Dear X:

[EmpressFi]

Dear realty gods

Please let our house sell... please let our house sell

 

[Plucky19]

Dear X,

Thank you... for being you.

 

[bholderman]

Ugh, well said, sir. Unfortunately, there is this limbo period where the future is unsure, reconcile or end it...

But well said...

Dear SKL and BiF, BH, myself (and anyone else going through the end of a relationship),

It ain't easy. There WILL be pain. How we act, or react to that pain is a measure of our character. Some will lash out. Some will suppress it. Some will weep unconsolably. Some learn to experience the pain, process it, then let it flush through their system and let it go.

The end is rarely all one person's fault. Almost always both parties contributed to the end. Needs were not met, desires were ignored, communication was broken, not enough words were spoken, or the ones that were spoken were not listened to or acted upon.

Sometimes... sometimes it's no one's fault except the demon Change that works it's awful magic on people over time, and they grow slowly apart, until one day they realize that they are living in different worlds, different circles, and what once felt like unity now feels like singularity.

We'll survive. We'll grow. And with luck, love will blossom once again.

 

[SweetGigi]

Dear Body,

Just stop. I don't know why you are doing this to me, but please just stop. I don't know how much more I can take of the pain-filled/sleepless nights and the night terrors that peal through the dark like a knife. I try so hard to be so strong, to do this alone, but in the end all I need and want is someone to care enough about me to take an interest. I am so scared right now.

What ever it is you're trying to tell me, I am listening.

Love,

Me

 

[LittleJade]

Dear pet,

I haven't heard from you all weekend.

I hope you're okay.

Lady.

 

[00Syd]

Dear me,

You got the paper done! You did it! You thought it would kill you but lo and behold, you are done with it forever!

Now all you have to do is keep it the fuck up. Don't break down, your not going to die, your going to do it.

Love,
Me

 

[myinnerslut]

Dear me,

You got the paper done! You did it! You thought it would kill you but lo and behold, you are done with it forever!

Now all you have to do is keep it the fuck up. Don't break down, your not going to die, your going to do it.

Love,
Me

dear me,

you have multiple projects and papers due in the next few days! she what she did?!?! she _finished_ hers. be more like her. work. just get it done.

love,
me

 

[00Syd]

dear me,

you have multiple projects and papers due in the next few days! she what she did?!?! she _finished_ hers. be more like her. work. just get it done.

love,
me

*sigh* I know the feeling

I have SO much more to get done. I was amazed when I came to the end of my paper, read it a few time just to make sure it really was done and I wasn't imagining things.

You'll get it all done somehow, MIS, we both will.

Thats what I keep telling myself, anyway.

Fingers crossed!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

dear me,

you have multiple projects and papers due in the next few days! she what she did?!?! she _finished_ hers. be more like her. work. just get it done.

love,
me

Dear MIS,

love your new AV!!! It says it all. The fact this pic made me cry reminds me i need to find my place again, too. sigh

I am happy for you and your Sir. *HUGGS*





Feeling useless suck. Be it as a woman, a sub, a being..... still SUCK.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Dear self,

you're so stupid, stupid, STUPID!!!

The day you realise you dont need X, you dont need Y, you dont need Z, that you dont need ANYONE, you'll be oh so HAPPY and soooo fucking OKAY.

Now go and keep saying to yourself "I DONT NEED ANYONE" so many times, untill you fucking get it!!!!!

good luck!!

 

[myinnerslut]

Dear MIS,

love your new AV!!! It says it all. The fact this pic made me cry reminds me i need to find my place again, too. sigh

I am happy for you and your Sir. *HUGGS*

thank you, its a shot from friday night. hes the photogropher though, so credit goes to him. i just stood there and looked pretty.

 

[lilly85]

.............

 

[twysted73]

Dear fellow Litsters:

There must be something in the water....all these break ups. We'll all be okay though, as Geoff said so wonderfully. Take care and stay strong everyone!


~lilly~

((Lovin' that PA pallor.))

Spring time. Time to mate and spread the seed.

Too many of my fellow male contemporaries are currently wrapped up in following Mr. Winky's advice.

Ladies...to you I apologize en mass for them.
Forgive them, but do not go back to them nomatter how much you think a "second chance" will change things.
All you're doing is possitively reinforcing negative behavior.

He'll think he can do it again and still keep you. You'll be setting yourself up for round 2.

For the benefit of other women out there, teach him here and now it's not to be tolerated by you or any other woman he meets.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=xtJ1rW9hSqc&feature=related

We men seem to learn through hindsight and past regret best.
I've had my belly full of regret.
I know I've lost enough to have learned.

As for those of us who've been on the receiving end of this.....my condolences.
Yours is out there waiting for you to find her....
Dont force fate. Let fate bring her to you.

