Dear X:

[catalina_francisco]

Dear EG and Cat,

You aren't telling me anything I don't already know. I never claimed not to be a fool. In fact, if y'all don't mind removing it from your quotes, I think I'll just take it down. Thanks.

Bunny

You're not a fool, just human. I think most of us have been where you are at some time or another and there is no magic cure, it just takes time and a lot of self talk.

Catalina

 

[naxalite0906]

Dear X..

You are a good girl.. You shouldnt worry so much *pats your head and gives you a hug*..
I am not out to hurt anyone. Yes I cannot guarantee that it will all work out perfectly, but I can promise to give it my best and see if it works (I hope it does ) We will never know until we try and if its not to be then thats just life.... But please do not be scared you are not good enough. You are more than good enough for anyone on this planet, and do not ever think otherwise.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

I'm reading The Scarlet Letter again for my 19th Century American Literature class. I know most people hate that book and Hawthorne in general, but I have always loved his work. It's just been awhile since I read that particular novel. It resonates even deeper now than it did the other times I read it.

Yes I do love that book but a sucker for the classics. Hell even read Count of Monte Cristo after was mentioned in Shawshank Redemption. lol

 

[intothewoods]

Dear EG and Cat,

You aren't telling me anything I don't already know. I never claimed not to be a fool. In fact, if y'all don't mind removing it from your quotes, I think I'll just take it down. Thanks.

Bunny

I so agree with cat. We've all been there. It is absolutely human.

 

[Bi_Kitty]

it didn't work before the ring was on her finger, what makes you think it will work now? You have others in your life you say you love and who love you, this one is just not one which was meant for you, and yes, does belong to someone else's heart and world, not you.

But see it did work before, just not in the fairy-tale kinda way. It worked their way; yes very different I know. Yes, it ended, for now, but it doesn't mean it didn't work. In my heart and to the day I died I will ALWAYS believe that it was meant to be.

I doubt the part about belonging to someone, but in time I suppose we will see.

Every moment I live, every breath that I take, every blink of my eyelashes, I am further convinced that you are my soulmate, my male alter ego, the love of my life, the reason I was put here on this earth. The reverse of that statement is also true; I'm the rich, red, life-giving blood that flows through your veins, as lame as that metaphor is

We were meant to be together, wrong or not. I know it. You know it. The pain hasn't gotten any better, has it? I told you it wouldn't. One of us has to find the courage to set things right, lest we both go mad.

No one understands how true those words are. I have seen it with my own eyes. And I'm not bias; I mean why should I be when one hates my guts and have said "I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire;" although, he ain't my most favoritest person either. But that doesn't mean he is a BAD person.

BB, as I've said before and I'll say it again, if it is meant to be at the end or when you are reborn again or whatever, you will be together. THEY ALWAYS COME BACK!!!! Now, you just have to decide if you are willing to wait for the time for knight to return on his not-so-white horse.

It kinda make me think about Romeo and Juliet.

 

[satindesire]

Dear Sir,

Your friends are quite welcome here. But pot, SoCo and dice aren't what I'd call an enjoyable afternoon with the boys. Can't we go play frisbee and eat pizza at Honor Heights park instead?

 

[minx1]

Dear x

I am at a loss. It changes by the day.

 

[PublicAffection]

Dear X,

I know that it's you, sticking your toe (and other body parts) out into the waters to see if you can catch a bite. I'd recognize your trappings anywhere. When are you going to realize that it's time to balls up and take care of what needs taking care of? For fuck's sake - get a real job, your own place, and stop trying to string along multiple women at once. You don't have the excuse of being young and inexperienced any more - now you're just a jackass.

I know you aren't my problem any more, but I still hope that you won't continue being such a craphead.

From - The best thing you ever had, and the first great thing you lost.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Dear Sir,

Your friends are quite welcome here. But pot, SoCo and dice aren't what I'd call an enjoyable afternoon with the boys. Can't we go play frisbee and eat pizza at Honor Heights park instead?

I always enjoyed badmitten pairs as well on a nice summers evening after a cookout. Sorry just brought back memories.

