Where are we at right now?
Post-holidays, our sexting has been WAY down. Our creativity has been WAY down. Our random through the day touching has been WAY down.
But what's become clear is that our baseline sexlife has taken a step up from a year or so ago. So even when we aren't as turned on throughout the day, or flirting with each other, when we do get time to ourselves it's still thrilling.
She's become very excited about giving herself an orgasm before I come into the room. Sometimes I'll be finishing the dishes or closing things down outside, and she'll get started and let me know. Then she'll let me know when it's time to come inside. Doing so, I enter the room and I'm mostly unstimulated, and she's a writhing mess (in a good way, lol). So then she watches me get undressed and loves it, gets me ready, and then it's fast and intense.
Similar to that example has happened numerous times, and it's more of a switch that we can turn on easily.
It's clear that she likes being watched and thought about in really sexy ways. I'm starting to realize that more and have to figure out where it goes.
Post-holidays, our sexting has been WAY down. Our creativity has been WAY down. Our random through the day touching has been WAY down.
But what's become clear is that our baseline sexlife has taken a step up from a year or so ago. So even when we aren't as turned on throughout the day, or flirting with each other, when we do get time to ourselves it's still thrilling.
She's become very excited about giving herself an orgasm before I come into the room. Sometimes I'll be finishing the dishes or closing things down outside, and she'll get started and let me know. Then she'll let me know when it's time to come inside. Doing so, I enter the room and I'm mostly unstimulated, and she's a writhing mess (in a good way, lol). So then she watches me get undressed and loves it, gets me ready, and then it's fast and intense.
Similar to that example has happened numerous times, and it's more of a switch that we can turn on easily.
It's clear that she likes being watched and thought about in really sexy ways. I'm starting to realize that more and have to figure out where it goes.
