Depth or Tightness?

sheath

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Ahem...

Since we are debating penises in another thread, why not objectify our vaginas in the same way?

So, men...which matters more? How deep she can take you into her pussy, or how tightly she squeezes your cock?

And if you could choose by, say, a measurement of fingers, what would your measurement be?

S.
 
sheath said:
Ahem...

Since we are debating penises in another thread, why not objectify our vaginas in the same way?

So, men...which matters more? How deep she can take you into her pussy, or how tightly she squeezes your cock?

And if you could choose by, say, a measurement of fingers, what would your measurement be?

S.

not sure what you mean by a measurement of fingers....how many fingers "feels" like a nice pussy? Or how many fingers are we in girth?....in anycase, I have had women with nicely snug vagina's that had very little control of themselves and could not squeeze....that wasn't very satisfying to be honest...I have also had a woman that was TOO tight...so much so that she had a maximum limit of thickness she would be with because it hurt her....

The best I have had felt actually fairly loose as I entered, then she squeezed me tightly and made it Heaven for me as I stroked in and out......

To me, squeezing ability is all-important....

Not sure if this answers what you are looking for though...
 
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jeff_is_smiling said:

Not sure if this answers what you are looking for though...

You did answer the question. :)

I'm asking simply because it seems like every day, there is another thread on this forum about penis size. As a woman, I just sigh and roll my eyes when I see another thread about it.

So...turn about is fair play. Let's see what the men think about the same kind of sexual yardsticks for women. :)

S.
 
Of course, I wouldn't have thought vagina size would be an equivalent size measure against cock-size phobia of men....

Breast size might be a better substitute....I believe many women are as worried about how their breasts "stack up" against other women's breasts in terms of men liking them. We can all see who has large breasts (unlike who has a large cock)...but the emotional issues some deal with wondering if their breasts are, "good enough" might be a better comparison....

For what it's worth....not that "I" am personally concerned if my cock is big enough...it is enough for me if the women who see it simply refer to it as, "VESUVIUS!!"...even if their initial thoughts are more along the line of looking at a # 2 pencil....
 
PinkOrchid said:
Sheath,

You may objectify my vagina any time you'd like.

Great thread, I'm looking forward to seeing the reponses.

O.

Thanks, O. ;)

I am certain that objectifying you would be quite enjoyable! :devil:

S.
 
jeff_is_smiling said:
Of course, I wouldn't have thought vagina size would be an equivalent size measure against cock-size phobia of men....

Breast size might be a better substitute....I believe many women are as worried about how their breasts "stack up" against other women's breasts in terms of men liking them. We can all see who has large breasts (unlike who has a large cock)...but the emotional issues some deal with wondering if their breasts are, "good enough" might be a better comparison....


Excellent point there, sweetie. :)

I guess this thread could take many different directions, given that question. So let's change this a bit...

1. If you could choose "large" (let's say, C-D) breasts, or "smaller" (A-B) breasts, which would you choose?

2. If you had to measure a woman's vagina by the number of fingers you could comfortably fit into her, how many fingers would she have to be?

3. Would you rather be able to stretch her, or be able to reach her cervix, if you could only choose one to have every time?

There, now we're well on our way to objectifying. ;)

S.
 
sheath said:
Excellent point there, sweetie. :)

I guess this thread could take many different directions, given that question. So let's change this a bit...

1. If you could choose "large" (let's say, C-D) breasts, or "smaller" (A-B) breasts, which would you choose?

2. If you had to measure a woman's vagina by the number of fingers you could comfortably fit into her, how many fingers would she have to be?

3. Would you rather be able to stretch her, or be able to reach her cervix, if you could only choose one to have every time?

There, now we're well on our way to objectifying. ;)

S.

I would prefer larger breasts, but to be totally honest, I am MUCH more interested in the length and size of her nipples...I LOVE grazing my teeth on a womans nipples.....actually, the same would go for size of a womans clit...I prefer large clits personally....

As to fingers, I think if I slide three fingers into her and she wants more, than I am in trouble...lol....I prefer a woman to only really want two fingers in her and be greatly aroused if she asked for a third finger.....

