deep sex vs cervical pain

[Que]

My ex, I would only hit it in certain positions and it was painful for her, so I have been gun-shy about it with partners since. All of the partners since, except two, I definitely bottomed out on and none of them complained of pain. One tiny one sounded like she was in pain but she kept insisting she was not. It was most disconcerting.

 

[notnice66]

a light steady prodding at my cervix will help me cum

 

[dirtwrench]

If I bump into my wife's cervix, she says it is very painful. It doesn't seem to matter if it is before or after she has an orgasm. She is not one to handle pain very well in any situation, so that could be a factor. Giving birth doesn't seem to be a factor, we have two (adult now) kids and it was the same before the pregnancies as it is now 20+ years later.

And no, I am NOT pornstar sized. Just average. As near as I can tell from the various posts, it sounds like a case by case thing. Some have pain, others do not. Just a matter of the lady in question?

 

[DarkPleasures]

I love having my cervix hit by the cock!

 

[Hans101]

I just realized something that might be happening for you ladies, resulting in so much pain. A woman's ovaries are just as delicate as a man's testicles, and the pain when they get hit is very similar. This normally isn't an issue day to day cause of where they are, but there are some sexual positions, such as cowgirl, where they can most definitely get bumped the wrong way.

Now I'm not disputing women who know when their cervix has been bumped, and know they don't like it. I'm bringing this up in response to a couple of posts where the woman didn't know what hit her, only that it was extremely painful.

 

[luv2bfkd]

He goes really deep in me

My bf is what I consider well endowed and he’s quite capable of bumping against my cervix. I find a certain amount of him gently bumping it to be very arousing. If he gets really aggressive about fucking me, then it can be rather uncomfortable as he gives it quite a rough banging. I’ve told him several times that I can feel him bumping my cervix and I think he gets quite a bit of satisfaction knowing he’s hitting the very end of my pussy. Too, I get some self satisfaction of showing him that I was made to take cock, that I’m woman enough to take his full length. I want to show him how I can take a really deep fucking and fully enjoy it.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I think he gets quite a bit of satisfaction knowing he’s hitting the very end of my pussy. Too, I get some self satisfaction that I was made to take cock, that I’m woman enough to take his full length. I want to show him how I can take a really deep fucking and fully enjoy it.

That's hot, I have to admit.

 

[Simone808619]

I have had those moments where my partner hits my cervix and it is both painful and pleasurable. Such a fine line between the two. Not sure about a woman's height in correlation to the length of her canal...I am 5'9 and have experienced that pain with someone who was average sized..

 

[ToysAreUs]

I hit 'home plate' with two past girlfriends and when it happened we were surprised but neither gal felt pain, only contact and pressure. They had three things in common: both were excellent lovers, both were vaginally orgasmic and both climaxed the moment I started to cum. Two of the best.

 

[L8tnIt]

Once upon a time, I was having beautiful sex with an awesome redhead. It was so deep that she told me how she liked the tip of my penis tapping and massaging her cervix.
She then found out soon afterward that our night of passion was going to bear a child. This would have been an even more beautiful ocassion, except that it also showed that her cervix cancer had decided to flare up.
To save her & remove the cancer, the child mercifully was allowed to go to Heaven.

Yes, I am making this sound poetic and nice. It is out of caring & respect for that wonderful redhead.
Last I knew, her cancer treatment was quite successful; she is happily married and her husband had been able to bless her child with a younger sibling.

 

[bi_sub_lady_doc]

The size of a normal penis is almost always greater than the length of a vagina.Technically, penis is bound to hit cervix every time during inter course, even if 1/2 of it remains outside the orifice.Actually deposition of semen around the cervical os is one must criteria for being able to reproduce.
so some women feeling pain during coitus ( while others are not ) is not a normal phenomena, almost always pathological.In most cases it‘s due to cervicitis or pid.generalised dyspareunia( coital pain ) refers to endometriosis.In peri or post menopausal woman, cervical pain is due to cervical atrophy..
More serious problem ( dysplasia or cin ) usually present with other sort of symptoms than pain ( or along with pain ), be it discharge or post coital bleeding..
Go for a colposcopy if the problem persists..

 

[gsmith2011]

Very clinical

 

[RoperTrace]

Likes it deep

In my 20's, 30's and early 40's, I occasionally bottomed out with my wife causing her discomfort or cramps afterwards. Now in my middle 60's, I don't get quite as robust. I still ask if I'm going too deep, and now she seems to want me as deep as possible. Just this past week, while making love she wanted it hard and deep and came like a freight train. A great ego boost for on old guy.

 

[danielle140]

I really , REALLY like a well endowed Man and love it when he bangs into my cervix, such pleasurable pain. It makes me cum and cum again

 

[LittleJester77]

It happens to me quite often, it's more the position that gets me more than cock size. Positions from behind seem to be more painful....not in a pleasant way....and yes, it certainly does feel like getting punched on the inside. I'm not petite in height but I am very thin, I experienced "bottoming out" pain before and after having children, but I do agree it is a muscle, and can and will be stretched the more it's used.
Although saying that, sometimes it can hurt so bad the thought of "training" it just doesn't seem worth it.

 

[Ozfetishguy]

I used to have a fwb, and the morning after I'd seen her, the tip of my dick would feel slightly bruised. She never said anything, but I guess I was hitting her cervix.

 

[Sheana_V]

Yes, this absolutely happens, and if you haven't experienced it then I envy you. Legs in the air or folded up seems to be the most likely to cause this. And it is definitely a bigger problem with longer guys.

 

[sixfeetundernea]

Yes, it exists. My current partner is 9" erect. At first he would just barely hit my cervix, so I'm long inside, but it still hurt really bad. I didn't say anything though because he was so happy he could just go at it and not have to worry about hurting me. I could tell he was enjoying himself so much. Eventually after a few months, my body has adjusted to it basically and I very rarely feel the pain. You know what it is because it's REAL pain, no pleasure whatsoever comes from it. Mind you also I have a high pain tolerance. I believe I'm longer inside though with most women, counting that I'm 6' tall. Long though does NOT equal loose however.