Did she or didn't she ?

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A little back story on this . I met my gf , now wife , a long time ago and we hit it off great . Actually fucked on our first date .

After about a year I mentioned that I was going out with a group of friends and she said she wanted to come with us . I told her no since it was just guys . She got pissed and left for home . I had a good time with the guys that night and when I saw her the next day she had some news for me . " Guess what I did last night " she started with . Why did I get an odd feeling with that comment . I don't know , what did you do ?

"I ran into Mike ( insert last name here ) and we went for a ride." Well Mike and I'd had a run in a couple years earlier and I knew he had it in for me so this wasn't sounding good . " Oh really , where'd you go " I asked her as calmly as I could .
"We went to ( insert any small town around ) "
Well everybody knew the only reason anyone went there at night was to park and fuck . As it happens it's the town where Mike and I had our scuffle and I'd publicly embarrassed him . So there I stood listening to her tell me that she and Mike , who were both pissed at me , drove out there last night . Was she telling me this because she knew that I knew why everybody went there to get even with me ?

Ok so what went on ? A little handjob and fingering action ? She liked somebody with good dexterity . A mutual oral exchange ? She enjoys that as well . Or a full on screaming , feet on the headliner fuck ?

At that point in life I didn't take this news well . Now days it makes me feel something different . Turns me on as a matter of fact but it's too late to ask so every once in a while I just let it run wild in my mind and enjoy it . If I were to run into Mike today I'd love to ask him and I'm sure he would relish the opportunity to give me all the details . Maybe I'll see if I can locate him .

What do you think happened ?
 
A little back story on this . I met my gf , now wife , a long time ago and we hit it off great . Actually fucked on our first date .

After about a year I mentioned that I was going out with a group of friends and she said she wanted to come with us . I told her no since it was just guys . She got pissed and left for home . I had a good time with the guys that night and when I saw her the next day she had some news for me . " Guess what I did last night " she started with . Why did I get an odd feeling with that comment . I don't know , what did you do ?

"I ran into Mike ( insert last name here ) and we went for a ride." Well Mike and I'd had a run in a couple years earlier and I knew he had it in for me so this wasn't sounding good . " Oh really , where'd you go " I asked her as calmly as I could .
"We went to ( insert any small town around ) "
Well everybody knew the only reason anyone went there at night was to park and fuck . As it happens it's the town where Mike and I had our scuffle and I'd publicly embarrassed him . So there I stood listening to her tell me that she and Mike , who were both pissed at me , drove out there last night . Was she telling me this because she knew that I knew why everybody went there to get even with me ?

Ok so what went on ? A little handjob and fingering action ? She liked somebody with good dexterity . A mutual oral exchange ? She enjoys that as well . Or a full on screaming , feet on the headliner fuck ?

At that point in life I didn't take this news well . Now days it makes me feel something different . Turns me on as a matter of fact but it's too late to ask so every once in a while I just let it run wild in my mind and enjoy it . If I were to run into Mike today I'd love to ask him and I'm sure he would relish the opportunity to give me all the details . Maybe I'll see if I can locate him .

What do you think happened ?

I think your wife had a better time than you and your buddies did.
 
Sadly I didn't. But I did hear her with her boyfriend a few weeks before fucking.
I think maybe the 3rd date..long time ago
 
Sadly I didn't. But I did hear her with her boyfriend a few weeks before fucking.
I think maybe the 3rd date..long time ago
Man, I’m trying to remember on what date it was for me…I’m thinking date #2 or more likely #3 for me….I’ll ask her today!
 
Back before we got married, I was working for a guy who had no scruples. He would try to fuck every woman that he met! He use to compliment me on my gf. Once he walked in on me while I was peeing and saw my 5.5” cock. He teased me, saying that my gf would enjoy having his big cock in her. He once whipped it out and he was huge!

Anyways… once we were working during a storm and I was stuck at a job site. My gf and I had plans to go away for the weekend and being stuck working far from home, my boss volunteered to drive her out to where I was working because he was heading out there anyway. Previously I had told her that he was hung and had even used the thought of her fucking him as role-play. So she knew that he was hung. She also knew my kink about my partners fucking other guys, but that I could get jealous at times.

