Directed Masturbation...

[Kudram123]

I think this thread deserves a little bump

Also, lately I have found a craving to direct masturbation as well.
To contol and to instruct a woman towards her orgasm is really hot for me.

What I find most amazing, is that sometimes together we come up with things that she has never done before while playing "solo" and that gives her a mind shattering orgasm.

 

[gabriel16]

love

I love telling a lover how to masturbate for me, as I watch her

 

[Blase]

I remember - quite a few years ago, now - when cybersex meant meeting a girl in a chatroom and spinning a story collaboratively. One time, I met a girl and gradually drew her into a sexy scene. Nothing unusual about that, but when we got to the part where I wrote about intercourse with the girl at some length and then asked her if she'd come, she said "Almost" and I had to continue with typing my written thrusts for another minute or so.

Once the scene did end, we talked awhile longer and she said some surprising things. To wit, she told me that she had only intended to clean chat, but that the gentleness and eroticism of my writing had drawn her not only into writing a full-blown story of seduction with me, but to masturbating in real life as we typed to each other; thus her statement that she hadn't quite reached her climax when I asked, thinking that we were sharing only imagination.

Of course I can't prove that she really had done as she said, but that was the first time that I got the idea of directing a girl's actions online.

Since then, I've directed girls on Lit via PM (painfully slow because both parties have to keep hitting "refresh" in order to see the next direction or response), via IM (much faster, and better, to my taste, though some people do prefer the slower pace of PMs), via IM while the girl was on cam (need I say how much the visual element adds?) and over the phone (need I explain the visceral dimension that being able to purr my dark commands into a girl's ear and hear her gasp and moan as she obeys me brings to the experience?) I really must try Skype at some point and combine the audio with the visual.

Anyway, I was going somewhere with all of this...

Oh, yes. Love this thread. Love directing.

Love you, girls.

Love your sweetness. Love your softness. Love your obedience.

Love you lying unclothed in the dark; no need to be anything except female; no need to do anything except what you're told...

 

[talldad1]

I remember - quite a few years ago, now - when cybersex meant meeting a girl in a chatroom and spinning a story collaboratively. One time, I met a girl and gradually drew her into a sexy scene. Nothing unusual about that, but when we got to the part where I was wrote about intercourse with the girl at some length and then asked her if she'd come, she said "Almost" and I had to continue with typing my written thrusts for another minute or so.

Once the scene did end, we talked awhile longer and she said some surprising things. To wit, she told me that she had only intended to clean chat, but that the gentleness and eroticism of my writing had drawn her not only into writing a full-blown story of seduction with me, but to masturbating in real life as we typed to each other; thus her statement that she hadn't quite reached her climax when I asked, thinking that we were sharing only imagination.

Of course I can't prove that she really had done as she said, but that was the first time that I got the idea of directing a girl's actions online.

Since then, I've directed girls on Lit via PM (painfully slow because both parties have to keep hitting "refresh" in order to see the next direction or response), via IM (much faster, and better, to my taste, though some people do prefer the slower pace of PMs), via IM while the girl was on cam (need I say how much the visual element adds?) and over the phone (need I explain the visceral dimension that being able to purr my dark commands into a girl's ear and hear her gasp and moan as she obeys me brings to the experience?) I really must try Skype at some point and combine the audio with the visual.

Anyway, I was going somewhere with all of this...

Oh, yes. Love this thread. Love directing.

Love you, girls.

Love your sweetness. Love your softness. Love your obedience.

Love you lying unclothed in the dark; no need to be anything except female; no need to do anything except what you're told...

udaman, hope you find some women who want your direction, you sound like you would be amazing at it.

 

[Blase]

Thanks, Talldad. My partners' comments have been pretty complimentary overall.

A lot of what makes it "amazing" is finding the right partner. I flatter myself to think that I have a penchant for crafting subtle yet vivid images - and what I'm hoping for is the girl who can't get those images out of her mind because she keeps seeing *herself* as the girl in the picture; the girl given up and given over... to me.

 

[kinkysam742]

I'm glad there is so much interest in this!

 

[talldad1]

Thanks, Talldad. My partners' comments have been pretty complimentary overall.

A lot of what makes it "amazing" is finding the right partner. I flatter myself to think that I have a penchant for crafting subtle yet vivid images - and what I'm hoping for is the girl who can't get them out of her mind because she keeps seeing *herself* as the girl I'm talking about; the girl given up and given over... to me...

Very nice, well a girl would be lucky to speak with you about such things. I'm sure you have built many a lovely girl to an epic orgasm. And I hope you will be able to please many more.

 

[Cherry_Rose]

one good bump deserves another....

 

[jfalstaff72]

Wow....

It's been a long while since I checked this forum... so I was pleasantly surprised to see this thread near the top again.

