Dear X:

[the_mgp]

Cheers

 

[ultramarineblue]

Cheers

Have you picked what you will change guru to?

 

[FurryFury]

Dear X,

Only a mother would put up with your shit, still love you and do so much for you. Please grow the fuck up soon. Give some respect and cooperation before I kill you, okay sweetheart?

 

[kinkyknickers]

Dear X,

Only a mother would put up with your shit, still love you and do so much for you. Please grow the fuck up soon. Give some respect and cooperation before I kill you, okay sweetheart?

Oh my God, mum?!

But seriously, it really is like reading something my mother would have written about 14 years ago.

 

[FurryFury]

Oh my God, mum?!

But seriously, it really is like reading something my mother would have written about 14 years ago.

LOL!

Seriously the girl needs to be less about herself. Soon. Please?

 

[SubKekiLee]

Dear X
Well the time has finally come.. the time the papers are filed.. Hopefully everything will be signed on monday and youll be rid of me. I will start my life over and hopefully you will too.. I never meant to hurt you. Yet I have a hard time beleiving you never meant to hurt me when you did it over and over again. Please sign the papers when I come to your work, Monday then in 1-2 weeks the judge will sign it and we will be done...

hopefully youre soon to be ex wife

 

[kinkyknickers]

LOL!

Seriously the girl needs to be less about herself. Soon. Please?

I'll tell you the end of this chapter if you like.....

It all turns out well, and mother and daughter become the best of friends. It just takes a lot of "you don't know what it's like to be me" in the mean time.
Good luck putting up with the shit whilst you're waiting. Patience is a virtue.

 

[FurryFury]

I'll tell you the end of this chapter if you like.....

It all turns out well, and mother and daughter become the best of friends. It just takes a lot of "you don't know what it's like to be me" in the mean time.
Good luck putting up with the shit whilst you're waiting. Patience is a virtue.

I think I'm all out of patience atm.

 

[SubKekiLee]

I think I'm all out of patience atm.

Furry
I sympathize with you.... I know how you feel.. and I agree with KK that I think my mom prolly said that a few times.. I wasnt the best kid.. and she also cursed me by saying that my kids will treat me three times worse than I treated her... Damn Ill tell you that the curse of a lifetime..

here is a HUG for you for moral support..

 

[FurryFury]

Furry
I sympathize with you.... I know how you feel.. and I agree with KK that I think my mom prolly said that a few times.. I wasnt the best kid.. and she also cursed me by saying that my kids will treat me three times worse than I treated her... Damn Ill tell you that the curse of a lifetime..

here is a HUG for you for moral support..

Thanks. I can sure use that hug.

I can't say or do anything right. Apparently the only right thing to do is not react to her at all while she is a selfish little self centered, disrespectful little fuck.

We love each other a great deal but when we don't get along, we really don't get along. There is something about us that doesn't jibe well and never has.

I honestly don't know if I've done her any favors by NOT repeating the crap my parents did to me. I should have belted her for some of the shit she's said to me tonight according to my parent's rules. I think, I've been way too damn nice. That can be a BIG mistake with kids.

This one wants to move out. I would be happy for that to happen if I thought she were ready but I don't want desperate phone calls in the middle of the night or for her to come home due to failure. I want her to be fully functional and somewhat rational.

 

[SubKekiLee]

Thanks. I can sure use that hug.

I can't say or do anything right. Apparently the only right thing to do is not react to her at all while she is a selfish little self centered, disrespectful little fuck.

We love each other a great deal but when we don't get along, we really don't get along. There is something about us that doesn't jibe well and never has.

I honestly don't know if I've done her any favors by NOT repeating the crap my parents did to me. I should have belted her for some of the shit she's said to me tonight according to my parent's rules. I think, I've been way too damn nice. That can be a BIG mistake with kids.

This one wants to move out. I would be happy for that to happen if I thought she were ready but I don't want desperate phone calls in the middle of the night or for her to come home due to failure. I want her to be fully functional and somewhat rational.

