Dear X:

[Biffalo_Buff]

Thanks guys, I appreciate your support.

Am just a bit mopesy today.

Hasn't been the best day in that regard. I just really miss him and have been a a tad blue today.

Any idea when I stop feeling love? lol

Anyway, enough of me being morose....am gonna have a glass of wine and watch a movie

So glad you both had a lovely time....roll on your next meet up eh

Dear minx,

not that you know me or that I have any right to respond to this, but your comment really struck me.

I don't think we ever stop feeling love, even for those who are too stupid or too wounded to recognize it, who refuse our most selfless and beautiful offers of it. Love, real love like that which you apparently dedicated yourself to, is more powerful and more eternal than that.

But Love, in and of itself, is not what makes us sad; Love is not what hurts us, or at least that's what I believe. What causes the pain is not the pure Love but the expectations and trust and dreams we attach to it, and those will indeed eventually fade, especially if you help them along with new sources of hope and new dreams and new nourishment.

The fact that you offered and continue to offer, even at a distance, that sort of pure Love is what will eventually heal the wounds. That Love exists beyond anyone's willingness to receive it or live up to it; it simply is, and its value is not for others but rather for you, for the increased beauty and wisdom of your own soul.

And eventually, that pure form of Love, what's left after all the old hopes have burned away from it, is the gold that empowers us in all our other relationships. Once the externals are burned away, the false hope and betrayal and the pain of disillusionment are all taken off the outside of it, what we have is pure Love, like gold after a refiner's fire. That real Love exists beyond its application to any single person, beyond the moment or the vagaries of fate and deception, and purified by time it is powerful enough that it becomes a cup from which we drink throughout our lives.

I've never believed in "God" per se. But I believe in Love: eternal, immutable, the space between molecules, the heartbeat that informs everything, the true invisible substance from which we are made and into which we will ultimately dissolve.

Again, you don't know me and it's silly for me to leap in and pontificate like this, but your comment really moved me. Thanks for indulging me for a moment.

 

[CutieMouse]

I know this was directed to Minx, but thank you.

Dear minx,

not that you know me or that I have any right to respond to this, but your comment really struck me.

I don't think we ever stop feeling love, even for those who are too stupid or too wounded to recognize it, who refuse our most selfless and beautiful offers of it. Love, real love like that which you apparently dedicated yourself to, is more powerful and more eternal than that.

But Love, in and of itself, is not what makes us sad; Love is not what hurts us, or at least that's what I believe. What causes the pain is not the pure Love but the expectations and trust and dreams we attach to it, and those will indeed eventually fade, especially if you help them along with new sources of hope and new dreams and new nourishment.

The fact that you offered and continue to offer, even at a distance, that sort of pure Love is what will eventually heal the wounds. That Love exists beyond anyone's willingness to receive it or live up to it; it simply is, and its value is not for others but rather for you, for the increased beauty and wisdom of your own soul.

And eventually, that pure form of Love, what's left after all the old hopes have burned away from it, is the gold that empowers us in all our other relationships. Once the externals are burned away, the false hope and betrayal and the pain of disillusionment are all taken off the outside of it, what we have is pure Love, like gold after a refiner's fire. That real Love exists beyond its application to any single person, beyond the moment or the vagaries of fate and deception, and purified by time it is powerful enough that it becomes a cup from which we drink throughout our lives.

I've never believed in "God" per se. But I believe in Love: eternal, immutable, the space between molecules, the heartbeat that informs everything, the true invisible substance from which we are made and into which we will ultimately dissolve.

Again, you don't know me and it's silly for me to leap in and pontificate like this, but your comment really moved me. Thanks for indulging me for a moment.

 

[ShyVixen]

Dear x, I've had such a wonderful weekend. I hate the day when I have to leave because I miss you so much I just really wanted to say thank you... You make me so happy. Love, me x x x

 

[minx1]

Dear minx,

not that you know me or that I have any right to respond to this, but your comment really struck me.

