deep sex vs cervical pain

[Bighammerfucker]

I've heard, many times, from many women that it can be (and usually is) quite painful when a man "hits" her cervix too hard during sex. Im wondering how much truth there is to this or if perhaps it fully depends on the anatomy of the woman in question, because personally I have hardly ever experienced this (yes I am a lady, don't let the username fool you... ;D)... and I think I should have by now. I have had sex with larger guys and I own an 8" dildo AND a fucking machine, and i almost always play roughly with them and ride them as deeply as they can go, it is most pleasurable to me. Is this unusual? Somehow I don't think so, but then I get confused as to how sex could ever hurt the cervix in the heat of the moment (discounting potentially being a bit sore after if it's good and rough), unless perhaps the man pushes hard enough to hurt himself as well, or something...

 

[paul466]

My ex wife was petite and she used to complain about me hitting her cervix ....usually when she rode me... And I also felt bruised sometimes afterward

 

[Freya69]

It has been awhile since I have done it with a man for real but have never had a problem taking all of him when I am fully aroused. Some energetic thrusting is usually desired as I start to cum. I also use a good sized dildo (8 " and quite thick) on occasion though I do use it gently for the most part. I enjoy the feeling of fullness it provides plus it is good exercise for an old vagina. I do not recall ever feeling a man hit my cervix but I never had a porn star type stud either. Usually the only times I felt sore after sex was when I had not had intercourse for a couple of weeks and then there would be some soreness the next day. I suppose like all muscles, the vagina needs regular use. Thank god for vibrators and dildos for us old folk.

 

[Freya69]

I have certainly never been considered petit. Even as a teen, I had wide hips and a little extra butt.

 

[alexx_is]

I had also heard about it and wondered if it's possible.. and then the other night I was having sex with a guy and he was going in so deep that I finally got what that pain is. Yes, it's real and yes, it hurts but since we were in the heat of the moment I was mostly almost enjoying it. He wasn't exceptionally big or anything, I guess he was just really.. determined

 

[sandra753]

black guys have hit mine few times and thought I was going to die from the pain ,but I have since then found ways to keep them from, in their words, bottom out.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I had also heard about it and wondered if it's possible.. and then the other night I was having sex with a guy and he was going in so deep that I finally got what that pain is. Yes, it's real and yes, it hurts but since we were in the heat of the moment I was mostly almost enjoying it. He wasn't exceptionally big or anything, I guess he was just really.. determined

I know what you mean, I've had that a bit but like you said it's in the moment and wasn't enough to /actually/ hurt, in fact it may have made it feel a little better... a little pain is good sometimes, of that sort... but I've heard a lot of girls say they couldn't enjoy it because it was painful. And yea idk maybe it is anatomical difference or something... I mean I have had pain from sex but never, ever enough from deep sex to make it not worth it. It's always worth it

 

[alexx_is]

I know what you mean, I've had that a bit but like you said it's in the moment and wasn't enough to /actually/ hurt, in fact it may have made it feel a little better... a little pain is good sometimes, of that sort... but I've heard a lot of girls say they couldn't enjoy it because it was painful. And yea idk maybe it is anatomical difference or something... I mean I have had pain from sex but never, ever enough from deep sex to make it not worth it. It's always worth it

Well, some of us find a little pain enjoyable while others don't want any of it So it might be just the same amount of pain that's not worth it for someone else but nice for us

P.S. That being said, I've never been with a black guy, so who knows

 

[Bighammerfucker]

Well, some of us find a little pain enjoyable while others don't want any of it So it might be just the same amount of pain that's not worth it for someone else but nice for us

P.S. That being said, I've never been with a black guy, so who knows

Idk. You may be right. I tend to forget that not everyone likes it rough

 

[powerstrokin]

I have had lovers complain that in certain positions I was 'bottoming out' - probably hitting their cervix. It depended on the position, for sure. And I am not particularly well endowed, quite average, but perhaps some of their anatomies and mine were a 'perfect fit' for this to happen. I would modify my position a bit and adjust so that both were having an enjoyable time. Vigorous intercourse and 'rough' are not the same thing.

 

[Teresa12]

Ouch

So I've always loved rough sex and never had this issue before but on Sunday morning, don't know whether it was the position or what, but I suddenly had the most crippling pain shoot through me. It completely knocked the wind out of me, so much so that I couldn't even speak to tell him what had happened. It didn't last long and by the time I'd got my breath back it didnt hurt anymore and everything was starting to feel good again so we kept at it but on Monday when I woke up... god was I sore. He hadn't noticed at all so I guess he didn't feel it but it was like being punched from the inside. Not the best moment I've ever had!

