Day to Day Intimate Updates

[lifehack]

The first few days of this will be an experiment, but if it works for me or anyone else it'll get smoother after that.

Posting in this forum as I think it fits with some fetishes others may have, and it's a chance for me to share in ways I (and most) don't in real life.

Basically, I will be posting a sort of intimate daily diary. Sexy, embarrassing, funny, etc. If I get good interaction, questions and ideas can drive this. Pics can happen too.

The idea generated from wanting to talk about last night, and the plan grew through the day.

So last night. My wife (late 30's, curvy in all the right ways), and I (mid 30's, decently in shape) had a major sexy and dirty moment. I was going down on her, and she squirted into my mouth (first time this has happened when I was going down on her). A lot. Her orgasm was great and she felt great about it.

We ran out of time and didn't get to finish me off, which is fine. Today, though, I had a very busy day at work (I work from home) and had zero time to take care of myself. But I was able to keep some live cam models on next to the documents I was working. I was enjoying keeping myself turned on all day knowing that tonight I'd get a release inside my wife somewhere. I watched two, mainly. One was a woman next door type British woman (she was playing with a hoola hoop at one point), and the other was a guy stroking himself for awhile.

But, tonight took a busy turn and there was no time for us to be together.

So tonight will be interesting. What I expect to happen is to cuddle with her and feel ultra turned on, lay awake for awhile while she sleeps, and be unable to turn my thoughts off and then have some wild dreams.

I'll post whatever happens tonight and tomorrow. Some days will be mediocre, some will be graphic. That's my life and I hope some of you voyeurs will like to read it.

 

[AnnieLit]

Day 1: "We ran out of time and didn't get to finish me off"
Day 2: "tonight took a busy turn and there was no time for us to be together."

What does it mean? Is one of you a robot that gets turned off at 10 pm, so unless you are done, nothing is going to happen?

Yes, evenings.can get hectic sometimes, but how can you possibly run out of time when you are already having sex? You absolutely had to go to sleep and 10 min to get you off were not in the cards?

 

[Not Normal]

Day 1: "We ran out of time and didn't get to finish me off"
Day 2: "tonight took a busy turn and there was no time for us to be together."

What does it mean? Is one of you a robot that gets turned off at 10 pm, so unless you are done, nothing is going to happen?

Yes, evenings.can get hectic sometimes, but how can you possibly run out of time when you are already having sex? You absolutely had to go to sleep and 10 min to get you off were not in the cards?

I wanna know the same thing.

 

[lifehack]

Haha, good questions. Well, the spirit here is to be super transparent.

Day #1 - This happened in the early evening, and our kids were getting dropped back off and it was getting too close to that time. But after that? To be honest, I felt like I had a 'mental orgasm' with how intense the oral session for her was. So later that night I was kind of still in that zone and instead gave her a foot rub while we watched a movie. I suppose I wanted more a little, but we had this chill vibe going that felt really close and intimate too.

Day #2 - I'm training for a race and because work was so busy I didn't get my run in until later. That pushed everything back, and she has to wake up early for work so I didn't pursue anything. We are very active so sometimes the days just fly by.

 

[lifehack]

Well, last night we were able to have fairly quick, normal sex. It was fast and good, but not mind blowing. And coming off of a second day of me needing some sort of release, it helped but was not totally fulfilling.

She was on top for most of it, which we like. Especially when she leans over and I put both my hands on her ass and hold her tight so she has to move the way I want her to. That gets her going every time....

So today I'll be thinking of that, and probably read a few lit stories and see how I feel later...

 

[lifehack]

Maybe this will be week to week instead of day to day!

Two nights ago my wife and I had a very fun session. I was outside doing some yardwork after the kids went to bed. We had planned on spending time together afterwards.

Well, she got an early start with her vibrator and texted me at some point with a picture and description of what she wanted. This was basically that'd she'd tell me when she climaxed the first time and then I should come right in and get on top of her.

This was exceedingly hot, knowing what she was doing while I was still working away.

She texted, and I came in and she was spread out, sweaty, and slowly caressing herself. I jumped on top like she said, and since I had no physical foreplay lasted quite a while. She came one more time, but it lasted a really long time as I was in the right position for her. It lasted up until I cam. We got cleaned up and then laid together and fell asleep.


If anyone is still reading, we could get interactive. I'm very dirty and submissive this week, and will probably read some cuckold stories, or find some sub MMF videos or stories. Feel free to share any if you want to get in my head. I'm very happy to report back every detail.

 

[Sigmund7]

I, for one, am rather enjoying the thread. Sometimes sex happens and sometimes it doesn't, that's just the way life works. Probably a once a week post of highlights is a good idea.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I really enjoy reading believable posts like this

 

[lifehack]

Labor Day, kids back to school, etc really messed my schedule up, but I think we are back now.

