Dear X:

[Millificent]

Dear Self,

Don't be a brat! Suck it up and quit feeling sorry for yourself.

Me

 

[h_i_s]

.....

 

[nh23]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with voicing your opinion. I do it all the time and sometimes get called a bitch for doing so, but that's ok. Sometimes all a woman has is being a bitch..lol. BUT..there is a huge difference between disagreeing with someone and voicing that you do..sometimes with a lot of passion (which I tend to do at times..lol) and stooping to name calling. I've argued my opinions on this board many times, but I've never once called someone a cunt, etc..Name calling is a last resort for someone who isn't intelligent enough to come up with a plausible argument for their case. Just my opinion...take it or leave it

 

[Bi_Kitty]

Dear Qunicy's,

You took all my money. You teased us with just letting one of our dogs place. And we didn't have a clue to what we was doing downstairs. You kept us out to the early hours of Sunday. However, you did serve us good steak and entainment for the night. Actually it was the best night I have had in awhile. Thank you for everything, (even the taking of my money part)!

Me

 

[BiBunny]

Dear Kitty,

Thank you for last night. I needed it. I needed to be reminded that there is life after lardass.

I'm gonna be ok. If I keep telling myself that, it'll have to come true. Thank you for everything, beautiful girl. I love you.

~Bunny

 

[00Syd]

I don't do double standards, either.

So you don't do double standards, yet you seem to think its okay to talk a lot of shit about someone while at the same time if someone just DISAGREES with you, thats unacceptable and warrants an attack.

Your completely free to speak your opinion, as are all the rest of us. I have no problem with that.

I just wish you'd quit your senseless attacks on people. It really doesn't help make the literotica boards feel like an open and welcoming place. I'm always worried that I'll say the wrong thing and be vilified for it without any chance to explain myself or make amends. I don't think thats the sort of atmosphere that we want here.

And if someone could tell h_i_s all that, someone she hasn't blocked, that would be great....



(I'm just... irritated. sorry everyone)

 

[ecstaticsub]

So you don't do double standards, yet you seem to think its okay to talk a lot of shit about someone while at the same time if someone just DISAGREES with you, thats unacceptable and warrants an attack.

Your completely free to speak your opinion, as are all the rest of us. I have no problem with that.

I just wish you'd quit your senseless attacks on people. It really doesn't help make the literotica boards feel like an open and welcoming place. I'm always worried that I'll say the wrong thing and be vilified for it without any chance to explain myself or make amends. I don't think thats the sort of atmosphere that we want here.

And if someone could tell h_i_s all that, someone she hasn't blocked, that would be great....

(I'm just... irritated. sorry everyone)

In the event I'm not blocked...yet...

 

[Millificent]

Dear Self (again),

I told you not to be a brat! Please listen. You'll thank me later!

Me

 

[HottieMama]

Dear (non-lit) X...

Please call me...i miss you. If i listen to this Springsteen song one more time, i think my computer is going to revolt. i can't help it though. It reminds me of you...and your smile.

Missing you terribly...
nikki

 

[BiBunny]

Dear X,

I hope I (finally) get it right this time.

~Me

 

[sinnocence]

Dear You,


Please don't hurt me any more.


-me

 

[HottieMama]

Dear self...

Don't let yourself spiral downward. It's NOT worth it.

Love,
Your calmer, rational self.

 

[intothewoods]

In his's defense, biatchinfire did respond to her intial complaint with "sorry, princess." So I can understand why she felt pissed off.

However, I also think she went too far with her comments about biatchinfire's fetus and calling her "dumb cunt." It's like going nuclear when someone throws a rock at you.

We are all members of this community, so to a certain extent, we all answer to each other. I don't know, just play nice and take it down a notch. Is that so hard?

 

[Sprinkles22]

Dear Self (again),

I told you not to be a brat! Please listen. You'll thank me later!

Me

Dear Millificent:

Brats gets spanked! (or at least I do when I'm a brat)

Don't let yourself be a brat.

Be strong!!

*huggles*

~Sprinkles

 

[minx1]

People spoke out because they didn't like the viciousness of your attack. End of.

People have agreed that everyone here is entitled to their opinions and to voice them, that was never the issue. No one asked you to or would expect you to change your opinion. It is also entirely up to you if you decide not to modify your behaviour and post in that venomous manner again.

Your choice. But equally our choice not to accept it.

I am not posting on this matter again. The thread has been hijacked enough.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

BF,

Calling you a cunt should be taken as a compliment.

I see. Well thank you for the compliment.