 

[simplegirl]

I frequently had cervical pain during sex before my hysterectomy. I had endometriosis, so I have a feeling that no doubt played a role in that. So yeah, definitely possible and it can be quite painful, although I have heard of reports of some women getting a pleasurable sensation when their cervix is hit. Depends on the person, I guess.

 

[Sugartitties]

The cervix can get extra sensitive the closer a woman gets to her period. I know for me, if I am being fucked hard from behind right before mine, it can hurt. I'm also petite at 5'3.

 

[prdigy666]

The cervix can get extra sensitive the closer a woman gets to her period. I know for me, if I am being fucked hard from behind right before mine, it can hurt. I'm also petite at 5'3.

My ex was 5'2" and like that... It would hurt for a little over a week every month. The rest of the time when I bottomed out on her she would orgasm almost instantly...

 

[andigirl32]

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[BareBackRider2]

I've never hit my wife's but then she may sometimes say "I need you deeper" but I'm in as far as I can go.

She needs a bigger cock than mine

 

[Aconitum19]

Never had a problem with it due to being thr size of a blokes cock, a few years back I dated a man who was well hung at 11 inches long, and the only pain I experienced was when I was ovulating and it became more sensitive then, but in a pleasurable kind of pain way.

 

[OpenMouth]

I'm wondering about the cervix; obviously it's stretchy, it has to be.

Could a woman, with regular practice with a pretty long dildo, train her cervix to dilate and allow the head of a really big cock to actually penetrate her uterus. Now that is a hot idea.

 

[rbone04]

I dated a girl who could never do doggystyle because I would hit her cervix every thrust and she said it was absolutely blinding pain. Any other position was fine. I know she's been with HUGE guys as well and she said same thing... Only hands and knees hurts. Weird.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

It has been awhile since I have done it with a man for real but have never had a problem taking all of him when I am fully aroused. Some energetic thrusting is usually desired as I start to cum. I also use a good sized dildo (8 " and quite thick) on occasion though I do use it gently for the most part. I enjoy the feeling of fullness it provides plus it is good exercise for an old vagina. I do not recall ever feeling a man hit my cervix but I never had a porn star type stud either. Usually the only times I felt sore after sex was when I had not had intercourse for a couple of weeks and then there would be some soreness the next day. I suppose like all muscles, the vagina needs regular use. Thank god for vibrators and dildos for us old folk.

There ought to be a real life remedy for this situation. (from an even older guy)

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I've never hit my wife's but then she may sometimes say "I need you deeper" but I'm in as far as I can go.

She needs a bigger cock than mine

Ahaha that's like me and my husband. He has an average sized penis and sometimes I don't feel much in certain positions, but anything where he goes deep enough to hit "that spot"--which I'm thinking must be the cervix or right by it--it drives me insane. Otherwise, he gets the same, "I need you deeper"

Upon retrospection I'm wondering if this has anything to do with (I read this when researching how to find the G-spot many years ago) the supposed "A-spot" at the top of a lady's vagina on the very front wall basically at the cervix. I also know that my uterus is tilted the "wrong way" from most women's. Maybe this has something to do with it idk because I know that, while maybe it can potentially cause pain once in a while, the best orgasms I've ever had have always been from the deepest penetration possible.

 

[Cabriela]

Every once in a while, that was a problem that I had with my first boyfriend. I was never able to fully pinpoint what positions caused it, but sometimes he would just "bottom out." It was QUITE painful. During sex, it would feel like a sharp pain, followed by a dull ache (like an old bruise). But as soon as we stopped, I would just lie there whimpering... and not in a good way.
(If it's relevant/helpful, I'm 5'4".)

 

[Hans101]

My ex was 5'2" and like that... It would hurt for a little over a week every month. The rest of the time when I bottomed out on her she would orgasm almost instantly...

I've had the same experience. One ex absolutely loved for me to go deep and press against her cervix. She'd lose her mind and orgasm like mad.

I've also been with women for whom this was very painful.

The ex who loved it had three kids. None of the other women had kids.

I think this might have a lot to do with it.

 

[prdigy666]

I've had the same experience. One ex absolutely loved for me to go deep and press against her cervix. She'd lose her mind and orgasm like mad.

I've also been with women for whom this was very painful.

The ex who loved it had three kids. None of the other women had kids.

I think this might have a lot to do with it.

One time I got a little rough and slammed it home while she was bent over... She collapsed on the bed and cried like I'd just hauled off a decked her one.

Felt like the biggest asshole ever...

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I've had the same experience. One ex absolutely loved for me to go deep and press against her cervix. She'd lose her mind and orgasm like mad.

I've also been with women for whom this was very painful.

The ex who loved it had three kids. None of the other women had kids.

I think this might have a lot to do with it.

I have not had kids, I'm 23 and 5'4" and I am one of those who love it like mad as you've described so I wouldn't be so sure of that!