Dear X:

[Jezebel77]

Dear X,

I'll admit I know nothing about your relationship or why it ended, but I think it was extremely tacky to post that, no matter how heartfelt it was. I don't know if you wanted some {{{{{{{Hug}}}}}}} or from other lit-sters or "what happened??". It would have been more meaningful said in PM or better yet, in person. In any case, its a private matter and shouldn't be for anyone else to see or be able to comment on.

J

 

[nh23]

Dear X,

I'll admit I know nothing about your relationship or why it ended, but I think it was extremely tacky to post that, no matter how heartfelt it was. I don't know if you wanted some {{{{{{{Hug}}}}}}} or from other lit-sters or "what happened??". It would have been more meaningful said in PM or better yet, in person. In any case, its a private matter and shouldn't be for anyone else to see or be able to comment on.

J

Seeing how you don't know any of the circumstances, or why I did what I did, I guess it's a good thing I don't give a fuck what you think.

ETA- Anyone who really knows me knows they aren't going to get shit if they ask me what happened. If I wanted to tell what happened I would. Nor do I need hugs or roses. I had a reason for doing what I did..and don't feel the need to tell you that either.

 

[BiBunny]

Seeing how you don't know any of the circumstances, or why I did what I did, I guess it's a good thing I don't give a fuck what you think.

ETA- Anyone who really knows me knows they aren't going to get shit if they ask me what happened. If I wanted to tell what happened I would. Nor do I need hugs or roses. I had a reason for doing what I did..and don't feel the need to tell you that either.

Dear nh,

I love you so fucking much.

~Bunny

 

[SubKekiLee]

Dear X,

I'll admit I know nothing about your relationship or why it ended, but I think it was extremely tacky to post that, no matter how heartfelt it was. I don't know if you wanted some {{{{{{{Hug}}}}}}} or from other lit-sters or "what happened??". It would have been more meaningful said in PM or better yet, in person. In any case, its a private matter and shouldn't be for anyone else to see or be able to comment on.

J

Dear J
let me just say that this is a thread to say your peace...... LEAVE NH alone and understand that everyone says what they feel..... NH more power to you... YOU deserve to say anything you want..... YOU Go girl..

 

[Bandit58]

Dear X,

I'll admit I know nothing about your relationship or why it ended, but I think it was extremely tacky to post that, no matter how heartfelt it was. I don't know if you wanted some {{{{{{{Hug}}}}}}} or from other lit-sters or "what happened??". It would have been more meaningful said in PM or better yet, in person. In any case, its a private matter and shouldn't be for anyone else to see or be able to comment on.

J

If people didn't post about their relationships Lit would be half the size it is now and we'd all be posting crap on the GB

A lot of people come here for help or support or just to vent - in my almost 6000 posts here a lot of them have been just that. In fact this entire thread is a place for people to vent. We don't need to know the details of just WHY they are venting, it's enough just to feel able to say stuff in a safe place, with no judgements.

I don't know you nh23, but good on you for saying what you needed to

 

[doveofserenity]

Dear BDSM Cafe:

I snagged this from the AH because it was such an entertaining idea, and a way to vent at the same time (thank you Cloudy). Write as many letters as you like; get it out of your system whatever the emotion may be. The letter can be to anyone and be about anything. Go ahead, you'll feel better.


kiten

This is the OP's first post for this thread.

So who cares if people know who someone is with, and if they met them here? This is the thread for people to VENT . They need to get whatever the problem is out of their system before it can do too much emotional damage.

NH, you did nothing wrong by venting on this thread. Thats what its for.

 

[Bi_Kitty]

Dear X,

I'll admit I know nothing about your relationship or why it ended, but I think it was extremely tacky to post that, no matter how heartfelt it was. I don't know if you wanted some {{{{{{{Hug}}}}}}} or from other lit-sters or "what happened??". It would have been more meaningful said in PM or better yet, in person. In any case, its a private matter and shouldn't be for anyone else to see or be able to comment on.

J

I agree with what everyone has said about your post. This thread is a place where people can get things off their chest and say their peace. If you don't like what someone said then go else where! No one needs you telling them what they "should do" and "shouldn't do." Last time I checked you was either one of the people involved in nh23's orignial post and also you aren't either one of their parents. So, BACK THE F*CK OFF!

 

[wenchhh]

unfair

Dear X,
You lied to me. You took advantage of my trusting soul and used me. You led me on and then just dropped me like a hot potato. I treated you better than anyone ever has, by far. I would have understood if you'd just told me the truth. I care about you enough to want you to do what makes you happy, but why did you have to do it in such a hurtful, disrespectful, demeaning way? I could have forgiven you so much. I can't forgive this. You screwed up big time, buddy. May you regret it for a long long time to come.

 

[intothewoods]

This is the OP's first post for this thread.

So who cares if people know who someone is with, and if they met them here? This is the thread for people to VENT . They need to get whatever the problem is out of their system before it can do too much emotional damage.

NH, you did nothing wrong by venting on this thread. Thats what its for.

Lol, well, in Jezebel's defense, she too was venting!

It's true though - the Dear X thread is say what you wanna to who you wanna. It is what it is.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Lol, well, in Jezebel's defense, she too was venting!

It's true though - the Dear X thread is say what you wanna to who you wanna. It is what it is.

Also in Jez's defense, no one would have known who she was talking about if parties had not made themselves known. I sure as hell had no idea who she was talking about when I read the post.

On the flip side, Nicole, though we have had our differences, I do find it admirable that you were able to post how you felt.

 

[Jezebel77]

she too was venting!

Exactly.

