SweetErika said:
dollface007 said:
But, for an estimate, a little longer than my palm ... so, 4, 5 inches at most ... is that average or smaller than average?
assister49 said:
SweetErika said:If either of you are relying on penis size or intercourse for your satisfaction, you might want to think about pursuing other ways to make love to eachother. I know the actual intercourse part is really new and exciting at first, but true sexual satisfaction usually comes from A LOT of foreplay.
Personally, I love sex because it does feel good and I love sharing that closeness and intimacy with my partner. However, if we're talking about pure pleasure, it's all about the kissing, caressing, oral, manual, and toys for me. As assister and dollface said, take time to really talk and explore what eachother likes in terms of non-intercourse stuff. Once you do that, it's highly unlikely that size will be an issue.
Good luck and welcome to Lit!
SmilinAngel said:When I masturbate by myself, I can have either purely vaginal or purely clitorial ... either one is no problem!!
During vaginal sex there is no clit rubbing on either part, he always looks at me weird when I try ... I don't think he likes to see me do it, and he doesn't.
As for size, I can't give you an exact measurement, I don't think he would let me go near him with a ruler!
SmilinAngel said:
SweetErika said:
SmilinAngel said:Thanks again SE, you really make me feel better about this whole situation. Its been so frustrating not being able to talk about it with anyone, and I feel better when I read your responses. I guess you're right ... I'll just have to work at it. It's just hard for me, after waiting so long, I guess I just expected it to be amazing, but since neither of us are very experienced, it will just take some time. Thanks again!
LuvAznNurses said:
First of all lets loss the idea of having sex. Having sex is great if you at a friend's birthday party and you sneak off into the bedroom with a stranger for a quickie... That's called having sex! Start thinking of the words "love making." Love making involves HOURS of touching, caressing, teasing, kissing, fondling, etc. Extended fore play! It's what works your lover into a lather before oral, vaginal, or anal sex. When you finally allow your lover to cum you want him or her to have a extreme mind blowing orgasm. You want to keep them there cumming over and over again. You want their body trembling violently and completely out of control... You want them to feel like it's their last days on earth. You want to drain them completely dry! Once you've at that level and hit it every time... That person will follow you around like a puppy dog. Hell, that is what I want in a lover. Sex is great when you have that desire to just be very very naughty... Other times enjoy hours of love making...
What a way with words!
Jaded1 said:
Was passing through and had to stop...
SweetErika said:Jaded, I'm reading your stories after that post!
Allow my story to penetrate your mind! Replace Teanna in the story with yourself. You feel comfortable with your body so explore it. Allow your fingers to lightly caress your soft naked skin. Image me sitting next to you watching the passion building in your body. Erika, you do enjoy having me watch you don't you... Open yourself up and touch yourself for me. Get drawn deeper into me story. You will feel my word entering you and you want that! Pushing deeper an deeper inside you... Filling your body and making you feel oh, so very very good! Erika, allow your mind to take over. Erika, open up let me enter you...
SmilinAngel said:Well Jaded, that sure made me horny!!! I agree with ther "love making" and "sex" terminology. You're right. Okay, so now, whats you're take on how I can get that "last days on earth" kinda lovin'?
I want to explore her sexuality. To have her experience new and exciting thing. My tools are my lips, my tongue, my fingers, and body. Listen to your lover(s). In this way you will learn what makes them feel really good. One of the most neglected areas is also tell your lover what feels good. That person doesn't know what excites you. Don't just lye there. Say something. Be verbal. Be very, very, verbal... We all have fantasys. Explore them it's health in both mind and body. Slow everything down. Yes, making love can last 5 and 6 hours. It is about making a lover feel incredibly good. When you provide that much pleasure your lover(s) are MORE than willing to return that pleasure. Remember, that pleasure is all in the mind. The body is merely a system of sensors to record that pleasure. Your want to store as much pleasure in a lover's mind before providing that realease. It builds intensity. At the time of relief I want my female lover to feel like I'm splitting her in half. I realize that in fact there are guys out there that are much better looking than me. However, there are only few that can rock a woman's world was well as I do... Bragging, hell yes, because I in fact was trained by one of the very best "A WOMAN." She is a professional female dominatrix. I was not a client or a slave. But her lover. A true pro. dom. never engages in sex with a client that is why she or he has slaves. To provide a cleints sexual needs. Having sex with a client gives them power over you and you would lose crebility. She and I would spend a entire weekend together completely naked and making love together. Unfortunately, we have gone are seperate ways... Read the Kama Sutra. Read it more than once. Now, as the shameless slut that I am a plug. Read my "Harbor Lights."... I think that together you will find satisfactory solutions that should make penis size much less of an issue.
fsumusic1981 said:If you think you may need a bigger penis, you can always come down to Florida and try mine out. At least that way, you'll know for sure.
-Peace
