Define Obsessed

[Saytur]

I met this young lady on the internet who dropped in on me while I was observing some inane conversations in a metaphysics room. She has a fascinating personality, bordering on "quick, get the net!!!" which I kind of like. She also has an amazing insight into me, which creeps me out but keeps my attention, IE without ever asking what music I'm into, she recorded a cassette full of old songs that I really really love (?)

I've known her two years, we talk regularly but have never met due to logistics . . . here's the thing, she insists she's in love with me and I'm getting a little scared. She's convinced we are star-crossed. She lives with some guy that she has lost interest in (she obsessed on him the same way early on) and now she's talking about leaving him and moving somewhere close enough to be accessible. I'm starting to have visions of boiling rabbits . . . she insists she cares so much for me that she'll "go away" if I ask but I tried to "break it off" about a year ago and she refused to leave me alone. She kept finding excuses to call & write that one last time.

I'm at a loss here . . . I actually care about her and wish we could be friends but it's clear that isn't possible. Now she wants to move here, smells like Chernobyl to me. Help!

 

[alexandraaah]

If you have to ask, it's probably just as creepy as it seems.

 

[mritsme]

that is a hard one i think what you might try even if she moves to the same city is have her be living alone for awhile and see what happens maybe she is just afraid of leaving and being alone. After she is alone for awhile her feelings may not be the same and therefore it would save some heartache down the road.