Dealing with condoms

[BlueDaisy]

Hey now!!!! LOL.

Biaatch.

I would be monogamous with the right woman, and I have been in the past. I'm pretty much a one-woman man if we get serious. But I'm just not serious with anyone at the moment.

Oohh....getting personal now, huh? Biaatch? Well! I resemble that remark! *grin*

Ok....if you say you can be monogamous, I'll take your word for it, cutiepie.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Oohh....getting personal now, huh? Biaatch? Well! I resemble that remark! *grin*

Ok....if you say you can be monogamous, I'll take your word for it, cutiepie.

Not sure where ya'll get the impression that I'm a big man-whore. I don't get laid that often. In fact, I have been known to go 6 mo to a year without sex. With the right woman, I can be totally monogamous... in fact, I would prefer that most of the time.

 

[BlueDaisy]

Not sure where ya'll get the impression that I'm a big man-whore. I don't get laid that often. In fact, I have been known to go 6 mo to a year without sex. With the right woman, I can be totally monogamous... in fact, I would prefer that most of the time.

My bad.

Please forgive my assumptions, dear sir.

*sitting here very contrite*
(yeah, right! lol)

 

[P. B. Walker]

My bad.

Please forgive my assumptions, dear sir.

*sitting here very contrite*
(yeah, right! lol)

LOL... no problem.

I wish I was a huge man-whore... but I can never pull it off.

 

[BlueDaisy]

LOL... no problem.

I wish I was a huge man-whore... but I can never pull it off.

Well, see, you should not have corrected me. We could all have thought that you were quite the ladies man!

 

[Phaos]

PB, I'm a 22 yr old guy and I too have had my share of difficulties in bed. I masturbate a good deal myself, and have found that when I'm with a woman I go from "bang to bust" quicker than "bang to bullets." I always use condoms, but I haven't tried any of the ultra-thin stuff or ribbed stuff yet, I think I will. I think that a lot of that though is due to my own personal paranoia (the "gotta cum, gotta cum" thinking) and relative inexperience. I used to not think I could come from receiving head either- but a nice girl was glad to finally prove me wrong on that issue, with a certain amount of focused effort sadly, I don't have a girl that I can experiment with for that purpose right now (sigh)~

 

[James G 5]

LOL... no problem.

I wish I was a huge man-whore... but I can never pull it off.

Funny, I would've thought your lack of man-whore status would CAUSE you to be "pulling it off"

*FLEES*

 

[James G 5]

For the record, I HATE condoms
Always have
It took me 3 attempts to lose my virginity becuase every time I tried to put the damn things on I'd lose my hard on
They screw up sensation, cost too much, are messy (some lubes will EAT the finish on your furniture if it hits them!), and generally no fun
Plus lube and latex both make for terrible licking "after"

HOWEVER
Given both the reality of modern day living AND my status as active with multiple partners, they're a MUST

So...I've experimented & found the brands and styles that suit me best (multi-packs with 1 each of 2-4 styles that you can find are good for this)
I try & make sure my partner is comfy with them (no materials allergies)
I work HARD to focus on the upcoming fun so as to keep erections, and I buy in bulk so if I lose it I can pitch the damn condom, get excited again, and try again
And during sex I concentrate on what ever I CAN feel, and not just with my cock), while running whatever I need to thru my head to keep myself arouse till I hit the point where even the reduced friction is enough

But FUCK I hate condoms *sigh*