Dirrrty talk???

[fotomattfun]

My favorite 'dirty' word is "pussy". My wife hates that word, so I don't get to use it, which really bums me out. I don't really have an alternate term for it that I like.

 

[funkygreeneyedlady]

how about...

My favorite 'dirty' word is "pussy". My wife hates that word, so I don't get to use it, which really bums me out. I don't really have an alternate term for it that I like.

There's all sorts of other alternatives...
-you can just call it her 'sex' - but use you're deep lust-filled voice
-cunt?
-love box?
-kitty
-slit

along with these you could add just talking about the parts of her vagina...
like Clit, her wet juices, talk about her taste/smell and what it does to you....

Have you asked her what her aversion is to you using "pussy"? Perhaps also ask what she likes to hear?

 

[funkygreeneyedlady]

What's some good dirty talk? As a guy, I find it difficult to do it without feeling weird. It tends to feel awkward when I stray outside of the "yeah" and "you're my f-ckdoll" realm (even though it seems to do the trick more often than not). What do other guys out there say?

And on a similar note - what's the hottest dirty line your husband or wife has said during the act? if i get enough responses, i'll reveal mine...

- I have loads! I am one of those people that gets almost too carried away... I talk, cuss up a storm... heck I can probably chase the worse sailor with his hands over his ears out of the sauciest bar! I am a potty mouth - and I LOVE it!

Let's see....

just this evening I said something along the lines of:
"Fuck ME! HARDER! Fuck my pussy, yeah baby... just like that! OH FUCK BABY, I love you're cock slamming my pussy... yeah just like that!"
"I want your cock in my mouth! Fuck my mouth!"
"Are you my NASTY boy?" "You like being my nasty boy?"
-or- "I'm your nasty girl.... I've been bad!"
"Suck my titties... harder! HARDER! yeah - FUCK!!!"

I also talk about things like:
-How wet my pussy is for my husband.
-how I love squeezing his cock with my juicy cunt"

I also am vocal with my sounds... if I feel like I need to sound like an animal or whimper or push my body into his body parts... then I do it... meanwhile also using my words as I feel needed.

As for my husband, he's a bit more subtle (so to speak) - but when he get's 'into' it, he'll tell me how good my pussy is, how he enjoys fucking me with his cock! How much his cock craves my pussy...
I love feeling his control, so he'll add a deep voice, licking, biting and breathing nasty words about my cunt/pussy, what he's going to do to me, or as he's fucking my mouth he'll tell me how fucking beautiful my mouth looks as he fucks me...
He'll pull me hair and tell me how much he loves his nasty slut; he struggles with calling me a slut... but, when he's in the right place he says it and it has meaning...

with all that being said... my husband is very introverted normally, he is a quiet man, and I am the extrovert, loud and vocal... however, over the years I am more reserved in "normal" settings... I just have found the place that I feel comfortable with... it took him a bit longer... I also talked to him about it... telling him and reinforcing my desire to hear him seemed to help him over his issues with cursing or calling me names he'd never ever call me in a regular setting... he's never even cussed me in a fight... in our normal day-to-day life --- he doesn't seem to know how to curse---I hate to admit this, but, I tend to get a good laugh at his expense when he feels necessary to get upset - like with someone showing road rage and he attempts something similar back... he's like a little kid trying to curse and knowing they will get in trouble and really not sure how to use said word --- any ways... hope some of this helps?

 

[ReverendAnimal]

with the others, in that it should be taking place during the event. : ) And I especially agree with Sub, who says to graphically describe... such as: I'm going to lick your thick hard cock from bottom to top and get it nice and wet then I'm going to swirl my tongue around the head while I play with your bottom....would you like that?

Yes, please.

 

[ReverendAnimal]

Vulva.

Mulva?

 

[ReverendAnimal]

Does shouting "I WIN!" if you cum first count? 'Cause that gets my wife really hot!

Remembering my first time...
I was too shy/inhibited to speak up... I was pretty quiet (but not creepily silent). But she was kind of chatty... "My nipples love to be bitten." those words are imprinted indelibly in my mind. *sigh*.
She said a few times, "Oh, FUCK me! Fuck me!", and a very silly part of my brain urged me to say, "I *am*, goddammit!" But I refrained.

 

[CNYCarol]

There's all sorts of other alternatives...
-you can just call it her 'sex' - but use you're deep lust-filled voice
-cunt?
-love box?
-kitty
-slit

along with these you could add just talking about the parts of her vagina...
like Clit, her wet juices, talk about her taste/smell and what it does to you....

Have you asked her what her aversion is to you using "pussy"? Perhaps also ask what she likes to hear?

Now CUNT is THE one word you can leave out!

I have never met a woman that approves of it!

...but Pussy? that's what I call it.

 

[fotomattfun]

There's all sorts of other alternatives...
-you can just call it her 'sex' - but use you're deep lust-filled voice
-cunt?
-love box?
-kitty
-slit

along with these you could add just talking about the parts of her vagina...
like Clit, her wet juices, talk about her taste/smell and what it does to you....

