Dealing with Adultery

[pplwatching]

It is all based on the assumption that the person that one is involved with is monogamously minded. Some people just aren't.

That's part my point. If your partner's not monogamously minded and you are then learning how to figure that out early in the relationship is crucial.

Kemet posted looking for things that might help him. Not having been through adultery I've tried to offer that maybe he can help get himself over this by learning things that help him choose the right partner and then keep his relationship healthy. I think that knowing that he's grown and has new skills can help him feel more positive, confident, and forward thinking.

IMHO saying that you just never know isn't helping anyone.

 

[freddyandeddy]

I have to agree with this statement, Missingmeds, but I'm assuming Kemet is monogomously minded. I would further assert that most people are NOT presdisposed to monogamy.

That said, I think it is important that Kemet be up front and honest with homever he/she engages a relationship.

Sorry, I'll post more tomorrow - I'm totally drunk after going out drinking on my 40th birthday today. Whew. I'm so wasted. Forgive me!

 

[Missingmeds]

Let me Clarify my remark. I was talking about the sources that pplwatching was giving. The authors assume that both people involved in said relationship are monogamous minded. Such might not be the case.