Dear Litster... (continued)

[RoyceConnors]

Dear struggling Litster,

We're here for you. Just because we're online doesn't mean we aren't real friends. Reach out. And let us reach right back. It's what friends do.

Cyber-friend Litster

Dear Cyber-friend Litster,

Sometimes the fear of having your hand slapped in rejection makes it hard to do that. Sometimes it takes that friend to reach out first and make sure that they go the distance, no matter how long and hard the struggle is to overcome. It's hard to know if someone really cares or is just offering kind words without depth or meaning.

Another struggling Litster.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Dear Cyber-friend Litster,

Sometimes the fear of having your hand slapped in rejection makes it hard to do that. Sometimes it takes that friend to reach out first and make sure that they go the distance, no matter how long and hard the struggle is to overcome. It's hard to know if someone really cares or is just offering kind words without depth or meaning.

Another struggling Litster.

Dear another struggling Litster,

I understand what you're saying. It is so damn hard to ask for help because it puts you in a vulnerable position.

At the same time, we can't expect others to know exactly what we need at any given time, most people aren't mind readers. That's why we have to put ourselves in to that vulnerable position, reach out, and hope for the best.

You're right, some might just brush us off with a well-meaning 'there there', but you never know, someone out there might actually give a damn. If we don't ask, we'll never find out.

And you know what I always say: If you're up to your neck in shit you have to hold your head up high. It's a piece of wisdom, do with it as you wish.

On a personal note, dear Mr RC, I was going through a very dark phase about this time last year, and somewhere on the boards, probably in the Say Something Nice thread, you posted to me "... and I hope you know how much we all love you." You have no idea how much that meant to me at the time, and still does. I don't think I ever thanked you for it but I would like to do so now, and throw it right back at you: Good days or bad days, you are valued around here, you are an important part of this crazy family, and we love you. Please don't ever forget that.

With warm hugs and tickles,

I know how much it can hurt Litster

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Dear Litster,

I'm starting to feel rather foolish.

me

 

[curvyangel1969]

Dear Lister,

Just because I declined to speak with you on Kik is no reason to start being rude on the boards. I didn't invite you into my PM box in the first place. Keep it civil. No harm, no foul.

CA

 

[RoyceConnors]

Dear another struggling Litster,

I understand what you're saying. It is so damn hard to ask for help because it puts you in a vulnerable position.

At the same time, we can't expect others to know exactly what we need at any given time, most people aren't mind readers. That's why we have to put ourselves in to that vulnerable position, reach out, and hope for the best.

You're right, some might just brush us off with a well-meaning 'there there', but you never know, someone out there might actually give a damn. If we don't ask, we'll never find out.

And you know what I always say: If you're up to your neck in shit you have to hold your head up high. It's a piece of wisdom, do with it as you wish.

On a personal note, dear Mr RC, I was going through a very dark phase about this time last year, and somewhere on the boards, probably in the Say Something Nice thread, you posted to me "... and I hope you know how much we all love you." You have no idea how much that meant to me at the time, and still does. I don't think I ever thanked you for it but I would like to do so now, and throw it right back at you: Good days or bad days, you are valued around here, you are an important part of this crazy family, and we love you. Please don't ever forget that.

With warm hugs and tickles,

I know how much it can hurt Litster

Dear warm hugs and tickles, I'm so happy that made a difference in your life. Any one that knows me, knows I don't say things off-handed to any one. It's so true that many say things to me in good meaning gestures, but feeling like I'm a part of anything here is so far from the truth. I believe in what you give will come back to you, but somehow that doesn't happen here.
I face the truths and realities of life and just go on with life the best I can.

Ty again sweet Dee

 

[curvyangel1969]

Dear Lister,

My last message didn't come with an expiration date. Just FYI.

Me.

 

[makemewet69]

Dear Litster,

Words can not begin to express the amount of love I have for you or the gratitude I have in my heart for you. Thank you for being in my life and for making me a part of yours

 

[DarkSimian]

Dear Cyber-friend Litster,

Sometimes the fear of having your hand slapped in rejection makes it hard to do that. Sometimes it takes that friend to reach out first and make sure that they go the distance, no matter how long and hard the struggle is to overcome. It's hard to know if someone really cares or is just offering kind words without depth or meaning.

Another struggling Litster.

Dear Litsters who give a shit about what I post,
Remember it's not always about you. I'm very opinionated and never tried to hide that fact. I never ask anyone to agree with me on anything, but I would appreciate acceptance that my opinion is just that...mine.
I'm not going to try and convince you of anything, so, give me the same courtesy.
Signed,
Putting Up More Bricks in the Wall

Dear Above Litsters,

This is why my attic has a lock on it....