And the last question is easy for me...I want her to feel "full" as I stroke into her...I want her to feel slightly stretched....since I am fairly consistent thickness-wise top to bottom of my shaft, and get slightly thicker as you travel down the shaft...I like that I feel the fullest at her opening when I am fully inside her.....plus, I have this way of "flexing" to further lengthen and thicken myself when fully inside that makes me feel even better about that....
 
jackinillinois said:
Nice to meet you Sheath. I have almost always been with d cups. I do prefer larger breast, but not huge. DD is perfect. And I am hoping to get ahold of some DD's soon.
3 fingers I think would be good.
I would rather stretch her a little. I want my cock to fit snuggly. But I would not turn down a loose pussy either

Good to meet you too. :)

Thanks for answering the questions!

:rose:

S.
 
in my limited experience with only one girl, I'd have to say depth is more important. My dick isn't enormous or anything (it's less than 7 inches), but I could never fit all the way inside her. I just wanted to feel her completely surrounding me, to fully make the connection with her, and to feel our pelvises touching. but that never happened. and a couple of times, I made her bleed. :(
 
Personally I think I prefer the tighness of a pussy. The grip factor is much more enticing than how deep I can go in her. The fact that I've also hurt a lover before by thrusting at an awkward angle also makes me a little more scared to plunge headlong (no pun intended) into her. The depth factor doesn't play much into the sensual enjoyment for me. It's always been about the connection I feel not just physically but the emotional too.

Hopefully that answers your original query.
 
Onward to asnswering your second half of questioning...

1. If you could choose "large" (let's say, C-D) breasts, or "smaller" (A-B) breasts, which would you choose?

Probably C, just because there's enough there for a handful or mouthful, but then I try not to objectify too much. Any cup size would do me fine if she enjoyed it as much.

2. If you had to measure a woman's vagina by the number of fingers you could comfortably fit into her, how many fingers would she have to be?

Two, maybe three? Somehow fisting just hasn't been on my palette yet.

3. Would you rather be able to stretch her, or be able to reach her cervix, if you could only choose one to have every time?

Definitely stretch. Snug over deep easily for me... again, it's the friction/ grip factor for me that blows my mind.

There, now we're well on our way to objectifying. ;)

And what lovely objects you beautiful women are!:rolleyes: :heart:
 
1. If you could choose "large" (let's say, C-D) breasts, or "smaller" (A-B) breasts, which would you choose?

-A nice set of D's would be nice. My girl has B's.... they're fun, but D's would be really fun!

2. If you had to measure a woman's vagina by the number of fingers you could comfortably fit into her, how many fingers would she have to be?

-Seeing on how my current girlfriend can take 6 fingers comfortably and 8 fingers to be stretched (She doesn't have any muscle control either:( ) I'd say anything less .

3. Would you rather be able to stretch her, or be able to reach her cervix, if you could only choose one to have every time?

-I'd go with stretch. Gotta love seeing pussy lips stretching around your penis.
 
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sheath said:
... sexual yardsticks for women

If she can take a yardstick I'd worry :p

I'd choose tightness over depth.
 
crazybbwgirl said:
Jeff - "Grip Factor" New Reality Show maybe?? lol!

As long as Joe Rogan isn't yelling at me to try harder and eating bugs are involved, count me in!:D
 
1: Breast size.
Anything that doesn't suffocate me.

2: How many fingers.
Anything larger than my pinkie.

3: Stretch or depth?
Yes.
 
hmmm good thread :)
Personally I want to be able to get 3 fingers in her otherwise it's going to hurt me and a bruised penis is a bad thing ~has a bad memory with a cock ring~

as far as tits go I've never been a breast man...personally as long as there is something there I'm happy but I also agree..the nipples are more important to me than breast size..I love to be able to suckle on a nipple .something I can wrap my lips around and nibble on while I can flick my tongue at it would be nice. personall length is not an issue as long as she can take me in and I can really thrust my hips..then again I used to love being able to have a woman when she's on top of me just hold on while I arch my back like a goog foot off the bed and then just drop..the feeling is great for both sides as long as you bon't hit her cervix
 
A FOOT???

And by the way, this is a "the way we like cock" discussion, little man. Just 'coz ya follow me doesn't mean you can go into the ladies room. :)
 
Again, way to go Sheath!!!

Bump! I want to hear more answers from the men, dangit... where are you guys? A guy I work with told me a story about his last fuck buddy, who alwasy used to say, 'Deeper, deeper,' and he'd tell her, 'tighter, tighter!' lol

soooooo - always able to take more, or able to clamp down? which do you want, guys?
 
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