Directed Masturbation...

[andyomama66]

and, will be certain...

Only one way to find out...try it with her. Come share with us how its goes if you do

...I'll definitely share the outcum.

 

[ixx25]

Very glad to see that this thread has come back to life, as it is one of my favorite topics.

I have found that directed masturbation works especially well when combined with an element of teasing and control. I absolutely love being in control of a submissive woman as she masturbates to my explicit directions. Telling her exactly where to touch herself, and when, and how... and making sure she knows that she is not allowed to cum until she is given permission. Building up her arousal until she is on that delicious edge of an orgasm, getting her to the point where she is begging for relief....

When done right, with a like-minded partner, the direction and loss of control can make it quite an intense experience.

 

[sub_sarah83]

That sounds like an absolutely amazing experience, knowing that someone else even controls how I touch myself...in fact, just thinking about it has me dripping. I especially like the idea of it being combined with teasing. Just the thought of being made to play with myself, getting myself right on the verge of cumming, only to be told to stop or slow down, and get ahold of my needy self, has my panties soaked!!

(I'm new to the discussion boards, by the way, though I've been lurking for a little while. I'm Sarah, 28, from the East Coast.)

 

[rod43]

i'm sure you will soon find litsters wanting to direct and control you, sarah. Welcome.

 

[talldad1]

That sounds like an absolutely amazing experience, knowing that someone else even controls how I touch myself...in fact, just thinking about it has me dripping. I especially like the idea of it being combined with teasing. Just the thought of being made to play with myself, getting myself right on the verge of cumming, only to be told to stop or slow down, and get ahold of my needy self, has my panties soaked!!

(I'm new to the discussion boards, by the way, though I've been lurking for a little while. I'm Sarah, 28, from the East Coast.)

Yes, there are many good men on here who have quite a lot of experience in controlling the female orgasm. You will be in good hands.

 

[galileo181]

That sounds like an absolutely amazing experience, knowing that someone else even controls how I touch myself...in fact, just thinking about it has me dripping. I especially like the idea of it being combined with teasing. Just the thought of being made to play with myself, getting myself right on the verge of cumming, only to be told to stop or slow down, and get ahold of my needy self, has my panties soaked!!

(I'm new to the discussion boards, by the way, though I've been lurking for a little while. I'm Sarah, 28, from the East Coast.)

Mmmm Sarah - I would love to be controlling you ... teasing you ... building the tension ... before letting you get yourself off ...maybe

 

[priapusone]

direct

I think that is nice with it all over my fingers so slick!

 

[RickTango]

Switching

One of my favorite things to do is take total control of a womans hands and toys over the phone. Spending time directing and guiding her to multiple orgasums,,,then. I like to make her take control of my hands...it can be a very intense Top from the bottom experiences...

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Interesting thread. It is what I do as well....I'll have to read all the responses...

 

[Jasper_Whitlock]

That sounds like an absolutely amazing experience, knowing that someone else even controls how I touch myself...in fact, just thinking about it has me dripping. I especially like the idea of it being combined with teasing. Just the thought of being made to play with myself, getting myself right on the verge of cumming, only to be told to stop or slow down, and get ahold of my needy self, has my panties soaked!!

(I'm new to the discussion boards, by the way, though I've been lurking for a little while. I'm Sarah, 28, from the East Coast.)

A sub? Oh my. There are plenty of doms on here, myself included so I think you'll find yourself pleasantly wet if you enjoy being directed like that.

Soaked hm? Reminds me of the wet pussies thread. What straight man can resist a soaked submissive woman ready to be pleasured and denied her orgasms until he feels she's earned it?

 

[Gentlemanwill]

I love the idea of this thread, being directed sounds so hot!

I agree, it does doesn't it!

 

[sidneyc]

Well the first time I ever masturbated it was directed.. I was a sheltered kid and it was over webcam.. I liked being told exactly what to do especially since I hadn't done it before. So being told what to do and it being my first time were both things that made it very memorable!!

Incredibly hot, Angelbabe! I'm sure that must have been a memorable experience...

 

[sweet_lusciousdesire]

Just wondering if any women out there would find the idea of receiving explicit instructions on how to masturbate arousing... with the understanding that they are to be followed to the letter and then the experience is to be reported in detail...

JF

Reported in detail over the phone while it is happening, is very very stimulating.....Yes being told what to do is exciting and over the top stimulating....I can imagine being told to stand in front of the mirror and run my hands down my hot sexy body telling the person excactly how I look, and how I feel....I can imagine being told to insert two fingers while standing there and fuck myself with them at the speed and intensity presented by the voice over the phone....yeah that's a major turn on forsure.....

 

[emilyg]

oh my god this is the sexiest experience ever. having someone tell me exactly how to fuck myself with my toys or my hands, and following instructions, and not being allowed to cum until i'm told...sigh...amazing

 

[Prettywilling]

Not sure how I missed this thread, am sure I would have contributed before, possibly I have.

