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EmilyMiller said:
So funny. You get to say what the fuck you like, but those rules are for dudes only, right?

If you say something offensive, don’t be surprised when people take offence. That’s on you, not them.

Definitely don’t double down by then being patronizing in a totally sexist manner. Not a great look.

Maybe not your kinda party, hun.

Em
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What on Earth are you talking about now? You're bringing up gender issues and pretending I'm trying to keep you from saying what you want? You've been saying what you want this whole time and I had already finished the conversation, I thought. But obviously you need to try and have the last word and try to shame me for being honest and direct with you instead of relinquishing my manhood to you like some cuck. I've been polite and nice to you so far, so stop your little broken ego temper tantrum and it won't have to go any further.
Or be an adult and say what you really feel and quit making things up to try and push my buttons. I'm not stupid. That's why my avatar name is what it is.
 
In general, when I first see a woman, it's normally in a way where I can get a sense of the entire body. In most normal circumstances that's how we see people; their full body at once.

I can make a pretty quick assessment of course as to whether I find that woman attractive at a glance based on body type, height, size etc.

After that? So many variables and situations. It all depends, really.

Generally walking down the street, or by a woman at, say, the mall? Depends on which direction she's facing when I first notice her.

Back to me? Ass will probably get my attention first.

Front facing, moving my way? Face, quickly followed by breasts.

At the gym? Women of all shapes and sizes surround me. What draws my eye first depends again on what they're doing, which way they're facing etc.

I actually wrote a 750 word story (The Blonde In Black) based on a young woman I've seen mainly only from behind all the time at the gym.

Another very lovely young woman I see often doing yoga and stretching.

I try not to stare, of course. I don't wanna be that Creepy Guy.

But yes, I look. And given the form fitting spandex shorts she wears and the positions she bends in, yes, I often find my eyes drawn to her clearly defined pussy.

But it's not like the Big Three (Tits, Ass, Pussy) are the only things I find attractive on a woman, or the only or even first things to draw my attention.

Beautiful face, smile, happy expressions, eyes, hair, hair style...a woman's facial expressions say so much about her, much more than just her body.

Plus, I like a variety of things, petite, curvy, tall, short, skin tones and colors, ethnicities.

Skittles...taste the rainbow. I like 'em all.

So there's no definitive answer on this for me really.
 
onehitwanda said:
such a tragically, unbelievably underrated movie. Easilly one of the best modern Disney movies, and a million times better than Frozen.
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Could not agree more. Saw this with my wife and daughter and we instantly fell in love with it. One of our family's favorite Disney movies. So many laugh out loud lines ("You should know that this is the strangest thing I've ever done!"), great songs, and some truly touching moments. The pain on the King's face before they release the lanterns and the love and hope in the Queen's eyes as she wipes away his tear, then later the stunned nod that the guard gives the King and Queen to let them know that their lost daughter has been found, and the moment when they are all finally reunited. Just beautiful.

Not to brag, but I was swimming right below their boat when Eugene and Rapunzel released their lanterns and sang "I See the Light."
 
This thread is so fascinating.

I suppose it's because I don't typically experience any sort of normative physical reaction to seeing the physical form in person? I can acknowledge someone is aesthetically pleasing, but it's only base level with little to no sexual impulse or desire involved.

I basically don't have any sort of attraction to anyone--male, female or otherwise, until I've gotten to know them... which takes such a long time I have rarely bothered. I was friends with the man I'm married to for years before we dated. I wasn't attracted to him in the slightest when we met. If I do happen to look at someone's, ah... standard features most find arousing--chests, asses or groins, I almost immediately have an utterly uncomfortable reaction over it and remove myself from the situation.

It's really great reading so many different takes on the topic.
 