She had a previous boyfriend who was also hung, but the last 2 guys that she was with (me and her last boyfriend) were both around 5.5”.

Anyway… the drive to where we were working was around 45 minutes. Why it took them almost 2 hours to arrive had me thinking that they stopped somewhere and fooled around in his van. I don’t think that he fucked her because she had always said that fucking her ex was not too enjoyable because he was so big and her pussy was so tight. (She said that my average size cock always felt good inside of her). Also, when we got to our out of town trip, she was super horny, her panties were wet, and her normally tight pussy was just as tight as normal.

She did look guilty when her and my boss arrived and he had a smirk on his face when I asked what took so long. But he liked to tease about getting together with this girl or that and figured he was just giving me crap. I also knew that his wife never gave him head and my gf loved to suck cock and I would tease him about that.

35 years later she still denies that anything happened between them, but I’m thinking that (at the the least), she gave him a blowjob!

As for your story… she fucked Mike!
 
I think you should apologize to her for being insensitive about your bro time and not listening to her. And tell her you have for all the time since wondered if her payback for that, making you doubt and wonder, has been long enough and would she share what happened? You could even laugh and admit that with age and wisdom it no longer stings with jealousy to think she was miffed enough to cheat with a guy you despised, you are now actually a little turned on that your girl is hot and other men want her..
You really do owe her a little serious butt kissing. "bros before hoes" is ONLY said by guys with no girls...Its Babe first and always, and if she wants to hang with the guys? Are you kidding? The best girls ARE the ones who can relax and go with the flow with your friends. They will be jealous as hell, their girls think bro time is stupid and want nothing to do with it... well that was my life anyway. My ex was the kind of woman other women are suspicious of because she gets along so well with guys... when MY long time friend group refused to even make an effort to meet and get to know her, they INSTANTLY became my ex friends LOL. There are always new friends to make. The guys at work thought she was cool, none of their wives brought them lunch out on the route. What they didn't know was she also brought an occassional blow job for break or fucked in the back of the vehicle for lunch, LOL.
Guys put too much value on the bro relationships... they hold you back, keep you immature, make you a lame boyfriend, poor husband and shitty father. Just watch Manchester By The Sea. That guy thought he could be Father, Husband and one of the guys. Didn't feel sorry for the piece of shit at all. Just the dead kids.
 
I think you should apologize to her for being insensitive about your bro time and not listening to her. And tell her you have for all the time since wondered if her payback for that, making you doubt and wonder, has been long enough and would she share what happened? You could even laugh and admit that with age and wisdom it no longer stings with jealousy to think she was miffed enough to cheat with a guy you despised, you are now actually a little turned on that your girl is hot and other men want her..
You really do owe her a little serious butt kissing. "bros before hoes" is ONLY said by guys with no girls...Its Babe first and always, and if she wants to hang with the guys? Are you kidding? The best girls ARE the ones who can relax and go with the flow with your friends. They will be jealous as hell, their girls think bro time is stupid and want nothing to do with it... well that was my life anyway. My ex was the kind of woman other women are suspicious of because she gets along so well with guys... when MY long time friend group refused to even make an effort to meet and get to know her, they INSTANTLY became my ex friends LOL. There are always new friends to make. The guys at work thought she was cool, none of their wives brought them lunch out on the route. What they didn't know was she also brought an occassional blow job for break or fucked in the back of the vehicle for lunch, LOL.
Guys put too much value on the bro relationships... they hold you back, keep you immature, make you a lame boyfriend, poor husband and shitty father. Just watch Manchester By The Sea. That guy thought he could be Father, Husband and one of the guys. Didn't feel sorry for the piece of shit at all. Just the dead kids.
As far as asking her what really happened I know her answer ....How the fuck do you expect me to remember something from that long ago !
Not worth the time and I don't really care anymore . 😁
 
I think you should kiss your babe and tell her it's okay, as you are a true lover who accepts her and wants her to love and be intimate with whoever her heart desires. You would support her no matter what, and she could always comfortably come back home after she has been pleasured enough. You would clean her up, and then reach out to Mike to ask for the details. Additionally, ask him if he would like to visit your wife again in the near future.
Thats what I would do.
 
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