out there besides myself who were or are disabled to the point of needing to use wheelchairs or other devices to be mobile?
It has brought an odd flavore if you will to have the one who serves me be the one who I must rely on to serve me to even get out of bed or do daily activities. She serves me as a slave and then as a Help mate, physically taking care of me. In some cases she has had to go beyond herself as a slave / wife to take care of me and then find her way back into the role we chose.
In case you don't know, I have alot of respect for my wife / slave.
Our Marriage was for US the commitment to each other as not only husband and wife but Master and slave. The ring she wears IS her collar. I call her wife and she calls me Sir~ . Neither of have used our given names in years. It helps us survive life together. That included a time when we were homeless. While during that time the sexual physical contact was not available, our commitment to each other and our rolls deepened. Since the children came along we also call each other Husband and wife. Becoming dependant on her for physical care also deepened my respect for her and her commitment to her role.
For me it has presented challenges in rope works making sure the knots are easily accessible and that equipment is made in a way to ensure ease of use yet be suitable for the task. It was difficult at first to adjust to being dependant on one who I was in control of, yet in someways now looking back it makes sense. I also put alot more thought into scenes and situations than I did before. Now that I am healthier again it makes me look back and appreciate the road we traveled together side by side.
It has brought an odd flavore if you will to have the one who serves me be the one who I must rely on to serve me to even get out of bed or do daily activities. She serves me as a slave and then as a Help mate, physically taking care of me. In some cases she has had to go beyond herself as a slave / wife to take care of me and then find her way back into the role we chose.
In case you don't know, I have alot of respect for my wife / slave.
Our Marriage was for US the commitment to each other as not only husband and wife but Master and slave. The ring she wears IS her collar. I call her wife and she calls me Sir~ . Neither of have used our given names in years. It helps us survive life together. That included a time when we were homeless. While during that time the sexual physical contact was not available, our commitment to each other and our rolls deepened. Since the children came along we also call each other Husband and wife. Becoming dependant on her for physical care also deepened my respect for her and her commitment to her role.
For me it has presented challenges in rope works making sure the knots are easily accessible and that equipment is made in a way to ensure ease of use yet be suitable for the task. It was difficult at first to adjust to being dependant on one who I was in control of, yet in someways now looking back it makes sense. I also put alot more thought into scenes and situations than I did before. Now that I am healthier again it makes me look back and appreciate the road we traveled together side by side.
