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[Luena_mae]

I'm a devoted, well trained slave who thrives when serving a good master. However, my current partner, although wonderful in every other way, just isn't very good at dominating me. It goes very much against the grain for me to explain how to do it, and we live in an area where clubs or communities where he could pick up some pointers are not an option. Suggestions? And could someone please dominate me??

 

[seela]

I'm a devoted, well trained slave who thrives when serving a good master. However, my current partner, although wonderful in every other way, just isn't very good at dominating me. It goes very much against the grain for me to explain how to do it, and we live in an area where clubs or communities where he could pick up some pointers are not an option. Suggestions? And could someone please dominate me??

He could read some books or join Lit, for example. I'm sure Stella will come along with his list of recommendable books in no time.

Have you guys talked about your expectations towards each other? Does he know you want him to dominate you or are you simply wishing he would read your mind and know what you want? Have you ever told him what makes you tick? Do you know what makes him tick? Are you sure he is into dominating you? Topping/Domination might not be a part of his sexuality even if it is yours, and he's just as entitled to his sexual preferences as your are to yours.

And I'm sure you'll get plenty of PMs from guys offering to dominate you. Is it what you want, though? How does it all work out with your relationship with your SO?

 

[Dom4uinLvNv]

You might want to begin by listing your desires here..So that others might know where to begin...

 

[Stella_Omega]

I'm sure Stella will come along with his list of recommendable books in no time.

And here it is, compiled by Robert Rubel, PHD...
http://astore.amazon.com/wwwpowerexcha-20

 

[geekmaster24]

He could read some books or join Lit, for example. I'm sure Stella will come along with his list of recommendable books in no time.

Have you guys talked about your expectations towards each other? Does he know you want him to dominate you or are you simply wishing he would read your mind and know what you want? Have you ever told him what makes you tick? Do you know what makes him tick? Are you sure he is into dominating you? Topping/Domination might not be a part of his sexuality even if it is yours, and he's just as entitled to his sexual preferences as your are to yours.

And I'm sure you'll get plenty of PMs from guys offering to dominate you. Is it what you want, though? How does it all work out with your relationship with your SO?

Thank you, seela. You just said what I preach to all my subs.

Communicate with him. Ask him if he'll explore a bit more. Hell I'm sure there quite a few people here that would be willing to help him if you want to point him in the direction of lit.