Dear X

Dear you,

I understand why you come to the chat rooms to flirt. I get it, you're probably unhappy in your relationship and you're looking for some sexy talk. Really, I get it.

And I have no problem with that. I'll flirt my heart out, flattering you, teasing you, making sure you laugh and have a great time. For a while, you'll have my attention and enjoy every moment of it, because I enjoy it too.

However.

When you ask for my email and then send me a dick pic, please be sensible and use the other head for once. Because when you send it under your regular email address and you start acting strangely around your live-in girlfriend, remember that women pick up on that shit.

And when you are really dumb enough to leave your computer on and your email open, did you not think she would be curious and click on an email you sent to someone who was obviously a female? Did you not think she might see that dick pic you sent to me and instantly think that we're sleeping together in real life?

Did you also not consider the fact that she might email me, heartbroken three days before Christmas, asking me how long I've been sleeping with you and giving me the dates she was out of town? How she thought you were the one she was going to marry? How she told me all about your life together and how she thought you were the one, and she didn't blame me because she knew I didn't know about her.

And how I had to email her back, this poor broken girl you have told over and over that you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your life with. I had to tell her that we had only flirted in a chat room one evening. That I didn't know you personally, we had no plans to meet, and that I did not ask for a photo of your dick in my inbox. And that I was so sorry that this had happened to her, because I didn't know about her and why should I?

So please, you. Get your shit together and stop hurting this girl. She seems nice, and if you don't want her, then do what's right.

Sincerely, me
 
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^^^ Merry Christmas indeed. What on earth was he thinking? Oh wait, he wasn't. That's the whole problem. Damn. The poor girl.
 
Dear you,

I understand why you come to the chat rooms to flirt. I get it, you're probably unhappy in your relationship and you're looking for some sexy talk. Really, I get it.

And I have no problem with that. I'll flirt my heart out, flattering you, teasing you, making sure you laugh and have a great time. For a while, you'll have my attention and enjoy every moment of it, because I enjoy it too.

However.

When you ask for my email and then send me a dick pic, please be sensible and use the other head for once. Because when you send it under your regular email address and you start acting strangely around your live-in girlfriend, remember that women pick up on that shit.

And when you are really dumb enough to leave your computer on and your email open, did you not think she would be curious and click on an email you sent to someone who was obviously a female? Did you not think she might see that dick pic you sent to me and instantly think that we're sleeping together in real life?

Did you also not consider the fact that she might email me, heartbroken three days before Christmas, asking me how long I've been sleeping with you and giving me the dates she was out of town? How she thought you were the one she was going to marry? How she told me all about your life together and how she thought you were the one, and she didn't blame me because she knew I didn't know about her.

And how I had to email her back, this poor broken girl you have told over and over that you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your life with. I had to tell her that we had only flirted in a chat room one evening. That I didn't know you personally, we had no plans to meet, and that I did not ask for a photo of your dick in my inbox. And that I was so sorry that this had happened to her, because I didn't know about her and why should I?

So please, you. Get your shit together and stop hurting this girl. She seems nice, and if you don't want her, then do what's right.

Sincerely, me

Wow..... Men are assholes
 
I agree, not all men. But this one isn't too bright, apparently.

I feel rotten about it too.
It is not your fault he is an idiot. You were flirting like most here and that is all there is to it. He on the other hand, is an asshole.
 
I agree, not all men. But this one isn't too bright, apparently.

I feel rotten about it too.

Don't let it get you down ... He sounds terrible, so hopefully his girlfriend's gift will be the opportunity to move on. Painful in the short-term, but a Christmas to be thankful for in the long-run. *hugs*
 
This is my 23rd without my dad. And it does get easier, and your mind turns to the happier times more often. But even after all this time, there hasn't been ONE day that went by without a thought of him, missing him terribly, wondering what he'd do in a certain situation, or just wanting to pick up the phone and hear his voice. The holidays are tough.

(((hugs))) to all of you. :heart:


Thanks:)
 
Dear Nick and dear Mary Ann,

Thank you heaps, you probably don't realize it but you both made things much more bearable for me yesterday.