I don't think we ever stop feeling love, even for those who are too stupid or too wounded to recognize it, who refuse our most selfless and beautiful offers of it. Love, real love like that which you apparently dedicated yourself to, is more powerful and more eternal than that.

But Love, in and of itself, is not what makes us sad; Love is not what hurts us, or at least that's what I believe. What causes the pain is not the pure Love but the expectations and trust and dreams we attach to it, and those will indeed eventually fade, especially if you help them along with new sources of hope and new dreams and new nourishment.

The fact that you offered and continue to offer, even at a distance, that sort of pure Love is what will eventually heal the wounds. That Love exists beyond anyone's willingness to receive it or live up to it; it simply is, and its value is not for others but rather for you, for the increased beauty and wisdom of your own soul.

And eventually, that pure form of Love, what's left after all the old hopes have burned away from it, is the gold that empowers us in all our other relationships. Once the externals are burned away, the false hope and betrayal and the pain of disillusionment are all taken off the outside of it, what we have is pure Love, like gold after a refiner's fire. That real Love exists beyond its application to any single person, beyond the moment or the vagaries of fate and deception, and purified by time it is powerful enough that it becomes a cup from which we drink throughout our lives.

I've never believed in "God" per se. But I believe in Love: eternal, immutable, the space between molecules, the heartbeat that informs everything, the true invisible substance from which we are made and into which we will ultimately dissolve.

Again, you don't know me and it's silly for me to leap in and pontificate like this, but your comment really moved me. Thanks for indulging me for a moment.

Thankyou so much Biffalo_Buff. And yes, although I don't really know you, I feel as though I know you a little bit more now and am glad to. *soft smile*

Your words are quite beautiful and equally moved me. I am almost embarrassed that my sad one liner, which was hardly poetic evoked such wonderful words and thoughts.

But that one line, albeit extremely inadequate in expressing the depth of my feelings (dispair? lol....you choose), did come from my core. Thankyou for realising that.

So lovely, it made me cry. I savoured every word.

The part in bold gave me hope, filled me with comfort and made me feel strangely content to feel this way.

 

[minx1]

Lots of hugs for you my dear friend!

hugs Minx.... I've had that feeling before. HUGS

*BIG HUG*

Thanks for the hugs guys. You are really supportive and it very much appreciated.

Am a little chirpier today and finding all your hugs made me feel lovely

 

[sinnocence]

Dear Sweetheart,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i love You soooooooo very much. And i wish i could spend the day with You. i'll be thinking about You all day though. i can't wait to celebrate more birthdays with You.

Love,
me xoxo

 

[mscherrypoppins]

Dear minx,

not that you know me or that I have any right to respond to this, but your comment really struck me.

I don't think we ever stop feeling love, even for those who are too stupid or too wounded to recognize it, who refuse our most selfless and beautiful offers of it. Love, real love like that which you apparently dedicated yourself to, is more powerful and more eternal than that.

But Love, in and of itself, is not what makes us sad; Love is not what hurts us, or at least that's what I believe. What causes the pain is not the pure Love but the expectations and trust and dreams we attach to it, and those will indeed eventually fade, especially if you help them along with new sources of hope and new dreams and new nourishment.

The fact that you offered and continue to offer, even at a distance, that sort of pure Love is what will eventually heal the wounds. That Love exists beyond anyone's willingness to receive it or live up to it; it simply is, and its value is not for others but rather for you, for the increased beauty and wisdom of your own soul.

And eventually, that pure form of Love, what's left after all the old hopes have burned away from it, is the gold that empowers us in all our other relationships. Once the externals are burned away, the false hope and betrayal and the pain of disillusionment are all taken off the outside of it, what we have is pure Love, like gold after a refiner's fire. That real Love exists beyond its application to any single person, beyond the moment or the vagaries of fate and deception, and purified by time it is powerful enough that it becomes a cup from which we drink throughout our lives.