Here's some updates.

My wife and I had two days alone without the kids, but also had a ton of work to do and not nearly enough energy. So we opted to have as many intense quickies as possible. It boiled down to three in a 36 hour period.

The first was when she got home from work, I was already here. She got down on her knees right as she shut the door, undid my belt, and took me in her mouth. I let her do that a few minutes, and then brought her to the edge of the couch, pulled her pants down, and fucked her there. It was intense, it all lasted maybe 7 minutes? I don't think she fully cam but she felt dirty and liked it anyway, she said.

The second time was first thing the next morning. Basically that ideal setting you can imagine, with some sun coming through the blinds, her halfway in a sheet. I started by putting my hand on top of her panties and laying it there for a little bit until I felt her slightly try to rub against me. So then I rubbed a little and finally pulled her panties down and went down on her. She orgasmed quickly, probably because of the night before, and then I climbed on top of her and fucker her fast and slow as she requested it.

The third time was that night. After dinner we went into the bedroom, trying to be quick. She gave me a very intense blowjob for a few minutes, lots of attention to my balls and everywhere. Then I went down on her and used a combo of two vibrators which led to a VERY long orgasm for her. When that slightly subsided I fucked her and she basically never stopped moaning and cam again as I did.

I did learn something though. Every minute of that was fun, but none of it had enough build up for me to feel fully satisfied. I kind of thought I'd be good for a day, but the next morning when she went to work I was feeling way more sexual than normal? So I ended up watching some porn and edging for a little while so I could feel a little more of a full body intensity. What's weird though is I was watched lesbian porn, which I don't often do? I was definitely picturing it was my wife, so she was part of it, but I can't figure out why that's what my brain wanted.

 

[lifehack]

Busy midweek, unfortunately. I've been really trying to hold back masturbating because I kept thinking it would happen each night, but never did. And I want to be as excited and ready as possible. But then, the problem is I probably won't last as long when we actually get some time together....

Hope that doesn't sound torturous, I bet many guys go through that regularly.

 

[lifehack]

Traveling for work again. My wife sent me a sexy pic which I appreciated but it was kind of torture. The pic was of her pulling her pants out and taking a pic down the front. 80% workout clothes and shadow, but 20% xxx.

So yea, what do you do when you get back to the hotel in city after having a couple of beers and it's barely 8pm.

One time I went to an adult store with booths in the back. Just because I needed some experience. It didn't go very far but was definitely an experience...maybe I'll share the story sometime

But back to last night, I needed some release for sure.

When I'm traveling my submissive side seems to really take over. Just something about being alone makes me want to explore that side.

So after clicking on a few videos, I went back to an old story that I've read quite a few times when that side of my brain takes over. It's titled 'blackmail', but there's not really much blackmail or anything like that in it. That doesn't really excite me. But the sub couple and the mental journey is really exciting. So, with the pic my wife sent on my phone, I read the following story and just spent some time in that world.

https://www.literotica.com/s/blackmailed-couple-ch-07-09

I read the middle few stories in full, but the above link is where it starts to get intense.

 

[lifehack]

Reunited!
And it was intense. Not dirty, and nothing uniquely memorable, but close, deep, and sweaty.

I got into the bedroom first and just kind of relaxed for a few minutes, I had one stiff drink that I could definitely feel. She came in and couldn't wait, stripped all of her clothes off instantly and started kissing me and rubbing her naked self on my underwear....which, secretly I love, something about the unbashed sexuality that is is aware she's dirtying up my clothes as I get harder and harder. I'm going to be washing them anyway, but I'm curious if it's entered her mind at all.

Anyway, we exchanged some very intense oral for a good long while. I transitioned very quickly from going down on her, kept my hand on her and moved myself inside of her while I then moved up to making out with her and fucking her slowly and deeply. I think this move where I kept some bodypart on/in her at all times worked well, as she came right then. I could feel her legs trying to squeeze all the way (which is her instinct) and her body contract around my cock, but I kept a very slow, keep movement going and it ended up just extending her orgasm which was ideal I think.

We basically then had full body contact, starting to get sweaty, still making out, and I just fucked at the speed and depth that I wanted until we both came at the same time.

The full body aspect was a little different than lately, so that was a great feeling. She was very happy afterward....

 

[lifehack]

Well how do you get out of a rut? And bring back confidence?

Nothing is wrong, but weeks of travel, sickness, over-scheduling, etc, have taken their toll. We are out of rhythm, and where we had a good spell of sexy texting and building on experiences, it's come back to basically one normal session a week.