 

[kinkyknickers]

Dear X,

Please don't dwell on it. I can't help that I felt the way I did. I can't take it back and you can't fix it, cos it aint broke. I am a woman of emotional extremes. When I feel low, I get very low, when I feel happy, my heart swells with love.

You both make me very happy.

You know that night was a night of extremes but it's over. You are not responsible for everything that goes on in my head and it's better out than in.

The bad times only serve to make the good times great.

To quote a corny cliche- Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why it's called the present.

I love you, please don't be sad.

KK

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yes, it ended,

That's what I mean by it didn't work. If someone chooses to leave you and be with another, and then marry that other to top it off, it didn't work. If it had worked the other person would not be the point of such pain IMHO, they would be with BB in the way she needs and wants and she would not be still locked in that place where it feels like a knife twisted in the gut and heart and trying to think of ways to reinvent the past into the present. Feeding that behaviour in her only serves to increase her pain in a not so fun way, and waste precious time pining for someone who does not deserve pining over while she could be moving on to much more positive and fruitful relationships. Life is so short, wasting chunks of it on lost causes might seem romantic in the moment, but sad and useless in hindsight. I've been there and believe me, it doesn't win you anything but does lose you a lot of better opportunities you remain blind to in the moment. Add to that, why would you want her to wait for and take someone else's left overs when they are ready? Don't you think as your friend she is worth way more than someone that unstable and egotistical who obviously doesn't care what she feels? This is so far from Romeo and Juliet as you seem to want to paint it...think of BB and forget the romantic fantasies.

Catalina

 

[ShyVixen]

Dear X,

Thank you for being so supportive of me this week. Even when I have my paranoid, cranky, twitchy days you listen and make me smile. I know, I worry too much. But still, thank you...it was nice/soothing hearing your voice...even if it was voicemail. Next week cannot come soon enough.

 

[minx1]

Dear X,

Thank you for being so supportive of me this week. Even when I have my paranoid, cranky, twitchy days you listen and make me smile. I know, I worry too much. But still, thank you...it was nice/soothing hearing your voice...even if it was voicemail. Next week cannot come soon enough.

are you me?!

 

[ShyVixen]

are you me?!

*looks down at self* Nope, you are hotter than I am

But I do know we are very much alike in many ways.

 

[the_pet]

Dear You-Know-Who-You-Are,

.......

i completely understand how you feel..... and woman to woman i wouldn't dare discount your feelings, they are important and worth exploring but i watch you torture yourself over this guy and i want to PUNCH HIM. I'd also like to ask his wife what she thinks about him still stringing you along. Sorry i'm angry about this but i've had a few of these assholes try and do this this shit with me too. Fuck him, he's a used tampon, pull that string and flush him

pet

 

[minx1]

*looks down at self* Nope, you are hotter than I am

But I do know we are very much alike in many ways.

*laugh* I doubt that very much hon, but we definitely share some traits for sure

 

[twysted73]

X - You still have a place in my heart. I wonder if it would be easy to take you back? I wonder if I would? No...our time is in the past. Memories now.
But thank you for them.

XX - Years of you being a selfish, self-centered, self-serving shrew and now you want me to be nice?
It makes sense actually. You'd have to take a second to look outside of yourself to see how you effect others for you to understand.
And a few seconds are a few things you've never been able to spare.

XXX - Yes, I saved those three for you. You'll be in Flagstaff by tonight. The dogs, little miss & the gent to your left must be driving you insane by now.
You are thought of often and loved just as deeply.
Je t'aime babydoll.

4X - You I worry about. I know you're not happy with him. But I've seen you jump from one to another out of unhappiness.
It has me slightly apprehensive. But it's nothing that's pressing or soon to be an issue so I can wait and watch and see.

 

[ShyVixen]

Dear X,

I wish you were here. I'm in the mood to service a cock...

~ Much love and dedicated cock worship, Me

 

[Yang4yin]

Dear X,

That cheaper Internet service you just tried to sell me is a lot slower than what I'm using now, and the cheaper local calling plan is exactly the same rate I'm paying... you just neglected to mention all the extra fees and taxes in your price quote. I knew you weren't being completely honest. It's no wonder so many people hate doing business with you.

