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KC, you know I'm always here if there's anything I can do to help you help her - and your son, who will also be affected, though probably to a lesser degree - through this. Anything at all, even if it's nothing but "holding your hand" for a while across the miles. My heart goes out to the girl, her family, her friends, and especially your little one, and you, because I know how awful it is to feel that there is so little you can do to help her. Know this, though: Every moment you spend with her, holding her hand, letting her cry on your shoulder, or just *being there* to share the silence with her DOES help her know that you love her more than your own life.Dear mother of the little girl who hung herself,
How did you not know...would I be the same way? Not see what was so easy to see?
I dont know how you had the courage to cut your baby down knowing she was dead, I have no doubt in my mind that I would be hanging right next to my child had I found her dead.
You are a strong woman without a doubt but her friends need closure, a chance to say they loved her and bring flowers or whatever. My girl is so sad, feels like you didnt love her enough to give her a big send off. She misses her friend and only wants to have a chance to say proper goodbyes to a girl she loved.
You dont even have to be there, just let us have one hour to say goodbye. It can't be done unless you say yes.
A very frightened horrrified mother of a very sad girl
Dear mother of the little girl who hung herself,
How did you not know...would I be the same way? Not see what was so easy to see?
I dont know how you had the courage to cut your baby down knowing she was dead, I have no doubt in my mind that I would be hanging right next to my child had I found her dead.
You are a strong woman without a doubt but her friends need closure, a chance to say they loved her and bring flowers or whatever. My girl is so sad, feels like you didnt love her enough to give her a big send off. She misses her friend and only wants to have a chance to say proper goodbyes to a girl she loved.
You dont even have to be there, just let us have one hour to say goodbye. It can't be done unless you say yes.
A very frightened horrrified mother of a very sad girl

Kuro, I don't know how things work in Oz, but since you've been in your new home for less than a month, over here (US) you'd have a number of remedies available to you to resolve this issue, including your homeowner's insurance. You should be able to get some sort of drainage system/device built/installed, for one thing.Dear designer of my new home,
First of all, I do love living here. It's a nice place, generally pretty easy to take care of, you did a good job. My wife loves it too, but then, she hasn't yet discovered the major problem this place has in the same way I had to last night. I wonder, when you were designing this place, did you take into account the issue of drainage at all? Because my house is only fine so long as no water comes near it ever.
I understand that the depression where the patio sits looks nice, and the courtyard is a very attractive place to eat my breakfast, but there's a problem: those motherfuckers flood, dude. They flood bad. See, there's nowhere for water to go once it's down there; it just builds up, and up, and up. Normally this'd be fine, except that it's winter, and any kind of particularly heavy rain means I have to start bailing out my own backyard like it's a leaky canoe. Or else the water edges up the tiny elevation to my door and starts to come inside. Maybe you should have spotted this tiny design flaw.
Like I said, usually this house is great, but when my garden starts acting like one of those rising water traps James Bond is always escaping from, you may have fucked up.
Sincerely,
A rather wet homeowner.
PetI hope the vigil helped bring at least the beginning of a sense of closure to the little one, and to the rest of the children affected by this loss.Dear God,
Please let this candle light vigil tonight put the sunshine back in my lil girl's face.
I can't stand the sadness I see there.
Thank you,
Momma Bear