Signed, the Phantom of Literotica

 

[SimplyMsT]

Dear Litster ...

For someone who says that didn't say things, you sure didn't waste any time telling them what I said huh?

I found it kind of odd that after I told you what I did, that person all of sudden wants to talk to me again?!!

Thank you for proving me right that you can't be trusted with information.

I wonder what other things you have spewed about me.

Over and done with in Texas

 

[Mollie_F]

Dear Parsnip-Wielding Litster

Fly high, you'll find a teacake flipped to the superbrightmoon

Shnorting at Shitrus Litster

 

[mickyp123]

Dear in touch with Jesus Litster

Make sure you don't get your wires crossed.

Looking after M lishter

 

[Porkwarrior]

I AM DONE DEALING WITH VAGINA BULLSHIT. IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING WORK RELATED, JUST SAY IT. IF YOU WANT TO RANT FOR HALF AN HOUR BECAUSE SOMEBODY HAS AN EXTRA PAIR OF GLOVES, OR YOUR SISTER'S COUSIN DIDN'T RETAIN A DECENT ATTORNEY....


I'm done hearing about it. Most women are children, it's an even worse ratio here. I'm done with it.

 

[Tallulah82]

Dear, dear Litster,

Do what makes you happy, do not get drawn into things that do not enhance your life and make you smile. Life is too short.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Dear other side of the mountain litster,

I will be leaving for your side in less than 12 hours. I intend to collect my hug and selfie with you. I am excited, and giddy to see you again!! ❤

Signed,

Too excited to sleep litster.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Dear Litsters who give a shit about what I post,
Remember it's not always about you. I'm very opinionated and never tried to hide that fact. I never ask anyone to agree with me on anything, but I would appreciate acceptance that my opinion is just that...mine.
I'm not going to try and convince you of anything, so, give me the same courtesy.
Signed,
Putting Up More Bricks in the Wall

From: A Friend

Keep being yourself, we have too many chameleons on lit. You're a unicorn on here and LIT is better for it. If they have a problem with it there's this thing called a middle finger and they can spin cycle on it.

To: A Real Lister

 

[vibes]

Dear Fullofshitster,

Do fuck off.

Sincerely,
Everyone

Gotta love these posts, LS ... whom have I missed this time?

 

[beachbaby179]

Dear Gone Litster,

Almost December. In another couple days, if you haven't deleted it, a reminder will pop up on your phone. I wonder what will happen when you see it. Did you even remember it was there? Will you smile, will you delete it, will you roll your eyes? I wish I could be there to see. It would tell me everything I need to know.

Still Here Litster

 

[Lustful_Intentions]

Dear Gone Litster,

Almost December. In another couple days, if you haven't deleted it, a reminder will pop up on your phone. I wonder what will happen when you see it. Did you even remember it was there? Will you smile, will you delete it, will you roll your eyes? I wish I could be there to see. It would tell me everything I need to know.

Still Here Litster

Dear Still Here Litster,

It's always a bit difficult to wonder what happens to those who leave us behind-what they're thinking, what exactly changed, etc. Sorry you're dealing with the unknown. That's never fun.

Also Still Here Litster

 

[Bookishleigh]

Dear Done Dealing with Vagina Bullshit Litster,

Unless you don't come with your own bag of shit (and let's be honest - we know you do), be a decent man, pull on your big boy panties and fucking deal with it. Otherwise, go find a doormat. While plentiful, they're not exactly a conquest worth being proud of.

Signed,
Tired of entitled male bullshit Litster

 

[Misshotndeep]

Dear Tired of entitled male bullshit Litster,

I second your comment. Though it sounds like the person it is intended for would not able to handle a real woman. Sorry for his luck!


Signed.

Site tumble weed

 

[Girly_girl]

Dear Lady Litsters

It's Saturday night and i am bored. I feel like going out dancing, who wants to join me for a girls night out?

Dancing queen Litster

 

[TheSilverLining]

Friend Litster,

After all this time you'd think I'd be able to tell you when I'm angry...

Sighing Litster.

 

[curvyangel1969]

Dear that was a close one Lister.

I hate when people prove me right.

Signed another brick in the wall Lister.

 

[BlackCashmere]

Dear that was a close one Lister.

I hate when people prove me right.

Signed another brick in the wall Lister.

 

[Endless_Night]

Dear Perplexing Litster,

Such a mixed bag of tricks,
Up another blind alley,
Or let sleeping dogs lie

Mystified in Texas