Different fetishes in one committed relationship

[Mnkinkcpl]

Just wondering how others in committed relationships deal with different fetishes or kinks?

I personally have a few kinks that my wife doesn't share or in the case of BDSM we share but since we are both dominant when it comes to our female playmates we rarely do that together. I can count on one hand the female submissives that wanted to be with a male/female couple that were both dominant.

My wife also prefers the control, discipline and punishment side while I prefer the discipline and humiliation aspect. So that also makes us look for different playmates.

A few other kinks we don't share are edging which I like both giving and receiving. Public sex another one of mine.

She likes mutual masterbation, she has hosted masterbation parties which I find boring as hell.

She also has done costume parties which I really don't care for but do dress up and participate because she likes it.

So how do you handle the different wants?

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

Bump

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Those differences are really minor. You should be able to find a middle ground.

My ex was feminine and wanted to be soft with everything.

I needed a Dom to please or be punished. To spank me. Tie me up. Edge me until I exploded.

The best way to fix those differences was to find a Dom on the side.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Our relationship is one from years in the making. Neither one of us were then what we are today. But if there was something I needed or she needed I think we would try our best to fulfill that need. somet in life you just gotta do what you gotta do.