As for the rest of the nice things you have said about me yesterday I can say just this. I fell asleep crying yesterday, thinking how much more people here think of me the same way you do. I really thought I will leave this boards after the post you made. I was being ironic, but you were simply rude, vicious and nasty and I really think it was not needed.

I had few disagreemnts on this boards before, but we never ever get so low to call each other dumb cunt's and things like that. Not to mentoin the part about my child..... which I see as really sleazy from your side.

Perhaps those girls that you don't want to know about are more sophisticated, smarter, better educated, have more common sense, and arouse his mind better than you are capable of? Ever think of that? Bet you haven't... that would require at least an IQ of a 2 to even concider and you require at least a 3 just to grunt

What can I say. If being more educated, smarter, have more common sense as you say etc etc = be more like you????? then THANKS GOD I am the simple minded dumb cunt as you say cuz if I spoke to someone the way you do, I wouldnt be able to stand myself then.

But to reply if I ever think of that? I did yes. Did you ever think why he's still runing back to me while he can have any thin gorgeous girl he want? Well lemme tell you, its quite simple. The physical beauty and cute face is not everything. They might be nice and sexy, but they too often suck as a person and are hard to live with. Some people are living proof of that, isnt it true?

Well, thats why he's still runing back to me eventho I am just a fat simple minded dumb cunt as you say. You cannot live with someone whos just fuckable. Life is about way much more than that. They are just a good fuck-I prefer being a good partner and since my man lives with me and not with them I guess he prefer the very same thing. The beauty is transient, it's what is inside of the person what matters.

Everyone have his own way how to deal with people who piss you off. I must say you have your own and very special way how to deal with those who disagree with you. I dont mind you call me a dumb cunt really, but call like that even ecstaticsub who did really nuthing to you? I really expected more from you. :/

The reason why I didnt reply to your post yesterday is cuz I just didnt know what to say to something like that. I am not used to be talk to this way and I am not allowed talk the way you do on this boards either. My PYL would be very dissapointed and displeased in me if I said what you said. And even if I was allowed, I would never say something like that to anyone, not even to my wurst enemy. Its just not my thing to dish someone this way.

You seem to be okay with calling dumb cunt quite anyone? Oh well. I might be bitch now and then, I might be ironic and I might disagree with people, I might even be the dumb cunt as you say, but YOU need to grow up and learn how to talk to people with a bit of respect.

Good luck!

 

[unpredictablebijou]

I


What can I say. If being more educated, smarter, have more common sense as you say etc etc = be more like you?????
then THANKS GOD I am the simple minded dumb cunt as you say cuz if I spoke to someone the way you do, I wouldnt be able to stand myself then.

***

YOU need to grow up and learn how to talk to people with a bit of respect.

Good luck!

Very well said, sweet.

You totally don't need to be stressin' about any of this just at the moment. Just know it'll all settle down and don't take any of it too seriously.

blessings,
bj

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Dear self...

Don't let yourself spiral downward. It's NOT worth it.

Love,
Your calmer, rational self.

{{{{{lots of warm hugs}}}}}

I dunno who you miss HM, but I miss someone as well so I know how you feel like. Hope it will get better soon.

 

[Betticus]

Cyberbullying involves recurring or repeated harm willfully inflicted through the medium of electronic text. In order for it to be cyber-bullying, the intent must be to cause emotional distress, and there must be no legitimate purpose to the communication.


From wikipedia. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyber-bullying

Now, can we get back on topic?

 

[LittleJade]

Dear Honey:

The closer we get to the day, the happier I am. The happier you seem to be, too. We're more at peace, we're more touchy-feely, we're sleeping better (for the most part), and the sex is getting better and more frequent.

I'm taking this as a good sign!


I love you so very much... I can't wait to be your wife.

Your baby.

 

[minx1]

dear x

I know I owe you a pm. Things are a little strange right now.

Give me some time and I will write.

 

[Wyldfire]

Dear X,

Why do you claim to have no problem with us being Poly and then talk poorly about it behind our backs?

(Non-Lit by the way)

 

[chauderlos]

Dear You,

i feel so completely and utterly helpless. You are the single most important person in my world right now and i feel like i am losing You in this depression and self doubt. i'd do just about anything to give You the confidence You need to get thru this and to rise above the loneliness and uncertainity. Please don't push me away... i think i love You and to lose You would kill the last shread of hope i have in this world. Please don't give up on us.

Love,

Me

Hold tight, girl -

 

[Millificent]

Dear Millificent:

Brats gets spanked! (or at least I do when I'm a brat)

Don't let yourself be a brat.

Be strong!!

*huggles*

~Sprinkles

Thanks, Sprinkles!

 

[SweetGigi]

Hold tight, girl -

Thank you, hun. Pray for me, please?