Have you asked her what her aversion is to you using "pussy"? Perhaps also ask what she likes to hear?

Yeah, CUNT is definately not her thing. Saying PUSSY will get a negative reaction from her. Saying CUNT will get me thrown out of bed.

To me, PUSSY is the ultimate word, and anything else just falls short.

I've asked her why she doesn't like the word PUSSY, and she just says that she doesn't like it - she doesn't offer up a reason. I've tried talking about it on different occasions, but the more I did, the more iritated she has become with the subject. I just have to accept that PUSSY is not in her vocabulary.

So I just tend to talk about it without referring directly to it. Like, "You feel so hot and wet..." instead of "Your pussy feels so hot and wet..."

My wife is hard to get. In some ways, she's very open about stuff, and in others, she's very conservative/reserved.

 

[infinity706]

Now CUNT is THE one word you can leave out!

I have never met a woman that approves of it!

...but Pussy? that's what I call it.

Well, cunt is a highly polarizing word. Most of the time, it's one of someone's favorite words or else, they can't stand it. I even have a few female friends that like being called a cunt in the right context. Of course, it also depends on how open you are about letting her call you whatever she wants.

 

[Falwless]

I would defiinitely start out a bit more "safe," without using too much vulgarity. Test her response. If she's into it, keep it going...

Start out with compliments:
"God you feel so good, baby."
"You are so nice and tight, I love being inside you."
"Mmm, you make me so damn hard."
"If you only knew how sexy you look right now."

If she starts to moan and/or encourage the talking, you can begin to get dirtier..

"Does that hard cock feel good, hm?"
"God your pussy is so wet and warm, I am so fucking hot for you right now."
"You're such a hot little slut, how can I resist sticking my cock in that hot hole?"
"Tell me how much you need my cock."
"You gonna be a good girl and let me fuck you hard?"
"You like it when I pound you like this? You like it, you dirty little slut?"

I, for one, am so much more turned on by a guy who talks dirty during than one who's silent. It intensifies the pleasure immensely..

 

[Sanichi]

Mulva?

Delores!

And if anybody wondered: Ross talks dirty. But this other stuff is good, too.

 

[his_lil_secret]

There's something to be said for a lover who can get me off with his/her words as much his/her body.
I am personally a huge fan of "dirty talk". The more graphic and lust filled the better, but please...please don't practice it so much it comes out sounding rehearsed. Also if it makes you uncomfortable then don't say it! I once had a lover who tried very hard to get dirty with me but it made him so squemish all I got was this very robotic..."Yeah, you like it when I fuck you hard don't you." when he was to embarrased to even look me in the eyes. Turned me off in the worst way.
Here are a few of my favorites:
~"What does that have to do with anything. You're out of the house. You're mine!" growled into a voicemail. I was dripping by the time I left the store!
~Mmmmm...more. Give me more of that beautiful pussy.
~ Don't act shy now. Take every inch of my cock and drain it like a good girl.
~Cum....more...harder! I want my cock dripping with your juices.
~Turn over. I want that ass!

See what feels right to you and your partner and then just relax bout it. You'll probably be suprised by how hot it gets you both.

 

[Kojote]

You guys can’t even come close to imagining how funny some of those things would sound, if translated to german.
I would totally use the given words or phrases in English, but never ever translated.
Be glad, that your language suits to dirty talking…

Personally I made the experience that it is important how often you use a word in day to day life.
I use the german equivalent of slut fairly often and she knows, that it doesn’t mean much to me.
But ‘whore’ works pretty well…
And; knowing that I nearly hate the cheesy sound of most of those german counterparts for pussy, slit or cunt; she can get off pretty quick, when I get into it enough to use them anyway.

PS:

She said a few times, "Oh, FUCK me! Fuck me!", and a very silly part of my brain urged me to say, "I *am*, goddammit!" But I refrained.

This one left me chuckling for a while.

 

[MrSkin]

Most women I've been with love when you talk dirty to them but different levels for different women depending on what they're comfortable with. It's all about communication and honesty imo

Yup, I definitely agree. I've been with some women who get into being called nasty names and a few who like bringing a fantasy lover into our love making.

I'm not much for being nasty and rude, but creating fantasies while sexing up a partner is very arousing for me. Talking about other men or women being in the room watching or touching works well too.

I love probing a woman's mind and learning what kinks make her twitch.

 

[zanderstar]

I like to stick to the in the moment stuff. but if im with a gf at the time the line i get alot of gloosy eyed responses is. thats your or this is all yours. just leting them know that your everything is theres. this also helps when u wanna set the mood. in my experince that is..... as lil as it may be

 

[Wizard]

I'd talk first like the others have said but we too enjoy dirty talk, it makes this hot and erotic as hell. I get so turned on hearing her talk dirty to me...

 

[JJgirl]

i always like to hear what turn a guy on- specifically, what he likes about what I"M doing or something about me... also inspires me to do more for him! : )