I've never believed in "God" per se. But I believe in Love: eternal, immutable, the space between molecules, the heartbeat that informs everything, the true invisible substance from which we are made and into which we will ultimately dissolve.

Again, you don't know me and it's silly for me to leap in and pontificate like this, but your comment really moved me. Thanks for indulging me for a moment.

your words are absolutely perfect. minx moved you, then you moved others, including me.

 

[mscherrypoppins]

Dear Butterfly,

I hope you know that, at all times, I support your feelings and your decisions. There are never any exceptions. When you have finished sorting and doing what is right for you (finally!!), I will be here. If you needed to go, then that is what you needed to do. When you get back, I will be ready to listen to every single thing you have to say. Including any juicy details, please!


MK

 

[Biffalo_Buff]

Thankyou so much Biffalo_Buff. And yes, although I don't really know you, I feel as though I know you a little bit more now and am glad to. *soft smile*

Your words are quite beautiful and equally moved me. I am almost embarrassed that my sad one liner, which was hardly poetic evoked such wonderful words and thoughts.

But that one line, albeit extremely inadequate in expressing the depth of my feelings (dispair? lol....you choose), did come from my core. Thankyou for realising that.

So lovely, it made me cry. I savoured every word.

The part in bold gave me hope, filled me with comfort and made me feel strangely content to feel this way.

*grin* Just call me BB. As in Bright Blessings to you in your quest.

While each of us experiences pain in our own way, and no one can say they truly understand another's pain, I daresay I've been some similar places to yours. Keeping the thought that Love conquers everything helped me get through to the other side. I hope it does the same for you.

bb

 

[unregistered]

 

[Red_Hot_Mama]

Dear x,
Quit messing with my mind ......

 

[fishercat]

Dear Me who is Eating Everything in Sight:

Stop sabotaging my efforts. Losing half a pound this month was your fault, not mine. I will come kick your sorry butt with my toned self if you keep it up.

Quite Sincerely,

Me who is Doing Yoga

 

[minx1]

*grin* Just call me BB. As in Bright Blessings to you in your quest.

While each of us experiences pain in our own way, and no one can say they truly understand another's pain, I daresay I've been some similar places to yours. Keeping the thought that Love conquers everything helped me get through to the other side. I hope it does the same for you.

bb

*beams* Thanks BB.

Really, thankyou.

Anyway, in keeping with the thread.....



Dear BB,

Tonight i realised it for myself! I know the answer to that throwaway question. I had a moment of clarity and it suddenly made sense.

And you are right of course, i won't stop feeling love.

Not because I am stupid; though i am certain some might think i am naive or at the very least a glutton for punishment! Nor am I blind to any negative traits - he has them just as we all do. I also understand too well the limitations that were placed on us. There were many.

But really, the answer struck me tonight and its so simple. It won't stop because I choose to love and whats more, I am able to.

I embrace it. I want it and indeed I will continue to share it.

I pondered your point; the one about love not hurting in itself. That the hurt comes from disillusionment and expectations and shattered dreams. Well I have no expectations now and I have seen some cold harsh truths. There are no rose coloured spectacles here!

And with that thought I decided that actually I can love him and not hurt. I will continue to enjoy loving for the joy of love itself.

Tonight I know the answer to my question. I don't want the love to stop.

I love and I am glad to.

Thankyou for sharing your thoughts for they have helped me in a profound way.

Sometimes you cannot change something other than your own approach to it.

~ L

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Dear X,

I know I have said that before, but I love you!!

*huggs, kisses n pinches *
~pet

 

[__OWNED__]

Dear Birthday Boy,

I will put a bow on it and give your present later.

HS

 

[Condatis]

Dear Birthday Boy,

I will put a bow on it and give your present later.

HS

Dear Sexy

You had better make the bow a long and strong one...remember, my list!!!