Red_Herring4 said:
Could not agree more. Saw this with my wife and daughter and we instantly fell in love with it. One of our family's favorite Disney movies. So many laugh out loud lines ("You should know that this is the strangest thing I've ever done!"), great songs, and some truly touching moments. The pain on the King's face before they release the lanterns and the love and hope in the Queen's eyes as she wipes away his tear, then later the stunned nod that the guard gives the King and Queen to let them know that their lost daughter has been found, and the moment when they are all finally reunited. Just beautiful.

Not to brag, but I was swimming right below their boat when Eugene and Rapunzel released their lanterns and sang "I See the Light."
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"You were my new dream."

"And you were mine."

I ugly cried in a way that I haven't since except when watching Coco. Coco *always* makes me ugly cry.
 
seraph_nocturne said:
but it's only base level with little to no sexual impulse or desire involved.
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I think most guys here would agree with me that it's ALL very "base level" when it comes down to it.

Unless we're looking at someone with specific intentions to engage, or try to engage with them in some type of interaction, then generally, we look at whatever catches our attention, think "well that's hot," and move along with our day.

As younger men many of us probably felt the familiar stirring of arousal, especially if we allowed our gaze, and thoughts, to linger too long.

But usually it's just an admiration of beauty, perhaps a stray naughty thought or three, and then it's over.
 
Djmac1031 said:
I think most guys here would agree with me that it's ALL very "base level" when it comes down to it.

Unless we're looking at someone with specific intentions to engage, or try to engage with them in some type of interaction, then generally, we look at whatever catches our attention, think "well that's hot," and move along with our day.

As younger men many of us probably felt the familiar stirring of arousal, especially if we allowed our gaze, and thoughts, to linger too long.

But usually it's just an admiration of beauty, perhaps a stray naughty thought or three, and then it's over.
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Very insightful.

Once I’ve gotten to know someone, that can change quickly… but just seeing a pretty or handsome person on the streets? I’m dead from the waist down when it comes to face value. 😅
 
onehitwanda said:
such a tragically, unbelievably underrated movie. Easilly one of the best modern Disney movies, and a million times better than Frozen.
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I've never seen it, but now I am actually intrigued. Out of newer animated movies that I have seen, "How to train your dragon" has impressed me the most. Humor is fantastic and there are some really good messages in it.
 
AwkwardlySet said:
"How to train your dragon" has impressed me the most. Humor is fantastic and there are some really good messages in it.
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HTTYD is another family favorite. My kids were obsessed for YEARS. I've seen the original more times than I can count, along with the two sequels and many of the streaming tv episodes. Great film with an amazing score by John Powell. Funny and full of heart. The "Test Flight" scene from the first film is exhilarating.
 
Red_Herring4 said:
HTTYD is another family favorite. My kids were obsessed for YEARS. I've seen the original more times than I can count, along with the two sequels and many of the streaming tv episodes. Great film with an amazing score by John Powell. Funny and full of heart. The "Test Flight" scene from the first film is exhilarating.
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Since this has turned into a kids movie thread, I suggest you see Trolls. Not because it's a great movie; there are some very funny bits, yes, but mostly because it is one of the most bughouse dark things you'll ever see if you actually sit with... like, any of the underlying themes. You've got racism, genocide, drug addiction, depression (and the use of drugs versus other methods to control it), the oppressed having to make the first step to reconcile with oppressors... Jesus.
 
NotAFool said:
Save it. I was perfectly clear with all my posts. No need to play games.
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Nah, you were being a dick. You straight up told someone her boyfriend was lying to her about his preferences, essentially based on your own. Like, I like women in leggings, but I'm looking at butts, not for cameltoe.

To go to the original question, I don't really have a set "order." It really depends on what they're emphasizing. If they have unnaturally colored or interestingly styled hair, my eyes will be drawn there. If they're wearing a tight shirt or tight leggings, there. Am I seeing her from the front, the back? It's all very contextual. There are women whose eyes will be the first things to draw my attention; there will be others where I'll be fighting to not stare at their tits for the first few seconds.

Oh, and if they're muscular? The muscles, definitely. I love a fit woman's body.
 
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