Dear Litster... (continued)

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Dear litster.

I know you feel like you have not been missed, but you are missed every day.

Responding litster.
 
Dear Litster,

It's a shame you had to play your hand so soon. I saw it coming from a mile away though, and it's so much fun when I'm right.

Signed,

Won't be changing my mind anytime soon, darlin'.
 
Dear Litsters,

I've not been around much the past week or so. I'm not very well and trying to get better but will probably take time.

I'll be lurking now and then but I'll be back eventually.

Ill Litster.

Dear Not Doing Well,

Take all the time you need to get well again. I look forward to you keeping us smiling in the threads. Rest easy and remember that you are our favorite arse - I mean, donkey. :D

Signed,

Not a Monkey's uncle, but a donkey's friend
 
Dear Litsters,

I'm briefly back to further explain why I'm leaving. I received an unsolicited PM from a male who said "Hey I'd love to make you wet." This was after a convo on a thread in which I was having a baseball convo with another Lit male turned into the male making a reference to me "wearing a skirt and being fingered under the bleachers." Neither of these were solicited. The PM got the response he deserved and I told him to fuck off, and maybe not in those nice of words. To which he responds using acronyms "wow what a total bitch." I'm a bitch? I'm a bitch?! What have I EVER done here besides treat people with kindness? But yup, I'm the bitch.

I had previously talked about someone here who I thought of as a friend taking my photo and posting it on his profile on another site WITHOUT my permission. He can apologize until he's blue in his goddamned face and I'll never forgive him for this reason - when I messaged him and said "those are my boobs on your profile" he said, "well you'd know, they're yours." That tells me that photo was NOT put there on accident.

I'm a person. I'm more than a screen name and some photos. I wish I could change my screen name, I understand it might give people certain ideas. But it's just like when men are told "even if she's walking around naked, that doesn't mean she wants sex." My screen name was created when I was in a different place. I'd love to change it, tell me how.

To the few amazing wonderful people I've met here, I love you and I'll miss you greatly. This place has been my haven after surviving a rape and after the death of my father. You were here for me. This is the place where I met and fell in love with the best man I could ever imagine. CJontherocks saved my life! What started as fantasy with him has become the best reality I could ever imagine.

Azul, sks, BFG, honey, Ricky, BC, Numi, H, pixie, wolf, DS, and so many others I love you guys. I'll be back. I'm super jaded and I need a break from the overwhelming negativity.

:heart:
 
Neither one of them are worth you leaving. Fuck them.
Remember the good people here. They still outweigh the bad. :heart:
 
Dear litsters,

Thanks to those who welcomed me. I'm enjoying my time on these boards quite a bit cause the atmosphere is so different from others I've joined. I'm sure I'll be sticking around for awhile.

Love and hugs,

Me
 
Oh, MMW, I'm gonna miss you girlie! I've been on my own hiatus, lurking mostly. So many things that change us, for better or worse. Take care of you. We'll be here waiting ;). Tell a certain man he'd best take care of you. I may be slowed to a roll for now, but my aim is getting better - especially at ass level!!! I had a friend who never said bye, it was always "See you in the funny papers, kid." I can't kiss your cheek the way he did after saying it, but there ya go.
 
Lister,
The hell with them. Create a buddy list and only accept PMs from those select people and block everyone else.
 
Dear Litsters,

I'm briefly back .....

Azul, sks, BFG, honey, Ricky, BC, Numi, H, pixie, wolf, DS, and so many others I love you guys. I'll be back. I'm super jaded and I need a break from the overwhelming negativity.

:heart:

Sweet Litster Sister,

I know it's hard to deal with these things, and I totally understand wanting to leave, but don't let the actions of a few immature boys dictate what you do.

You have taken your life back and you have control over things, you've come so far and blossomed and brightened so many days when you're posting. You are sunshine on these threads!

Don't let it get you down, girl. You are amazing, and it's natural that men want to be around you. Some just don't know when enough is enough, but they don't outweigh those who appreciate and admire you.