OH Ive been there done that I have a almost 23 year old and let me tell you there are times I dont think I could breath right.. How old is this one? I know how you feel about the disrespect thing. I always tell my kids one thing YOU may not like my rules, you may not like me but you must adhere to not disrespecting me or raise your hand. I know what you mean about hurtful words cause my youngest is in that stage now.. It drives me insane sometimes I just want to give up..

I know about what you mean about not getting along. There were times I never got along with my mom, or we would fight so horribly people thought we would kill each other.. but I loved that woman with all MY , and yours loves you.... Tell her what would she do if you werent around anymore suddenly.. tell her this for me... Cherish YOU cause someday you wont have me and it isnt funny how much it sucks to be without your mother......

and if you need an ear or hug let me know I am here for you my PM box is always open for you

 

[FurryFury]

Thanks.



She is 17. She thinks her life would be sooooo much better if she could just move out.

If I ever say how I feel about something I'm wrong. She feels adults should be "more mature" and not blow up (or have feelings) ever. Yeah. Right.



I honestly can't wait until the look back and laugh part when they are successfully functioning in the world. I really can't. I'm so damn tired.

 

[SubKekiLee]

You are more than welcome..

That is the age where my oldest did MOVE out... she didnt like my rules and she wasnt going to be in my home disrespecting me.. I know she thinks she knows everything cause my oldest always tells me I am a grown ass woman I tell yer when youve gotten to my age raised 3 kids, blah blah etc.. then you will be grown but she has made me sooo very proud she has turned and blossomed into a beautiful young woman I love dearly....

I wish you luck...

 

[FurryFury]

You are more than welcome..

That is the age where my oldest did MOVE out... she didnt like my rules and she wasnt going to be in my home disrespecting me.. I know she thinks she knows everything cause my oldest always tells me I am a grown ass woman I tell yer when youve gotten to my age raised 3 kids, blah blah etc.. then you will be grown but she has made me sooo very proud she has turned and blossomed into a beautiful young woman I love dearly....

I wish you luck...

Sounds good and thanks.

 

[BiBunny]

Dear X,

I love you. You fulfill me in ways that no one else can. I feel like a new woman, now that I've told you. I don't care how hard this is going to be, how much of an uphill battle this inevitably entails. To butcher that quote I love from Wuthering Heights: Whatever our souls are made of, yours and mine are the same.

Whatever it takes, this is worth it. I love you.

~Bunny

 

[ShyVixen]

Dear X,

I hope the move goes okay. I hope you are less stressed and settled tonight - your first night alone in your new home. I wish I could be there to celebrate with you, I wish I could have been there to help you move. I wish I could be there to share a drink and bitch over trying to set up the TiVo. Despite the distance you know I'm still going to buy you a ton of kitchen shit right?! After all, what is a best friend for?

I'm so proud of you, sweets. Always.

Love you,

Me

 

[minx1]

Dear x,

Its not too late. Its never too late.

As for the house; you can still get out of that.

Where there's a will.......you know that.

Me.

 

[kinkyknickers]

Thanks.



She is 17. She thinks her life would be sooooo much better if she could just move out.

If I ever say how I feel about something I'm wrong. She feels adults should be "more mature" and not blow up (or have feelings) ever. Yeah. Right.



I honestly can't wait until the look back and laugh part when they are successfully functioning in the world. I really can't. I'm so damn tired.

I moved out when I was 17. Shit occasionally went pear shaped, especially around 19, not things that I directly did. What saved me was my parents were always there if I needed them, not financially, just there to listen and give advice... if I asked for it. It's amazing how a little distance can make a teenager that much more thankful and rational.
Things definitely got worse before they got better for me, but a teenager will always be determined to learn from their own mistakes, not yours unfortunately. I'm just lucky my dad was keeping a closer eye on me than I was aware of. That's the trick, I reckon, make it look like you're not involved and you trust them as an adult, then be ready to pick up the pieces.
Sounds rediculous, but it not only works, eventually she'll see how much you've done for her and you'll get it back tenfold.
I'd be nothing without my olds and I've told them as much. We're closer than ever now.