 

[bholderman]

To defend myself, Im not the one who cheated and walked out the door...

Spring time. Time to mate and spread the seed.

Too many of my fellow male contemporaries are currently wrapped up in following Mr. Winky's advice.

Ladies...to you I apologize en mass for them.
Forgive them, but do not go back to them nomatter how much you think a "second chance" will change things.
All you're doing is possitively reinforcing negative behavior.

He'll think he can do it again and still keep you. You'll be setting yourself up for round 2.

For the benefit of other women out there, teach him here and now it's not to be tolerated by you or any other woman he meets.
We men seem to learn through hindsight and past regret best.
I've had my belly full of regret.
I know I've lost enough to have learned.


Lovin' that PA pallor.

 

[intothewoods]

Spring time. Time to mate and spread the seed.

Too many of my fellow male contemporaries are currently wrapped up in following Mr. Winky's advice.

Ladies...to you I apologize en mass for them.
Forgive them, but do not go back to them nomatter how much you think a "second chance" will change things.
All you're doing is possitively reinforcing negative behavior.

He'll think he can do it again and still keep you. You'll be setting yourself up for round 2.

For the benefit of other women out there, teach him here and now it's not to be tolerated by you or any other woman he meets.
We men seem to learn through hindsight and past regret best.
I've had my belly full of regret.
I know I've lost enough to have learned.


Lovin' that PA pallor.

I get what you mean, but I have to say that I cringe at the word "teach" with respect to romantic relationships. Boys who are looking to be taught can go elsewhere. And as for the "benefit of other women" as a motivation? That's a tall order. I think everyone can be responsible for their own boundaries. Thank you kindly.

 

[intothewoods]

To defend myself, Im not the one who cheated and walked out the door...

You don't need to defend yourself, Brad. We all know there are just as many jerky women as there are men.

 

[twysted73]

To defend myself, Im not the one who cheated and walked out the door...

I know nothing of your personal situation. I was actually referring to my own learned past.

Didn't mean to hit a nerve. If I did, it was unintentional in nature.

'Slainte.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Breaking? No. Broken? Yes. Engagement ring taken back and collar returned. No cheating or incidents, just not enough of whatever we needed/were looking for. We remain friends, we will remain housemates (at least for the time being), but are no longer Master/slave.

This is something that was a long time coming and honestly, I've been struggling with my own inner demons and ignoring janey and her needs for too long. She needed this for her own sanity and happiness, and I needed it to make me realize how far up my own ass I had stuck my head.

Perhaps in time things will change between us again, perhaps not.

I need to spend time working on my own issues and getting healthy again.

Sorry you are both in the place you are right now. It takes courage to admit when things aren't working the way intended in the beginning and for that alone you deserve to be commended. Hope things work out in a way which brings you both happiness, either together or singularly, whichever speaks best to your hearts.

Catalina

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Dear X

I walk alone and feel the weight of the world upon my shoulders. I feel so disconnected as ship without a rudder. While the sun still rises it gives me no warmth or light. I ran to fast and too far and never saw you weren't behind me. Each day I pray to get stronger, as know that can't hold a dream that is no more.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

To defend myself, Im not the one who cheated and walked out the door...

Me either, but think it doesnt matter tbh.

Sweet beginings tend to have bitter ends. At least here. :/

 

[LittleJade]

Yes, so many breakups, so many things ending.

Dear X-

no- not you, who's going to think this post about you.

The other X, the one from the past... it sucks that I'm hurt by that.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Yes, so many breakups, so many things ending.

Dear X-

no- not you, who's going to think this post about you.

The other X, the one from the past... it sucks that I'm hurt by that.

*HUGGS*

 

[EmpressFi]

Dear Malin and Keeper,

Thank you both for loving me for who I am. Thank you for not trying to change me, to meld me into something else.

Malin, thank you for putting up with my moods, my anger, my irrational jealousies and my sillyness

Keeper, thank you for loving me for me, for putting up with long distance, for seeing the light inside me and cherishing it instead of using your dominance over me as a reason to break what makes me me.

I love you both so much, I couldnt bear to be without either of you.

Me

 

[FurryFury]

Dear X,

Why are you so quick to claim to know a child that has tragically died when you can't even get her name right?

Why do people try to gloam onto and somehow feed off such a thing? I've seen it time and time again.

How can the death of someone so young with such potential make ANY sense? If there were a God, how could s/he possibly explain this?

Do only the good die young truly? I think not. It just sometimes seems that way. Maybe there is something to this whole karma thing after all? Maybe she had got it right and done what she was supposed.

I WISH I could believe that. I wish I could believe many things. Logic keeps tripping me up.

 

[SweetGigi]

Dear X,


I won't show my weakness or fears any more. Only bright eyes and bushy tails from now on.


I am sorry to have bothered you.


Me.