The question is how to get it back on track. I tried some usually successful ideas....sending some sexy memories, giving her a few low-risk sexy tasks to get her mind going through the day. There was interest but it didn't really get things going.

So I guess we'll just keep trying a few things and staying committed to what we want to be, and the timing will work out eventually.

 

[harv]

Nothing new from the author since October 23?? What is happening??

 

[lifehack]

Thanks Harv - life moved fast the last month. I do have some updates though.

For awhile there we were in a bad phase of nothing physical during the week - just busy, tired, and I've been going out a lot. Then, there's been a few weekends with visitors, traveling to family, etc. So it has been a frustrating month, though with some good outcomes.

This last weekend we were traveling with no space of our own. But because we both voiced our frustrations we decided to lean into it and tease the fuck out of each other the whole weekend. Like, if we could get into a room for a second, she'd pull my pants down and lick me for a second. I'd do the same to her. Lots of texting about fantasies and plans.

When we were finally able to fuck on Sunday night, she came basically immediately when I went down on her. I wouldn't let her touch me, as I was boiling over too. So I rolled her over in the prone position and fucked hard and fast. Lately it's become clear that she likes her ass being grabbed hard, spread, spanked. I just let go for those three minutes and had my way with her.

The better news? That weekend of teasing and then finally release brought us closer, it was definitely some sort of wall that we broke down. I think being sexually frustrated but turning it fun and being in the same space mentally REALLY made a big difference.

Because this week has turned very interesting...

 

[lifehack]

I wanted to wait until the weekend to update, to see how things turned out. As this whole thread has suggested, there's a mostly sex positive relationship here, with some normal ups and downs. But there has been a lopsided driver of it all on the mental side. When it's physical, it's very good and moving in a more fulfilling and intense direction. The mental side, the creativity, the finding out what we both want, has been harder to find alignment on.

But this week, without knowing the words to use, she clearly wanted to be submissive and have it be a thing all week. She asked for it. So this was the first non, 60-minute session of exploring a daily undertone of sex and direction. Daily texts, intimate questions, SOME version of playing every night that we were together. And when we weren't together, tasks and communication.

Ultimately, this week was about orgasm control and she loved it. We built anticipation multiple times, and the up/down/release with my guidance really got her going all week.

And me, I got into it way more than I thought and everything came together pretty well.

We reflected on it a lot last night and agreed that this is something we need to explore much more.

Sooooo......yea.....pretty big in a marriage that's fairly far along. I'm skipping some of the specific details for a minute, but can probably share some of those if they are of interest and when I have a minute or two.

 

[Wonderer67]

I like this thread. Very similar to my wife and I. Busy life and schedules, travel work, balancing work, life and kids. (We’re empty nesters now, but we own a farm as well as have day jobs.)

The ups and downs of marriage, try to make time for one another’s, frustration when it doesn’t always work out, the highs of amazing sex when everything works great.

Keep it cumming.

 

[lifehack]

Ups and downs, but the downs are WAY less down. Holiday stress, tiredness, and finishing some year-end work slowed us down a little. Different than previous years though, we communicated well and things didn't turn negative or passive-aggressive.

Just the way the cards fell, we took five days off. Coming back to it we just wanted a quick, close release so we made out a lot and had as much skin/body contact as possible. I think that approach really worked for her as she orgasmed really hard and long in the prone position. I wasn't quite done so I kept going for another two or so minutes, the whole time she was just in another world of moaning and writing.

That flipped the switch for her, because the next day she wanted a little more teasing and 'me in control' type attention. So, that train seems to be the one we are on right now.

I was busy and didn't have a ton of time to be creative. So to keep things moving I didn't say much throughout the day but made small suggestions. When she got home from work, had her go change into specific underwear and take her bra off. When I ended up in certain parts of the house with her, made a small dirty comment, etc.

So by the time we had everything done and were ready to go, she was ready. But I'll be honest, I was not fully in the mood. So I used that. We made out for awhile, building tension. She grabbed my cock, I let her, but wouldn't let her reach inside my pants or anything beyond feeling me. I reached inside hers, made sure she was super turned on for a few minutes. Then I stopped and made her bring herself to orgasm with her fingers.

I didn't tell her if there'd be more after that. I wanted her to have a release and feel good, but that was all I had for the night. She cam, and she enjoyed it. She really liked being watched, and the not knowing the plan kept her on edge in a good way.

We will have lots of quiet days during the holidays, so we are planning to ramp things up considerably....

 

[lifehack]

Well, just another lesson that things don't go according to plan. I thought we'd have some serious fun and build from before, but the downtime we had over the holidays so far has led to nothing exciting to share.

