Directed Masturbation...

Only if he were there....giving the instructions at the moment. Not so much if I had to receive the instruction in advance...act it out...and then report it.
 
Only if he were there....giving the instructions at the moment. Not so much if I had to receive the instruction in advance...act it out...and then report it.

It's the real time aspect of it that makes it fun, it's best done by voice. This way you can get the feedback from the nice little noises, the breathing, sighing, moans, etc.
 
It's the real time aspect of it that makes it fun, it's best done by voice. This way you can get the feedback from the nice little noises, the breathing, sighing, moans, etc.

YES! Hearing his voice, obeying his direction and orgasming perfectly for him.
 
It's the real time aspect of it that makes it fun, it's best done by voice. This way you can get the feedback from the nice little noises, the breathing, sighing, moans, etc.

Oh God! This is fantastic and exactly what I love about the phone. The idea of him whispering in your ear, telling you what to do, listening the whole time, hearing his breathing increase, his own moans joining yours. Love it!
 
Only if he were there....giving the instructions at the moment. Not so much if I had to receive the instruction in advance...act it out...and then report it.

Well, I have to say I've done more of the "offline" variety... but I think each has its advantages... probably a mixture of the two is best.

For instance, a task can be assigned to start the day with a nice shower during which fingers are inserted up asshole and pussy.. followed by a full day of keeping yourself in a state of near-orgasm by following a set of instructions.. with an explicit prohibition to cum... until the end of the day, when on getting home you get a phone call where you have to describe how everything went... and get instructions to take you all the way.

So offline + orgasm denial + online... Sounds like a plan!! :D
 
Masturbation, to much masturbation going on.

Not sure I would like being told what to do, but wouldn't mind instructing a nice lady while we mutually masturbate.
 
would love to have directions from a lady. would be happy to make her an audio tape as I obey her instructions. Her instructions could be audio (best) or written
 
Guided masturbation is always a good time! Provided....both parties have to be equal parts sub and dom or it takes on a one-sided quality....which others might like. :)
 
It's important that the guide should be well aware of the very specific turn-ons and turn-offs of the subject.
Both parties must clarify their fetishes before they begin.
 
Is this thread still alive?

Ought to be.

A woman turned on by being told what to do ---- that turns me on tremendously.

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I once had a Lit lady PM me because she understood from something I'd posted that I was willing to provide such instructions to a compatible partner. Well, it turned out we were pretty compatible and I did indeed send her a set of instructions that she obeyed with enthusiasm (and subsequently sent me a detailed report of the experience).

I'm afraid that was about as far as the relationship got, though, because she was committed to someone else and she understood something that I have emphasized in private communications to a number of Litizens of both genders: a relationship that includes performing sexual acts at another's direction constitutes a sexual relationship.
 
I once had a Lit lady PM me because she understood from something I'd posted that I was willing to provide such instructions to a compatible partner. Well, it turned out we were pretty compatible and I did indeed send her a set of instructions that she obeyed with enthusiasm (and subsequently sent me a detailed report of the experience).

I'm afraid that was about as far as the relationship got, though, because she was committed to someone else and she understood something that I have emphasized in private communications to a number of Litizens of both genders: a relationship that includes performing sexual acts at another's direction constitutes a sexual relationship.

It was just one time?
 
It was just one time?

It was just one time with that particular lady. There have been other partners who have lasted significantly longer.

The point I was trying to make was that she did an intelligent thing: she thought about what she was getting into before it went very far, and realized that it wasn't compatible with her values.

Am I saying that people shouldn't look for relationships that include directed masturbation or any other sexual activity that might interest them? Of course not. But I've seen a lot of people in here start to "explore" with hardly a care, only to realize that the sexuality and the emotions involved in an online relationship are still very real.
 
I love hearing/reading what a guy or gal wants me to do, in explicit detail.
 
I love hearing/reading what a guy or gal wants me to do, in explicit detail.
open ur legs just wide enough for me to watch ... slowly rub ur right middle finger on ur slit up and down ... and keep ur left hand on ur breasts so tht nipples r not visible ...
 
it has been a while since I have. been on cam for both male and female. have had balls tied and brought to edge a few times. waiting to hear if and when I could orgasm.
a lot of fun to do. I even had the pleasure of watching and commanding others.
nice way to enjoy the day
 
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