DD/lg curious

[Herr_daddy]

A Dominant Daddy generally tends to treat his lg with the greatest care and doesn't usually resort to punishment outside of reprimanding her with a stern hand in a loving manner. Pain may be involved, but usually not in a sadistic manner, rather as a means of correcting and attempting to guide her in a direction of improvement through discipline of certain behaviors he views as harmful or " bratty ". She is the apple of his eye, his life, and his intent is to keep her firmly on the path to being the angel he knows she is.

little girls, for their part, trust and love their Daddy utterly. To her, he is a subject of admiration and worship, as opposed to being a strictly Dominant figure she relinquishes control to. He is both her guide and protector, she is his, and submits to his will out of the affection and loyalty he has instilled in her by being that guiding hand that steers her, and she rewards him with her obedience. She needs nurtured, spoiled, and to be the center of his world... As well as corrected, when the situation arises.

THIS!

I could not have said it better and most likely would never have said it as eloquently. Princess and I have morphed from vanilla to D/S to something I didn't recognize to where we are DD/LG. She is my everything and I her guide. I rarely have to "discipline" (save for the other day when after a weekend of her being crabby daddy gave princess a firm OTK reminder of the rules).

It isn't easy nor is it for the faint of heart. It is a lot of work. But for she and I it is exactly what we need. I get to fill my need to lead, guide, train (something I lost when I was forced into early retirement) and she gets something she never had, even as a child, someone who dotes on her, admires, cherishes, and protects her all the while letting her act out on her child like nature.

The real fun has been keeping it separated from life, lol. Both our sons live at home still and think mom and dad are just weird now.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Herr_daddy]

Not easy for you or her?

Me, it requires a lot of work on my side. That isn't a complaint but in our situation it is the reality. For us this isn't about play or say simply doing some kink for kinks sake, it is how we live 100% of the time. I make her breakfast every morning before she leaves for work, pack her lunch, pick out her clothes, clean up after she leaves and the like. In the evening she has dinner ready when she gets home, her pj's laid out and her coloring books taken down if she wants them. She is spoiled rotten.

It isn't that she cannot do these things, it is that I want to do them for her while I still can. I perhaps over emphasized the not easy part. In no way was it meant to spook, it was more a half assed suggestion to know what one is getting into before becoming a "daddy".

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Herr_daddy]

My guess is there are people all over some scale of work and want here

Very much so! That is the beauty of life, we have the free will to shape it as we need and find what makes us happy. When one does it simply feels natural.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[BeautifulBlueSky218]

DD/lg deep down has always made me curious to be honest. At first I was fearing that it had all to do with incest but that's not the case at all.

They're very loving, understanding, patient and make you feel safe about what pleases you. It's not for everyone but it does suit a lot of people and it's okay. Nobody should feel like a freak if this kind of relationship interests them. Just make sure you get to know you're Dom, communicate and honesty is important and work together.

 

[AmethystQueen]

Love the insights of this thread! Thanks for sharing everyone!