We did have some quick, close sex one night, which we had talked about being a quick release and the next day we'd make something bigger happen. But the next day I knew I was too tired. And the next day she was.

I say 'too tired', but to be clear, it's not like we are lethargic and going to bed at 8:30. It's just that we don't build in any relaxing time to our days. We both work out, take care of the kids, work, keep the house clean, and have a pretty busy social life. So we pack a lot in.....and sex doesn't always make it up the dance card.

Anyway, we've already started sexting today, and it's my job to come up with a plan for tonight. Going to click around on lit for some ideas.

 

[harv]

Well, just another lesson that things don't go according to plan. I thought we'd have some serious fun and build from before, but the downtime we had over the holidays so far has led to nothing exciting to share.

We did have some quick, close sex one night, which we had talked about being a quick release and the next day we'd make something bigger happen. But the next day I knew I was too tired. And the next day she was.

I say 'too tired', but to be clear, it's not like we are lethargic and going to bed at 8:30. It's just that we don't build in any relaxing time to our days. We both work out, take care of the kids, work, keep the house clean, and have a pretty busy social life. So we pack a lot in.....and sex doesn't always make it up the dance card.

Anyway, we've already started sexting today, and it's my job to come up with a plan for tonight. Going to click around on lit for some ideas.

Maybe she needs to be told how much some of the rest of us would like to partake of her sexuality. Lots of cocks getting hard to stories of her sexual exploits??

 

[Wonderer67]

I said it before, but I’ll say it again…

I don’t have much to add, or to reply to other than it’s a great real-life thread. Nothing too crazy kinky, or anything, just life’s ups and downs and a couple navigating it.

While I appreciate hearing about some real-life kinky thinks and crazy acts on other threads and forums, you guys sound like maybe you could be our neighbors or co-workers…

Thank you for sharing and giving intimate view of your bedroom and Life.

Reminds me a bit of our life.

Keep it cumming!

 

[lifehack]

Maybe she needs to be told how much some of the rest of us would like to partake of her sexuality. Lots of cocks getting hard to stories of her sexual exploits??

I'm lucky for sure, and maybe someday she'll share that luck around!

 

[lifehack]

I said it before, but I’ll say it again…

I don’t have much to add, or to reply to other than it’s a great real-life thread. Nothing too crazy kinky, or anything, just life’s ups and downs and a couple navigating it.

While I appreciate hearing about some real-life kinky thinks and crazy acts on other threads and forums, you guys sound like maybe you could be our neighbors or co-workers…

Thank you for sharing and giving intimate view of your bedroom and Life.

Reminds me a bit of our life.

Keep it cumming!

Thanks again! I'll keep it up. Let me know if there's anything I should ever add or share. Your 'neighbor/co-worker' note is just about right. We live pretty normal lives, though maybe a little more creative than average. I like giving the peak through the blinds, it's good for me too, to appreciate the ups and downs that keep things interesting.

 

[Gaj1962]

Hey love the thread and being a vouyer into your lives. Please continue to update us. I'd like to hear .ore about your sub side and cuckold fantasy. Thanks again for sharing.

 

[lifehack]

Well, my side of the fantasy playing out, that's maybe interesting right now.

We are in a really good place exploring her body just being purely sexual. The 'being used' factor (sexy story below) is something she never explored and is discovering that she likes. We are mixing those sessions with normal sex, and there isn't a lot of space for anything else right now. So my particular fantasies, or exploring things that are starting with my interests rather than hers, aren't really happening right now.

There's a few passing texts and flirtations about things that turn my dials, but it's not the space right now. So I'm getting comfortable playing the switch I guess? I am having fun with it, so it's not like I'm in any sort of agony!

It doesn't mean those feelings go away. So I find little moments to get lost in. On nights where we don't have sex, I still let my mind wander and get turned on, but don't let myself do anything about it. I like that tensions. Or when she's riding my face, it's not really about submission in how we play it out but that's where my mind goes.

I do think we'll have an era where we explore this side though.

Okay, a quick sexy story. As I mentioned a few posts back, she's really into me watching her, fantasizing about her, etc. Just the visceral sexualizing of her I guess? So last night, after we had been texting all day, we had some good normal sex for awhile. But I told her throughout that she needed to wait to cum. As I built that tension, she knew it was building to something fun, which really got her going. So near the end, I pulled out. I told her she was going to cum after I ejaculated all over her ass and back. At this point she was begging to cum, and touching herself. I was slowly working myself up, and she had to hold back a few times as I was taking my time. I was REALLY dirty talking her, a little further than I expected to go. And when I finally came, it was pretty big and intense. She shivered and started to orgasm right as it hit her, and then she used her fingers to finish off.....and it was probably in her top 10 she said.