Stick around, please.

Signed,
I think your Star Shines Bright
 
Dear Litsters,

I'm a person. I'm more than a screen name and some photos. I wish I could change my screen name, I understand it might give people certain ideas. But it's just like when men are told "even if she's walking around naked, that doesn't mean she wants sex." My screen name was created when I was in a different place. I'd love to change it, tell me how.

:heart:

Create a new Gmail account use it to create a new account on here. PM everyone you want to let know the new name the new name. Don't reuse photos or avs from this screen name. Unfortunately it also means no posting face pictures or someone you don't want to make the connection will make the connection.

I'm sorry to hear that some men are pigs and ruined things for you here. You're a beautiful person inside and out and shouldn't be treated that way.
 
Jaded,

Breaks are good.

Come back when you can breathe again. :kiss:

Been there Litster


P.S. You can change your name. Message a mod and they'll help you.
 
Dear Lister(s)

Been pondering which generally isn’t good. But promotes this question, why would you presume that just because a good looking woman whiles away a bit of time on lit that they want to play your fantasy D/s game and suffer your degradation?

Do you ask them first if they want to play your fantasy game or just assume that because you’re being a pretentious Dom that it’s their place to take it and make you feel empowered.

Do you realize that a lot of the female Listers you pull this crap on are sexual assault victims or hanging on in unhappy relationships and just want a bit of flirty fun here?

If you want to be a good lit citizen how about taking the time to get to know the person first, you might find you’ve made a friend instead of added your name to a blocked sender list.


Just another boring guy here....
 
Dear Lister(s)

Been pondering which generally isn’t good. But promotes this question, why would you presume that just because a good looking woman whiles away a bit of time on lit that they want to play your fantasy D/s game and suffer your degradation?

Do you ask them first if they want to play your fantasy game or just assume that because you’re being a pretentious Dom that it’s their place to take it and make you feel empowered.

Do you realize that a lot of the female Listers you pull this crap on are sexual assault victims or hanging on in unhappy relationships and just want a bit of flirty fun here?

If you want to be a good lit citizen how about taking the time to get to know the person first, you might find you’ve made a friend instead of added your name to a blocked sender list.


Just another boring guy here....

An excellent question. Worthy of pondering.
 
Dear Litster,

First of all, this sucks. You're one of my closest friends on here. I really hate the way that certain fellas on this site choose to think with their dicks instead of their brains. I'm still around if you need me.

Overprotective Yenta
 
Litsters,

Why do male Litsters post that they don't have a crush on the male Litster above them? Total a-hole move unless it is done in a clever way.

Litster
 
Litsters,

Why do male Litsters post that they don't have a crush on the male Litster above them? Total a-hole move unless it is done in a clever way.

Litster

Dear Litster,

Excellent observation.

Litster

The above message, and all other messages heretofore or hereafter posted by the poster, carry no implications of sexual attraction or inappropriately un-brotherly affection towards the antecedent poster. All rights reserved. May shrink in transit.
 
Dear Listers

It's the reason male Listers post after each other in many such threads..In the hope that a lady Lister will post after them..:rolleyes:
 
Dear Litsters,

I've decided fuck the assholes, fuck the tools, fuck the fucktards...you're right, I can't let the few of those take away from the great joy I've found here.

I was just really really really pissed off.

Signed,
I ❤ my friends
 
Dear Listers

It's the reason male Listers post after each other in many such threads..In the hope that a lady Lister will post after them..:rolleyes:


Not all of us. Speak for yourself.


There's something special about making a male Litster wonder if he's wanted for the local circle jerk or all male orgy happening next weekend. :devil:
 
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Dear Listers

It's the reason male Listers post after each other in many such threads..In the hope that a lady Lister will post after them..:rolleyes:

Litster,

Well, duh. I update my remark to it being an a-hole move whatever thread it occurs in. One shouldn't cock-block; just wait till the next lady posts, then dive in. I'm not saying you do this, just responding to your post.

Litster
 
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