Dear X:

[minx1]

MINX!!!!

Hugs & Hugs!
Being thinking of you.

As for the above?
Realizing it, you are already a step ahead.

*smile* thanks hon

I need to concentrate on this right now.

I have been thinking of you too. I still have some PMs to reply to....I am just collecting my thoughts I guess before I do.

BTW, I just read your blog and wanted to comment, but I dont have a profile and dont know how to get one!

One of your accounts made me cry...I think you will guess which one. he must be so proud of you

 

[gypsy*seer]

In time,
everything will become clear....


I hope

 

[ultramarineblue]

Dear X,

I hate the way I'm feeling right now. I don't even know what to say. I don't trust you anymore. You said you would meet that obligation and you didn't. I told you if you didn't, it would erode my trust. I think you have a lot of potential in being a great man but you've got to learn how to take care of yourself. I'm sorry that I pushed you into this relationship and now ending it. It kills me to know I'm hurting you and if I'd just let things be we would just be friends and I wouldn't be hurting you now. I was just so fucking tired of always being just the friend that I couldn't see that it would never work. I know now that I'm only good at being just the friend. I don't want anything more from anyone.

I feel like such a fool right now.

 

[Keroin]

Dear Bad K,

Just do what she says

(we'll sneak you out at night when the Good K is sleeping. As for Sheba ... somehow I think she can be won over to the Dark Side )

Rida, would you stop encouraging her!!!

 

[gypsy*seer]

Dear X,

I hate the way I'm feeling right now. I don't even know what to say. I don't trust you anymore. You said you would meet that obligation and you didn't. I told you if you didn't, it would erode my trust. I think you have a lot of potential in being a great man but you've got to learn how to take care of yourself. I'm sorry that I pushed you into this relationship and now ending it. It kills me to know I'm hurting you and if I'd just let things be we would just be friends and I wouldn't be hurting you now. I was just so fucking tired of always being just the friend that I couldn't see that it would never work. I know now that I'm only good at being just the friend. I don't want anything more from anyone.

I feel like such a fool right now.

{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}

 

[Kajira Callista]

Dear me,
WTF is wrong with you
*kick*

 

[ultramarineblue]

{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}

Thank you. I'm ok. I just wish it was already over.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Dear 2010,

You need to provide a very good year for ultramarineblue.

---karma

 

[rida]

Dear X,

I hate the way I'm feeling right now. I don't even know what to say. I don't trust you anymore. You said you would meet that obligation and you didn't. I told you if you didn't, it would erode my trust. I think you have a lot of potential in being a great man but you've got to learn how to take care of yourself. I'm sorry that I pushed you into this relationship and now ending it. It kills me to know I'm hurting you and if I'd just let things be we would just be friends and I wouldn't be hurting you now. I was just so fucking tired of always being just the friend that I couldn't see that it would never work. I know now that I'm only good at being just the friend. I don't want anything more from anyone.

I feel like such a fool right now.

It takes two to Tango, and it takes two to make a relationship work.

Don't blame yourself for what it is not your responsibility.

{{{hugs}}}

 

[rida]

Rida, would you stop encouraging her!!!

 

[ultramarineblue]

It takes two to Tango, and it takes two to make a relationship work.

Don't blame yourself for what it is not your responsibility.

{{{hugs}}}

I know. I just want to hope for the best out of people and that they will do what they say they will. I know it isn't all my fault.

 

[rida]

Dear S

You are right, my message was out of bound and insulting.

I knew all along what you really wanted and I should have just been happy that you found it.

There is only so much I can give you, after all my other obbligations are taken care of. And right now life is even more demanding both due to emotional and practical reasons.

But I don't want to discuss the struggles of my daily life.

I know it is not my place to worry about your vanilla life. But I still do.

Just be careful.

part timely yours.

 

[ultramarineblue]

Dear 2010,

You need to provide a very good year for ultramarineblue.

---karma

Awww. Thank you.

Dear S

You are right, my message was out of bound and insulting.

I knew all along what you really wanted and I should have just been happy that you found it.

There is only so much I can give you, after all my other obbligations are taken care of. And right now life is even more demanding both due to emotional and practical reasons.

But I don't want to discuss the struggles of my daily life.

I know it is not my place to worry about your vanilla life. But I still do.

Just be careful.

part timely yours.

*hugs*

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Dear X,

The answer you almost got:

As to whether or not this username is necessary, which is what I think you are asking, I don’t know. The conflicting emotions I’m experiencing, sometimes changing moment to moment, have me all confused. I want to experience what you’re offering. I need it.

Yet, I’m terrified. My fears cross the spectrum of What Could go Wrong.
1. love
2. pain (like before, which was horrible)
3. getting caught, then more pain (different than before, worse)
4. regret (going forward and wishing we’d remained just friends)
5. regret (wondering, forever, what might have been)
6. letting you down, not being enough of a sub

 

[CurlyKat]

Dear X,

Please stop screwing with my head. It really hurts our friendship when you do, and it's really not funny at all even though you think it is. You made your choice long ago, so stick with it. Now that things are going well for me and I'm not dependent on you, you miss that and want me back. I know, it sucks when you're not the hero anymore. But, once again, that was a choice you made.

I won't let you mess this one up. I don't want to lose your friendship, either, but you absolutely have to stay within the lines.

-K

 

[jenniferbaby]

*****

 

[gypsy*seer]

[*******

 

[jenniferbaby]

"Just about done", hm?

It's like being on a bicycle going downhill - once it starts, it's almost impossible to stop it ~ but you know it's going to be a great, freeing ride, hun! WHEEEE!!
Live, love, learn & most importantly, laugh!