 

[nh23]

Thank you everyone.. I really appreciate it I've made it clear at other times that I hate the way this Dear X thread is used at times. I don't like posting to an anonymous person to take a pot shot..and I've never done that. I make it clear who I am talking to and say what I have to say. The person I posted that too..knows what I was saying, he knows why I posted it..and we have already discussed it and he had no problem with it being there. So, I don't think anyone else should either. *shrugs* so Jezebel77 if you didn't know that..now you do. So, I'd say the best course of action is to not try to play the hero and drop it..but do what you wish. I respect your right to your opinion, as I will give mine as well.

 

[LittleJade]

Dear x:

I need an attitude adjustment. I know that. I'm working on it, rather dedicatedly lately... I know I'm a spoiled brat... I know that I'm pig-headed and stubborn and a bitch. I know this- I'm working on it... looking yourself in the mirror, to see all of the ugly parts of yourself... is tough... and I haven't been honest with myself.

What you don't expect though, of my work on my own character... is that you may end up with silence... you ... as much as I adore you... are one of the things that causes me conflict. You cause me pain, simply by being there, when I can't have you. I have to step back from you- from the conflict, from the self-doubt... I have to be what I am, not what you tell me I am. I have to tear down the things I dislike, and rebuild... but I have to do it without depending on your input... because I feel dishonest to myself when I mould myself to your opinion.

We both see me differently. We agree on certain things- my brattiness, my stubbornness, etc... but I know that the work that needs to be done... needs to be done without you.

I love you. I worry about you. I miss you. And you will always have a piece of my heart... always. If you ever need me, find me...


but I need to, as you put it... grow up, and be the adult I am.

 

[Jezebel77]

Dear Me,

Don't you dare!!! Mom hasn't had any gifts from you to open on Christmas day because you get so excited and give them to her early. Sure you already have all her gifts and she already guessed what one of them was (from the hints you were giving!!!), but don't even think about giving them to her!!

DON'T DO IT!!!

Love Jez


Dear B,

You will never, ever guess what you are getting for Christmas. It is SOOO much better than a Nintendo Wii.

Its a gold prospecting kit!!
I swear, everytime he watches Gold Fever he says he wants to get it!!

Love Jez

 

[intothewoods]

Dear X,

You're an idiot. A blowhard douchebag who says way too much without saying anything at all. I don't get it. At all.

intothewoods

 

[coy_one]

Dear Me,
We really must get better at listening to our guts. I know you're making HUGE steps. But, really. Listen to your guts. They won't steer you wrong and you know this.

 

[Netzach]

Dear ITW, I know I may get a little crusty after a couple of woodchuck ciders, but gosh that was harsh....

 

[Jezebel77]

Dear Christmas Tree Lights,

Please tell me how 6 of the 8 strands all decided to die this year when you were all working perfectly fine last year....don't you know they don't sell your color combination anymore?

Jez

 

[intothewoods]

Dear ITW, I know I may get a little crusty after a couple of woodchuck ciders, but gosh that was harsh....

Ha ha! Puhleaaase.

 

[FeistyOrchid]

Dear That Guy

Hey you! You're driving me ABSOLUTELY nuts! You spend hardly anytime with me anymore-with your family! Our sex life sucks big time and I tried to broach the subject about my other interests but you would be scared. You treat me like such a princess that you don't even realize I might want to try being the wench sometime! I love you dearly but I'm bored. We need to start trying some new things and you need to start listening to/spending time with me otherwise I'm gone. The end!

Wow- that feels better to get out. I would never go but it feels nice to say lol.

 

[SubKekiLee]

Dear X
WOW everyday you make me feel more and more incredible, I know how much I mean to you and you know how much you mean to me... You make me the happiest sub ever.... Im so thankful I gave in and met you and felt the amazing connection that seems to even wave over us hundreds of miles apart.....thank you for caring for me..

 

[LittleJade]

My dearest X, the only man I can think of who can be my Dom, the man that I have tried so hard to please, the man who speaks truth to me, the man who I am absolutely terrified of surrendering completely to:

I heard a song today. The lyrics speak perfectly for me:

La Da Da Da Da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your home town
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
To be with myself and Center, Clarity
Peace, Serenity

[CHORUS:]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

The path that I'm walking
I must go alone
I must take the baby steps 'til I'm full grown, full grown
Fairytales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay

[CHORUS:]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do


And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Like the little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and UNO cards
I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine
Yes you can hold my hand if you want to
'Cause I want to hold yours too
We'll be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself and Center, Clarity
Peace, Serenity

[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

La Da Da Da Da Da

 

[northwoods_sub]

Dear X,

I am sorry that I am always such a disapointment to you.
I am sorry that I apparently have been raising the kids wrong all of these years.
I am sorry that I can't be an anonymous sex toy all of the time.
I am sorry that my explainations don't matter.
My only question is, if I am so horrible at everything and don't seem to be able to give you what you need why the fuck are you still here?

Me

 

[doveofserenity]

Dear Self,

Why do you keep falling for that sob's routine?
Are you that damn naive? Or just stupid?
He has pulled the same bs three fucking times!
Next time he calls, no matter what; break that promise....and tell him to go fuck himself and leave you alone.
He is making you do crap you swore would never happen again. Its not who you are, dammit!

sorry, just venting. Not aimed at anyone on here.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Seeing how you don't know any of the circumstances, or why I did what I did, I guess it's a good thing I don't give a fuck what you think.

ETA- Anyone who really knows me knows they aren't going to get shit if they ask me what happened. If I wanted to tell what happened I would. Nor do I need hugs or roses. I had a reason for doing what I did..and don't feel the need to tell you that either.

Actually, what is so funny is that you are so worried about drama and here you go creating it. Jezebell was right.. this was something that shouldn't have been aired out in public.