Eternally grateful,

Damsel in distress
 
Dear Mom,

I can't believe it's going on a year that you've been gone. :(

I miss you so much.

:heart:

Loss of a mother is a deep and profound one. Hugs to you. This time of year seems to make you feel it more. Lean on those around you.
 
This is my 23rd without my dad. And it does get easier, and your mind turns to the happier times more often. But even after all this time, there hasn't been ONE day that went by without a thought of him, missing him terribly, wondering what he'd do in a certain situation, or just wanting to pick up the phone and hear his voice. The holidays are tough.

(((hugs))) to all of you. :heart:

Hugs...so much this.
 
Dear you,

I understand why you come to the chat rooms to flirt. I get it, you're probably unhappy in your relationship and you're looking for some sexy talk. Really, I get it.

And I have no problem with that. I'll flirt my heart out, flattering you, teasing you, making sure you laugh and have a great time. For a while, you'll have my attention and enjoy every moment of it, because I enjoy it too.

However.

When you ask for my email and then send me a dick pic, please be sensible and use the other head for once. Because when you send it under your regular email address and you start acting strangely around your live-in girlfriend, remember that women pick up on that shit.

And when you are really dumb enough to leave your computer on and your email open, did you not think she would be curious and click on an email you sent to someone who was obviously a female? Did you not think she might see that dick pic you sent to me and instantly think that we're sleeping together in real life?

Did you also not consider the fact that she might email me, heartbroken three days before Christmas, asking me how long I've been sleeping with you and giving me the dates she was out of town? How she thought you were the one she was going to marry? How she told me all about your life together and how she thought you were the one, and she didn't blame me because she knew I didn't know about her.

And how I had to email her back, this poor broken girl you have told over and over that you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your life with. I had to tell her that we had only flirted in a chat room one evening. That I didn't know you personally, we had no plans to meet, and that I did not ask for a photo of your dick in my inbox. And that I was so sorry that this had happened to her, because I didn't know about her and why should I?

So please, you. Get your shit together and stop hurting this girl. She seems nice, and if you don't want her, then do what's right.

Sincerely, me

Honestly, if women weren't so much drama I'd just be a lesbian for shit exactly like this. Ever since my ex and I separated I've been a married man magnet (in RL).

So sorry you had to go through all that!!!
 
Dear 2nd mom...I lost you 18 years ago today, yet it still feels like yesterday. You taught me so much and but I feel like there was still so much for me to learn. I thought I'd never be able to celebrate xmas again after losing you but each year it gets a little easier thanks to my own kids...but I know I can still be unpleasant to be around. ;) I hope you can see them and the little bit of you I see in them. My son has your eyes and heart and my daughter has your energy and your fearlessness.

Thank you for everything you gave me, especially your wonderful example of how to show my kiddos they are loved. No amount of money or shiny toys can substitute for time and affection. I love you! :heart:

:rose:
 
Dear 2nd mom...I lost you 18 years ago today, yet it still feels like yesterday. You taught me so much and but I feel like there was still so much for me to learn. I thought I'd never be able to celebrate xmas again after losing you but each year it gets a little easier thanks to my own kids...but I know I can still be unpleasant to be around. ;) I hope you can see them and the little bit of you I see in them. My son has your eyes and heart and my daughter has your energy and your fearlessness.

Thank you for everything you gave me, especially your wonderful example of how to show my kiddos they are loved. No amount of money or shiny toys can substitute for time and affection. I love you! :heart:

:rose:

Big hugs to ya darlin.. :kiss:
 
Dear Mom,

Without you I'm not feeling the holidays this year.

Big hugs to you too TL.. Even tho my mom disappears more and more each day, when she runs to hug me smiles big and says she loves me..I know I have it made still and I try to appreciate all the time I have left with her.

:rose: :rose:
 
Dear Mom,

Without you I'm not feeling the holidays this year.
(((TongueLust))) no matter how long it's been, big days and anniversaries tend to bring the impact of any bereavement back.

Love and strength to you and yours, and a kinder year ahead.
 
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