(missed talking to you, C!) {{{hugs}}}

Certainly working on living, loving, learning, and laughing. Of course I could use a bit more work.

(it was great talking to you too. )

 

[unregistered]

 

[rida]

Dear self,

there is nothing you can do so stop thinking about it.

Your rational self

 

[rida]

Open letter to some Doms

Dear Doms,

What are you thinking???

Asking your sub to find you another sub is sure recipe for disaster.

First nobody will pick up the offer. Because let's face it, we subs are a bunch of jealous irrational possessive self centered head cases (yes, I'm been a bit sarcastic and self deprecating here) that do not like to share their Dom with other women. Honestly do you think your sub would have answered the ad of another sub to join in and be the third wheel? Even I that I'm indeed an emotional masochistic would have not.

Second, the existing sub is going to feel all kind of insecure: Am I not good enough? Will the other sub be better than me and take my place? Is this his way of dumping me? Making for a scared and worried and highly emotionally wreaked sub.

And then after going at the task unsuccessfully for a while, another sense of failure kicks in: I'm failing my Dom; I'm useless; I'm not providing the service required of me.
And of course you, the Dom, thinking to be helpful will pinch in with statement such as: You are not taking your task seriously; I gave you lot of responsibility and you need to step up to the plate; and other assorted supposedly "motivational" statements.

What the hell are you thinking? Women do not operate as men do. Sub do not operate as Dom do. If you want two subs you'll have to find them yourself. If you want your sub to find her, than make sure your first sub is either a switch wanting a sub of her own or a sub ready to try out being a Domme and then let them find a sub. If it works out, she might share her find with you.

A highly frustrated sub.

 

[Bandit58]

Dear Doms,

What are you thinking???

Asking your sub to find you another sub is sure recipe for disaster.

First nobody will pick up the offer. Because let's face it, we subs are a bunch of jealous irrational possessive self centered head cases (yes, I'm been a bit sarcastic and self deprecating here) that do not like to share their Dom with other women. Honestly do you think your sub would have answered the ad of another sub to join in and be the third wheel? Even I that I'm indeed an emotional masochistic would have not.

Second, the existing sub is going to feel all kind of insecure: Am I not good enough? Will the other sub be better than me and take my place? Is this his way of dumping me? Making for a scared and worried and highly emotionally wreaked sub.

And then after going at the task unsuccessfully for a while, another sense of failure kicks in: I'm failing my Dom; I'm useless; I'm not providing the service required of me.
And of course you, the Dom, thinking to be helpful will pinch in with statement such as: You are not taking your task seriously; I gave you lot of responsibility and you need to step up to the plate; and other assorted supposedly "motivational" statements.

What the hell are you thinking? Women do not operate as men do. Sub do not operate as Dom do. If you want two subs you'll have to find them yourself. If you want your sub to find her, than make sure your first sub is either a switch wanting a sub of her own or a sub ready to try out being a Domme and then let them find a sub. If it works out, she might share her find with you.

A highly frustrated sub.

Dear rida,
Thank you for posting this. I'm sending you some hugs.

*Hugs* me

 

[Nymphomaniacal]

Dear Doms,

What are you thinking???

Asking your sub to find you another sub is sure recipe for disaster.

First nobody will pick up the offer. Because let's face it, we subs are a bunch of jealous irrational possessive self centered head cases (yes, I'm been a bit sarcastic and self deprecating here) that do not like to share their Dom with other women. Honestly do you think your sub would have answered the ad of another sub to join in and be the third wheel? Even I that I'm indeed an emotional masochistic would have not.

Second, the existing sub is going to feel all kind of insecure: Am I not good enough? Will the other sub be better than me and take my place? Is this his way of dumping me? Making for a scared and worried and highly emotionally wreaked sub.

And then after going at the task unsuccessfully for a while, another sense of failure kicks in: I'm failing my Dom; I'm useless; I'm not providing the service required of me.
And of course you, the Dom, thinking to be helpful will pinch in with statement such as: You are not taking your task seriously; I gave you lot of responsibility and you need to step up to the plate; and other assorted supposedly "motivational" statements.

What the hell are you thinking? Women do not operate as men do. Sub do not operate as Dom do. If you want two subs you'll have to find them yourself. If you want your sub to find her, than make sure your first sub is either a switch wanting a sub of her own or a sub ready to try out being a Domme and then let them find a sub. If it works out, she might share her find with you.

A highly frustrated sub.

*hugs*

Been in a somewhat similar situation, not exactly the same but I understand how painful it feels to be one of two women. Emotional headcase is the term I would use to describe myself in that position.

*extra hugs*

 

[rida]

Dear rida,
Thank you for posting this. I'm sending you some hugs.

*Hugs* me

*hugs*

Been in a somewhat similar situation, not exactly the same but I understand how painful it feels to be one of two women. Emotional headcase is the term I would use to describe myself in that position.

*extra hugs*

Thanks!



And actually I have some grievance with other subs too at the moment

 

[JMohegan]

Women do not operate as men do. Sub do not operate as Dom do.

Of course not.

An s comes to her D and says, "Sir, you're fabulous, of course, but I've decided that I need an additional D. I therefore respectfully ask you to please find one that you consider suitable."

What would happen next? In the overwhelming majority of cases, the response would be the equivalent of: no fucking way, I'm not wired to tolerate that. If the s persisted, the ultimate response would be: adiós.



Dear Rida,

With respect to your most fundamental needs and breaking point, I recommend thinking like a D.

JM