Really glad to see that this thread got revived, and that people are enjoying talking about one of my areas of interest...

Anyway, without naming names, I can say that I've had some very rewarding sessions with a few women who share this interest...

Just to share some experiences, a pretty basic scenario which seems to be quite popular is as follows...


Go to bed with your wet panties on after having read this message... lie on the bed face down, wearing only your panties and a pair of high heeled shoes...

Then imagine I am standing behind the bed... I want to see both your hands inside your panties.... Fuck your fingers, slowly at first... Then faster... I want to see that ass move up and down... Then raise your ass up in the air, but keeping your shoulders and head down on the bed... Keep rubbing your pussy with one hand.. Take the other to your mouth and taste your pussy juices.... Make it very wet with saliva...

Then take one finger and gently press it against your anus... Move the panties out of the way and spread your cheeks so I can see... You dont need to get inside your ass just now... But I want you to feel the pressure there as you cum....

And don't forget to tell me how it went!!!

JF

 

[angelbabe8907]

First Time...

Well the first time I ever masturbated it was directed.. I was a sheltered kid and it was over webcam.. I liked being told exactly what to do especially since I hadn't done it before. So being told what to do and it being my first time were both things that made it very memorable!!

 

[Blase]

Wow. Hot, Angelbabe.

Although a girl who had never masturbated before would almost certainly be too young for me.

Being a girl's first on cam is another matter, though.

 

[aliasmanxxx]

*****

 

[Cherry_Rose]

I am so craving this right now

telling or being told?

 

[willbethere]

I love the idea of this thread, being directed sounds so hot!

 

[timeonmyhands]

Very glad I didn't miss this thread! I love hearing/reading what a guy wants me to do, in explicit detail. Sooo very good!

 

[aim2plz412]

It's the control aspect. I love bringing my lover to the brink, and then directing her to stop.

 

[Kudram123]

Well the first time I ever masturbated it was directed.. I was a sheltered kid and it was over webcam.. I liked being told exactly what to do especially since I hadn't done it before. So being told what to do and it being my first time were both things that made it very memorable!!

Hmmm, now that sounds hot!

Very glad I didn't miss this thread! I love hearing/reading what a guy wants me to do, in explicit detail. Sooo very good!

Do you only like reading, or do you follow it to the letter also

It's the control aspect. I love bringing my lover to the brink, and then directing her to stop.

I do love the control aspect of it as well.
I also like pushing a person to beyond what they thought was possible.

 

[Lexi_6]

ooh!

*pouting* .........I so was hoping to find a list of commands..........

 

[SpicyVixen]

Being directed is very arousing. I love it esp when they bring me very close to cumming then tell me to stop in a sexy commanding voice...not letting me cum until they want me to as they keep telling me exactly what they want me to do. Mmmmm I get excited just thinking about it.

 

[Blase]

*pouting* .........I so was hoping to find a list of commands..........

And I don't doubt that someone will shortly put one up for you, Lexi. Not me, however: I'm long past the point where generic commands to people I haven't met (at least virtually) hold any real interest.

PM me sometime though and, especially if we can manage to get online together, I'll command you in a very personal way.

 

[andyomama66]

when you are directed...

Being directed is very arousing. I love it esp when they bring me very close to cumming then tell me to stop in a sexy commanding voice...not letting me cum until they want me to as they keep telling me exactly what they want me to do. Mmmmm I get excited just thinking about it.

SV,

...when you are directed to stop playing...just short of an O,
a. does your director ever just abandon you, and
b. do you ever have any trouble ramping back up and completing?

 

[SpicyVixen]

SV,

...when you are directed to stop playing...just short of an O,
a. does your director ever just abandon you, and
b. do you ever have any trouble ramping back up and completing?

A. I had one stop all together but then he made up for it later.

B. Nope, It's called edging. I love to be brought to the edge of an orgasm and then made to back off...When I do get to finally cum, I cum so much harder.

 

[andyomama66]

Edging, of course. Thanks for the vocabulary lesson.

This edging and the ability to return and cum harder: do you think that's universal? I am dying to try that with my little fucktoy. She so loves to play per my direction. It'd be a nice little feather in my cap of domination that I'm slowly weaving.

 

[SpicyVixen]

Edging, of course. Thanks for the vocabulary lesson.

This edging and the ability to return and cum harder: do you think that's universal? I am dying to try that with my little fucktoy. She so loves to play per my direction. It'd be a nice little feather in my cap of domination that I'm slowly weaving.

Only one way to find out...try it with her. Come share with us how its goes if you do

 

[andyomama66]

She's quite capable of many Os in one extended session, so in a way, it's almost a shame to deny her. But then again, a little shame -- like 'dirtiness' -- surrounding sex would likely add to the experience. Just imagining her pouty face when I grab her hands and deny her.

You've got me fired up. I cannot wait to 'edge' her.