 

[SweetGigi]

@ SoO: *big hugs*

Dear v,

you were such a good girl yesterday. Even though you cannot stand to clean, even though S-OS is not your bag, you dove in and did your part... something, I admit, I really didn't expext. I am proud of you. Really.

Thank you for helping.

Me
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Dear T,

You. Are. Failing. At. This.

How sad for You.

ribh
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Dear M,

It was my pleasure. Truly.

Thank You.

me

 

[rida]

Dear H

I need you

your w

 

[SweetGigi]

The bad times were bad, but they're over.

The good times are worse for being over.

*bigger hugs*

I can sympathize. It is good, at least, you see it isn't so bad. Some good times may be over, but I am sure there are more to come. Take heart.

 

[PatchIsMe]

dear x ~ why can't things just be easier ???????

 

[YourCaptor]

Dear H

I wish I could take the clouds away from your mind
I wish I could make you see the sun
I wish I could cast a little spell and never have you feel like this again

I worry when you are down like this
I suffer when you suffer like this
I rake my mind for ways to make it easier, better, go away faster
and have to accept that I can't

The clouds will go away
but you cannot see it now
they look to you as if they'll never leave
Believe me: they will leave
Trust me: it will get better
Hold me: I'll never leave you

Today I realized that
if you were to decide that you couldn't take it anymore
I would not hate you for it
but I would mourn the years I will not get to spend with you
and curse the time it would take before we meet again

to me, every single day with you is heaven
to me, everything is worth enduring for even a single day more with you

Please don't get lost in your darkness
Hold on to me
to the light
even if it seems far away

I need you

your w

Hugs

 

[Kajira Callista]

Dear God,
THIS one is the job I really really want.
Pretty please with sugar on top?
me

 

[Ghostjae]

Dear P,

I've decided that in my mind, you're no longer worthy of the title of Mother.

Things have gotten so difficult between us, that when I see you I can't decide whether I want to cry or hit you more. It's starting to lean towards the hitting you though, and I'm pretty sure that would be a bad thing. I've never been perfect, but aside from ONE major screwup, I've been the best child you could have asked for. I never tell you no, I do your chores and stuff FOR you. Why can't anything I do be good enough? Just...an ok now and again, or please and thank you would go a long way. I've been an adult for a few years now, and I honestly don't know why I put up with your shit. No one that knows us both can understand why either. Would it be so hard to tell me I'm worth having? Because as far as I can tell, in your mind I'm not worth the resources I use up.

And I haven't been since I was 5. That's when this all started. You blamed dad for everything I did wrong, and I heard you. That's a hell of a load for a smart 5-year-old to bear, even though I understood. How could a husband love his daughter more than his wife? You even accused me of that...it's only that you are so different from us that it doesn't make sense to you. By now I'm used to being worthless, but you've driven me to the lowest of lows through your cutting and easily flung about words. You don't ever think about what you're saying and how it will hurt. I'm stupid, lazy, useless, and you wish I wasn't your child? As soon as I can arrange it, I won't be. You've never realized what you do to me, and how your overly controlling nature has influenced and stunted me. Emotionally, I'm such a tangled up mess that very few people will tolerate anything besides a friendship with me because they can't handle me. And yet, I yearn for someone to control me sometimes...not always, but often enough. Pain is pleasure, and pain tells me that someone cares enough to understand why I need it. Someday I'll be healed enough and strong enough to tell you what you've done. And why you're no longer my mother.

But for now, I just put up with you and wait for the day that I can leave over a decade behind and put it in the past, where almost everything you've ever said to me belongs.

You've broken me, and that was just the start for me. Now I have to live with the pieces I have left, and mend them as best I can.

Thanks.