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allpleasure4her said:
So when you gonna let me hit that? lol Just dropping a line saying hey.
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Hey Sexy!!! OMG I totally didnt catch this post from you!!! It just gave me the biggest smile!

August isnt soon enough sexy.... want to move up our date:kiss:

Cant wait to get my hands and mouth on you and your mistress.

xoxoxo
 
jenni7 said:
Hey Sexy!!! OMG I totally didnt catch this post from you!!! It just gave me the biggest smile!

August isnt soon enough sexy.... want to move up our date:kiss:

Cant wait to get my hands and mouth on you and your mistress.

xoxoxo
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Wow.....some one is getting lucky......sounds like a hot time.

CF
 
hi jenni 7, this is what happened to me , sometimes it just happens.

My 1st 3 sum was when we had a party and all got drunk as you do. then someone suggested we all play strip black jack at this point there were me and another 2 wife’s and 5 guys, so anyway we all sat round on the floor and started to play,
Drunken sex can be so bad...or sometimes good.
ok so we played the game and the cloths started to come off within 4 hands me and a friend were down to our knickers and bras, everyone else had only lost 1 or 2 items of clothing, not good ha ,as we played on my friend said she and her hubby had to go, so that left me in my knickers and bra and 4 guys half clothed, anyway they went and we carried on, my luck changed for a bit and the 4 guys were left in their undies thank god, anyway as we played the last hands my bra came off their underwear came off and so did my knickers I won the game but still ended up naked.
we all had another drink and someone shouted from the kitchen let’s play dare or drink well at this point I think we had all drunk enough couldn’t face having to down a full drink but if I didn’t I would have to take a dare,.
so we sat down again and my husband’s friend started the game dare or drink he said, the guy said dare, his dare was to hold the lad next to him cock for 10 seconds bit shocking a first but he grabbed it and held it for 10 seconds, he then dared the next guy to lick my husband’s ball so he did,
it was now the guy next to me to ask me the question and because I couldn’t face a drink I said dare,(big mistake laughing), he turned round and just said suck every mans cock for 10 seconds each, my husband’s face dropped, I looked at him in shock, he said everyone else has done the dare they were asked its part of the game you chose dare he said laughing, ok fine I said, get them out and I went round the circle and sucked them all for 10 seconds each. after that 2 of the guys left to go home and me and my hubby started having sex at this point the other guy came in the room I was sat up on my husband’s cock riding and this guy started massaging my neck then started feeling my tits, as I tried to get up my hubby pulled me back down and said its ok babe just enjoy it, as he said that the guy was round the front of me putting his cock in my mouth and feeling my tits , so I sucked him till he cum, all in all a good night.
 
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I've had threesomes before but all of them have been with people that weren't in relationships (myself included). Remaining emotionally detached from the situation is crucial in this. The person/people you decide to bring in to your bedroom with you and your husband have to be cool with the idea that this is fun, this is sex, and that's all there is to it.

likewise, you and your husband have to establish the ground rules, the people involved have to know and agree to the ground rules, etc. It's a big undertaking and although there are probably 1,000 people here on Lit who will tell you it's a fantastic thing- for many people it can completely ruin a relationship and a marriage.

It takes a certain type of person and a certain type of relationship to be able to pull this off effectively. Jealousy can become involved, resentment, anger, etc... If your husband so much as looks at the other woman in a way you don't like you may react poorly and vice versa with another man. It's a lot of easier said than done and unfortunately once you do it you can't UNDO it. You can't unsee the things you see or unfeel the feelings you have.

It's tricky and its definitely not for everyone so I would suggest you have a real serious discussion about it and see where you both stand on it. Specifically discuss the sexual acts you're interested in doing or seeing, what the ground rules would be, what you don't want, etc.

I would NOT suggest that the third person be someone either of you have a connection with already- that could be bad. Although it might work from a comfort standpoint it can have bad social implications down the line.

Just my two cents. Good luck.
 