Me

PS: Why can't all the phone companies be honest and provide the actual price that includes the fees and taxes?

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Dear X

Why must their be fools whose words only prove that they are about as emotinally deep as a dinner plate.

 

[Jezebel77]

Dear Aunt Flo,
Don't even think about not visiting me. For once I am eagerly awaiting your arrival.
Jez

 

[PublicAffection]

Dear X:

I've finally realized that the friendship I thought we had was nothing more than an ego boost for you, and a never-ending mind-twist for me. I have been thinking about it, and I was a fool to have trusted you the way that I did for so many years. I am glad that you are back in your life, and I am finally present in mine. I thought I'd never be whole without you, but in reality you were keeping me from becoming a brighter, truer, better version of who I was.


Dear XX:
Pay attention. It's going to happen all over again with someone else. Everyone on the planet knows it. I think even you know it, but you are too buried in your own selfish wants to do anything about it. It would seem that you actually like being the "victim" because it gives you more reason to lash out at anyone and everyone around you. XXX, this goes for you too.


Dear XXXX: If you were a superhero, I'd dub you "Awesome Man". You'd fly around the world fighting crime according to your Awesome Plan. And if you saw criminals trying to lie, hurting other people and making them cry, you'd haul them off to jail in your Awesome Van. Cuz you would be "Aweseome Man". And only I'd know your secret identity as the humble and kind super-geek who works in the corner cubicle at a high-tech company.

 

[myinnerslut]

Dear XXXX: If you were a superhero, I'd dub you "Awesome Man". You'd fly around the world fighting crime according to your Awesome Plan. And if you saw criminals trying to lie, hurting other people and making them cry, you'd haul them off to jail in your Awesome Van. Cuz you would be "Aweseome Man". And only I'd know your secret identity as the humble and kind super-geek who works in the corner cubicle at a high-tech company.

i stephen lynch

~~~

dear piecing,

you are officially on my bad list. why now, over two months after i got you do you have to get infected. you happen to mean a great deal to me. do not make me take you out! i will NOT forgive you for such an offense. you have hearby been ordered to heal. pronto. go on now. get healing. becuase im watching you. *glares ominously*

~MIS

 

[minx1]

Dear me

sitting here chatting won't get your clothes ironed for the morning.

luv,
inner self


Dear innerself,

Do I look bothered.......I'll go creased

luv me

 

[MelancholyBaby]

Dear D,

I dunno what to say to you and it's kinda excerbated by the fact that my stepbrother fucked up yet again and is the reason why instead of having a cozy, family-filled get together where moments of me and you awkwardness would be minimal I have to call you today and tell you Happy Father's Day because you're my dad and it's just you and me.

I'm just not good with that.

I feel like sometimes you're just not listening.

Or that you don't care.

Or that you care enough to throw in a "are you taking your medicine" just to say hey I know you are fucked up and on stuff which I never listen enough to know what you're taking or what you take it for but I know you're on it and should take it so take it, dammit.

I feel really bad for you. I feel really bad that your stepson has issues that can't be fixed and that his volatility threatens your relationship with your wife which seems to make you happy. But how would I know if you're happy anyway? I mean, I don't know you. Not really.

I feel really terrible that when I found out what happened last night I laughed. I really do. But did it ever dawn on you that we never ever put you through that crap? That I tried to do the right thing as best I could and so did C?? And he just does whatever he wants, lives off you, and no consequences ever. Hopefully this time someone will impose some real consequences on him.

But I still feel bad that because of him you have pain. You have never understood that I have feelings. You have never understood how many ways I have been hurt and how those hurt feelings have done a lot to make me into what I am. I didn't just wake up one morning and flip a coin to decide which side of my family I would have trouble with. I feel very justified that I while I am fully aware I sometimes exaggerate things there is substance there. I was crying over you before you decided I hated you and your family.

So what do I say?

You say you will call me so I don't feel "slighted." And then you don't call because your lawnmowers are broken and you've been busy?

I don't know what to say.

When you love someone it isn't supposed to be this hard is it? Or is it because you love them that it makes it hard because you realize it really does matter.

Your daughter,
K