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[faedruss]

ok, i'm sure this won't seem weird to most of you here, but i have a fantasy where i've finally made contact with a Domme and She is having a party. i am to be a decoration/party game.

when the guests arrive, i am tied and nude, and the guests are free to use me in any way they see fit. i am straight(ish?), but i am forced to worship both Dommes and Doms, sucking, licking, being sucked and licked and fingered and fucked...you know.

here's my question: this doesn't seem to me to be something that could ever happen to me in dallas. at least not without paying through the nose for it (and as a mwm i can't pay for it). anyone know of secret dallas societies of Dommes and Doms?

 

[Rayelle]

oooh doesnt that sound like a party?

room for another sub in there? i might be british but im sure i could find away to get there

 

[CutieMouse]

ok, i'm sure this won't seem weird to most of you here, but i have a fantasy where i've finally made contact with a Domme and She is having a party. i am to be a decoration/party game.

when the guests arrive, i am tied and nude, and the guests are free to use me in any way they see fit. i am straight(ish?), but i am forced to worship both Dommes and Doms, sucking, licking, being sucked and licked and fingered and fucked...you know.

here's my question: this doesn't seem to me to be something that could ever happen to me in dallas. at least not without paying through the nose for it (and as a mwm i can't pay for it). anyone know of secret dallas societies of Dommes and Doms?

I don't know if there are any "secret societies" in Dallas, but there is an active community- there's the 4Th Friday Munch, W.I.C.K.D (femmedome group- I think I got that one right), there's a spanking group (Bottom's UP- I think?), a public dungeon (The Sacntuary for Lifestyle Arts), an educational group (The Bound Rose Society), etc.

I would suspect the larger issue(s) would be one(s) of health and safety- you're married, looking to hide sexual activity from your wife, and are (essentially) wanting to be gang banged... have you considered exactly how you will be going about such a thing, without risking your (or your wife's) health? Lets see- Hep B, HPV, Aids....

I'm probably too prudish and monogomous to really answer your question, but this is one of those things I'd personally keep in the "fantasy file", and figure out how to create a similar experience with my partner, rather than actually fulfill with a group of random people hired through a pro-domme...

 

[Rayelle]

cutiemouse has the truth of it, all those health issues n stuff.... but i think i'l keep the fantasy.. maybe when i find him my master will fulfil these desires of mine

 

[faedruss]

honestly...

i doubt that i'd ever really go to that extreme. certainly not without some sort of assurances that my health would be protected.

it's more the idea of meeting people like me, that actually live this out (ok, perhaps not this exactly - but that live the bdsm lifestyle). i thought it impossible to find anyone into this who wasn't in it for money. i really would like to meet and talk to true lifestylers.

and maybe go into it a little...we'll see. despite the fantasy, i'm pretty shy. think that's why it turns me on so much. it's not like me at all, which may mean it's the real me.

 

[CutieMouse]

i doubt that i'd ever really go to that extreme. certainly not without some sort of assurances that my health would be protected.

it's more the idea of meeting people like me, that actually live this out (ok, perhaps not this exactly - but that live the bdsm lifestyle). i thought it impossible to find anyone into this who wasn't in it for money. i really would like to meet and talk to true lifestylers.

and maybe go into it a little...we'll see. despite the fantasy, i'm pretty shy. think that's why it turns me on so much. it's not like me at all, which may mean it's the real me.

The last munch I attended in Dallas had at least 100 people there, so yeah- there are people in Dallas who do this without money exchanging hands. I don't know how common it is to have "group" activites, as that isn't really my thing, but there are probably more people around Dallas who do BDSM than you think.

Information on the 4th Friday Munch can be found here:

http://www.dallasbdsm.com/fourth/

List of Dallas area groups:

http://www.dallasbdsm.com/local_groups.htm

 

[Etoile]

Sounds like you could throw a little bit of CFNM in there.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

And if Cutie's links don't give you enough...

To find local Munches, email groups, and events in your area, try:

SceneUSA - http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

Caryl's Page - http://www.drkdesyre.com/

The BDSM Events Page - http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/ which has links to both organizations AND events.

 

[faedruss]

yep

Sounds like you could throw a little bit of CFNM in there.

oh, there's no question that's where it all begins. i had a girlfriend in college who was very strong, and she once convinced me to masturbate for a friend of hers while they watched. it was easily the hardest i have ever cum in my whole life.

the whole cfnm thing is a huge, huge, huge, massive turn-on for me. it's so raw and exposed, so much power being lost there...

 

[blklthrjkt]

There are lots of BDSM activities in Dallas and the area. Another group to get in touch with is National Leather Association - Dallas. They are primarily an educational group and have occasional play parties as well. Good place to network and lots of experienced players both straight and gay.

If you decide to go to a NLA meeting, they are on the first Tuesday of each month at the Gay and Lesbian Community center. Very big group and very welcoming.