WastelandVoice said:
I've had threesomes before but all of them have been with people that weren't in relationships (myself included). Remaining emotionally detached from the situation is crucial in this. The person/people you decide to bring in to your bedroom with you and your husband have to be cool with the idea that this is fun, this is sex, and that's all there is to it.

likewise, you and your husband have to establish the ground rules, the people involved have to know and agree to the ground rules, etc. It's a big undertaking and although there are probably 1,000 people here on Lit who will tell you it's a fantastic thing- for many people it can completely ruin a relationship and a marriage.

It takes a certain type of person and a certain type of relationship to be able to pull this off effectively. Jealousy can become involved, resentment, anger, etc... If your husband so much as looks at the other woman in a way you don't like you may react poorly and vice versa with another man. It's a lot of easier said than done and unfortunately once you do it you can't UNDO it. You can't unsee the things you see or unfeel the feelings you have.

It's tricky and its definitely not for everyone so I would suggest you have a real serious discussion about it and see where you both stand on it. Specifically discuss the sexual acts you're interested in doing or seeing, what the ground rules would be, what you don't want, etc.

I would NOT suggest that the third person be someone either of you have a connection with already- that could be bad. Although it might work from a comfort standpoint it can have bad social implications down the line.

Just my two cents. Good luck.
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Thank you! So far we are doing pretty good with the situations we have chosen to get into. Our personal preferences are well known and respected between the two of us and the people we've played with. I've been in a few uncomfortable positions during this process but ones easily remedied. Fortunately the people we have played with are in very good/strong marriage and not looking to replace a spouse etc. It's been pretty amazing so far and the some of the woman I have met I truly enjoy as a friends. They are pretty awesome. So all in all we've had a very positive experience with this so far and my fingers are crossed that with good communication and being safe we will continue to have a lot of fun. I think the key is finding the right people to play with and being true to yourself and your own partner in the process. For me personally this isn't something im wanting to do completely separate from my partner but to do as something we can enjoy together you know. So my fingers are crossed for it to continue down this positive road for sure.
 
I think its important to remember that what sounds good on paper, can go bad quickly once put into action. Most guys dont want to share their women.

Its possible to think it may be hot, but once you see it, you cant take it back, and it can change opinions of and feelings for people permanently.

Its fun to think of, but I know better than to try it myself.
 
jiimmmy said:
I think its important to remember that what sounds good on paper, can go bad quickly once put into action. Most guys dont want to share their women.

Its possible to think it may be hot, but once you see it, you cant take it back, and it can change opinions of and feelings for people permanently.

Its fun to think of, but I know better than to try it myself.
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I think for many couples this can be true. Truly who knows how this journey with my and my husband will end, Im praying it will be a positive experience throughout, but so far the experiences we've had and the couples we have played with have been truly amazing. Im finding that when we play as a couple the experiences have been much more positive.

Yes it's been somewhat strange seeing him kiss, flirt and more with other woman but not necessarily a bad strange. Thankfully Im pretty stubborn and move at my own pace and pretty much refuse to be pushed into doing anything I don't want to. He may want to move quicker in some areas than I do but all in all its going great and the experiences have been very hot, very fulfilling and beyond fun.
 
my gf is bicurious and everytime i try to set something up for her something comes up and it doesnt work out :(
 
I agree, not soon enough... Well have to hop online sometime. This is the first time I've been able to check emails really.
 
Any updates? Changed your mind about bringing in someone special for a 3-some?;)
 
charliespeed said:
Any updates? Changed your mind about bringing in someone special for a 3-some?;)
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Nope, but we worked into it. I've been lucky enough to have the threesome. It was an amazing experience and I had a blast, was completely pampered and was definitely one of my best experiences yet. Hubby has also been lucky for some FFM action as well. I try to play fair :)
 
jenni7 said:
Nope, but we worked into it. I've been lucky enough to have the threesome. It was an amazing experience and I had a blast, was completely pampered and was definitely one of my best experiences yet. Hubby has also been lucky for some FFM action as well. I try to play fair :)
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Wow very arousing. I would be aroused all the time thinking about doing it again and again lol...
 
Glad you guys were able to work it out and figure out what you could do and not upset the marriage.
 
Spenser41 said:
Glad you guys were able to work it out and figure out what you could do and not upset the marriage.
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Outside of forcing us to communicate better (which is a blessing) this has actually been really positive for our marriage
 
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