I like directed play, particulary when direction is given aurally. I'm not sure if its listening to a deep voice talking dirty or just the following directions but its a lot of fun, it can also be an interesting way to learn new ways to play.

 

[angelbabe8907]

Incredibly hot, Angelbabe! I'm sure that must have been a memorable experience...

Yes, it was!! I haven't done it in a while and it's something I'm looking to try again sometime.

 

[AJ78]

So, here's my experience with directed masturbation (or directing, in my case). This was a few years ago, when I was pretty new at this. A woman I was talking to recorded her side of the conversation, without my knowledge. I think it came out nicely. You'll have to trust that it's me on the other end: http://www.literotica.com/s/listen-in

 

[stu_gats_2000]

Reported in detail over the phone while it is happening, is very very stimulating.....Yes being told what to do is exciting and over the top stimulating....I can imagine being told to stand in front of the mirror and run my hands down my hot sexy body telling the person excactly how I look, and how I feel....I can imagine being told to insert two fingers while standing there and fuck myself with them at the speed and intensity presented by the voice over the phone....yeah that's a major turn on forsure.....

I like how you think

 

[Vancouverite]

Reported in detail over the phone while it is happening, is very very stimulating.....Yes being told what to do is exciting and over the top stimulating....I can imagine being told to stand in front of the mirror and run my hands down my hot sexy body telling the person excactly how I look, and how I feel....I can imagine being told to insert two fingers while standing there and fuck myself with them at the speed and intensity presented by the voice over the phone....yeah that's a major turn on forsure.....

And thank heavens phone calls within Canada can be so reasonable leaving lots of time to pursue each subtle detail.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

And thank heavens phone calls within Canada can be so reasonable leaving lots of time to pursue each subtle detail.

very true... there are also other services like skype and gtalk to get over the national/international hump

 

[talldad1]

Reported in detail over the phone while it is happening, is very very stimulating.....Yes being told what to do is exciting and over the top stimulating....I can imagine being told to stand in front of the mirror and run my hands down my hot sexy body telling the person excactly how I look, and how I feel....I can imagine being told to insert two fingers while standing there and fuck myself with them at the speed and intensity presented by the voice over the phone....yeah that's a major turn on forsure.....

This is how I like to do it. I love telling a woman exactly how to touch herself, and do make her go so slowly that she begs me.

 

[coffeelady]

I've discovered this thread a bit late, but yes, being directed really turns me on. I'm another one who melts at the thought of being directed to work myself up, either maddeningly slowly, or being told to stop or do something to slow things down when I'm getting close. And if he could get me to genuinely beg... that thought gets me very hot and bothered indeed...

I love to be directed while playing around in IM land, and of course it is fun to direct. In RL I have never done anything close to either... but I think it would be hot to be the director. But I don't know if I could keep my hands off, and sit there. At home I have a large 2 person recliner. I think it would be nice to set it in front of the mirror on the wall of the bedroom. Have her sit in my lap facing away from me, and caress her large firm breasts with my hands and teasingly play with her sensitive erect nipples. Pulling on them and twisting them lightly. Also slowly kiss and bite her neck and let my tongue play wetly across her skin. Mslow wet kisses up and down her neck. Then make her spread her beautiful thighs for me and softly whisper in her ear where to touch. Make her run her fingernails slowly up her inner thighs as I nibble and tease her earlobe. Tell her to slowly slide her finger up and down her moist center as I pull and twist her nipples. Soft whispers as I make her ever so slowly slide two fingers deep into herself. Once she is buried all the way I would tell her to make that "come here" motion inside and not let her stop as I kiss and bite my way up one side of her elegent neck and down the other...... Some nights teasing her over and over but never letting her reach climax till I pushed her own on her knees in front of the mirror and taking things into my own hands.... And other nights I think I would maker her bring herself to orgasm after orgasm.

Crap I think I rambled on a bit. Sorry.

Ramble all you like...

 

[jackdaw]

I've discovered this thread a bit late, but yes, being directed really turns me on. I'm another one who melts at the thought of being directed to work myself up, either maddeningly slowly, or being told to stop or do something to slow things down when I'm getting close. And if he could get me to genuinely beg... that thought gets me very hot and bothered indeed...



Ramble all you like...

Well, I'm a late arrival here too. Would like to try this out. Are you game?

 

[LadyVer]

I think this this is a duh question. Like what woman wouldn't like this?

 

[photoperv]

I am a big fan of this myself, from both sides. From the directing perspective, it is very sexy knowing that, even though I cannot see her, I know that I am controlling exactly how my partner is able (and allowed) to please herself. And from the other, I like the opposite; surrendering that control to my partner.