 

[naxalite0906]

Dear X,
I really am going to miss you. Last weekend was amazing. I had a wonderful time with you. Having you around always makes me smile and feel happy. Its horrible knowing we wont be able to have that again. It will be so hard letting go.
You really are incredible. I wish things didnt have to end. I will miss you so much.
Me

 

[Biffalo_Buff]

*beams* Thanks BB.

Really, thankyou.

Anyway, in keeping with the thread.....



Dear BB,

Tonight i realised it for myself! I know the answer to that throwaway question. I had a moment of clarity and it suddenly made sense.

And you are right of course, i won't stop feeling love.

Not because I am stupid; though i am certain some might think i am naive or at the very least a glutton for punishment! Nor am I blind to any negative traits - he has them just as we all do. I also understand too well the limitations that were placed on us. There were many.

But really, the answer struck me tonight and its so simple. It won't stop because I choose to love and whats more, I am able to.

I embrace it. I want it and indeed I will continue to share it.

I pondered your point; the one about love not hurting in itself. That the hurt comes from disillusionment and expectations and shattered dreams. Well I have no expectations now and I have seen some cold harsh truths. There are no rose coloured spectacles here!

And with that thought I decided that actually I can love him and not hurt. I will continue to enjoy loving for the joy of love itself.

Tonight I know the answer to my question. I don't want the love to stop.

I love and I am glad to.

Thankyou for sharing your thoughts for they have helped me in a profound way.

Sometimes you cannot change something other than your own approach to it.

~ L

Absolutely words to live by. I'm so glad you're feeling better now, and I really hope you find not just one person but a whole beautiful tribe at which to aim your obviously worthwhile and powerful love.

And in the meantime, of course, there's all of us.

blessings,
bb

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Dear X,
I really am going to miss you. Last weekend was amazing. I had a wonderful time with you. Having you around always makes me smile and feel happy. Its horrible knowing we wont be able to have that again. It will be so hard letting go.
You really are incredible. I wish things didnt have to end. I will miss you so much.
Me

I am so sorry Naxie... Hope you will feel better soon! *BIG HUGGS*

 

[unregistered]

 

[minx1]

Dear X,
I really am going to miss you. Last weekend was amazing. I had a wonderful time with you. Having you around always makes me smile and feel happy. Its horrible knowing we wont be able to have that again. It will be so hard letting go.
You really are incredible. I wish things didnt have to end. I will miss you so much.
Me

*huge hugs*

Nax hoping you are ok hon x

 

[mscherrypoppins]

Dear Ms. Stubborn,

You are going out on that date if I have to pull your hair and drag you there myself. It's time you forget about him as you deserve alot better than someone who only uses you when it is convenient. For him. Just telling you now.


MK

 

[__OWNED__]

Dear C,
Pssst. I have a lil secret.

I Love You.​

 

[MsToriJones]

Dear Master,

Thank you for taking time out of your schedule to spend Thanksgiving with me and my family. They did like you and know you are in my life.

Thank you for Christmas and making sure that I didn't spend it alone this year, that meant a lot to me.

Thank you for coming more into my life, waking up next to you each day makes those days a bit brighter.

Thank you for being my friend, my companion, my partner, my lover, my teacher, my coach, my support and mostly my Master.

Each day that passes, my heart grows closer, my love grows deeper.

I can only hope I make your life as complete as you make mine.

Your girl,

Tori

 

[sinnocence]

Dear Daddy,

i'm sorry that i've been all over the place these past few days. i guess being away from the one person i truly need is really starting to get to me. It's like my mind and body are saying "Enough already." i just need to be *with* You. And i'm not jealous of anyone. i just get jealous of the things that take You away from me sometimes. i know i can't have You to myself all the time, but You know how i am. All the aside, i am just so happy with You. You keep me content and happy. You keep me breathing. i owe everything to You. i just wanted to apologize for being kinda crazy lately.

i love You so very much.

Love,
me