Date!

[Monazwx]

*Mona pouts*

A date, without me? What about us Zam.?
(Just kidding)

Only wear a little cologne. Overwhelm her with your wit and humor instead.

Have a great date!

 

[Zamdrist]

Have a great date!

Thanks Mona!

I leave in about an hour, I'm excited! I'm certain we will have fun. Wish me luck!

 

[perks]

I hope you wore your duckpanties

You look gooooooooood, sugah!

 

[Zamdrist]

Ok, I've brushed my teeth three times this morning. My hair is lying perfectly and I'm dressed, ready to go.

OMG! Where's my wallet...I searched everywhere in the apartment, no jive. Turns out it was lying on the car seat the whole night.

Sheesh. My heart is thumping now!

Leaving now, I'm bustin' this joint!

 

[Zamdrist]

So high, so low

I found the mall, Maplewood mall and the Applebees without too much trouble. I had directions printed out, took one wrong turn was all but was running early anways. Got there a 12 sharp.

I knew to be patient, she said 12-ish. I waited in the front area and watched out the glass doors for her arival.

I waited.
I waited.
I waited.

I got nervous. Maybe she had sat down already, before I got here? I looked around, she's a smoker like me and you can only smoke at the bar there...nope, she wasn't at the bar.

The host and hostess kept looking at me, I felt funny, insignificant, small.

I waited until 1:30 PM.

No show. I even left my cell phone number in case there was an issue. No call. No nothing.

It hurts just as bad as it did when I was 14. Just as bad.

How fucking humiliating. But god...then I think, maybe she had a crisis, she does have four kids. She hasn't been on Yahoo since Saturday morning. I don't even have her phone number. She's still not online.

 

[perks]

it's not your loss, sugah.

hugs, duckpanties.

 

[Zamdrist]

it's not your loss, sugah.

hugs, duckpanties.

Thanks hun. I should'nt have gotten so excited.

 

[PepperminTrish]

I'm going to agree with perky_baby on this one Zamdrist. IF she did stand you up, then it's HER loss not yours. I'm sure that doesn't help a whole lot, does it?? I'm just sorry that you're feeling bad.

Trish

 

[Zamdrist]

I'm going to agree with perky_baby on this one Zamdrist. IF she did stand you up, then it's HER loss not yours. I'm sure that doesn't help a whole lot, does it?? I'm just sorry that you're feeling bad.

Trish

Thanks...I just want to talk with her, get some kind of explanation. I feel better then.

 

[Nora]

PM me her info and I'll kick her ass for you. Then come down here and I'll make you forget all about the skank.

 

[perks]

Thanks hun. I should'nt have gotten so excited.

dude, ALWAYS get excited about a first date. It's part of what makes life so wonderful.

We were all so psyched. I was living vicariously.

I hope you get your explanation. Personally, I want to smack her.

 

[Zamdrist]

PM me her info and I'll kick her ass for you. Then come down here and I'll make you forget all about the skank.

LOL! Thanks for making laugh, that makes me feel better

Thanks...

 

[Monazwx]

Peppermin Trish is right.

I hope nothing's wrong with her or her kids, but standing people up is just plain rude.
She could have at least called instead of wasting your time.

Don't worry you'll always have us here at Lit.

(((ZAM)))

 

[PepperminTrish]

Thanks...I just want to talk with her, get some kind of explanation. I feel better then.

Sweetie, an explanation is the LEAST that she owes you and I hope she has a good one! Wouldn't want to be forced to unleash Nora on her!

 

[Nora]

LOL! Thanks for making laugh, that makes me feel better

Thanks...

Anytime!

Damn. He thinks I'm kidding.

 

[Zamdrist]

dude, ALWAYS get excited about a first date. It's part of what makes life so wonderful.

We were all so psyched. I was living vicariously.

I hope you get your explanation. Personally, I want to smack her.

I'm thinking of sending her a link of this thread, just so she can see how excited I was. Yeah, there was the Trojan shot, be she should understand, she's 42 for gods sake and three of her kids are boys. What would she think was on my mind? Of course, I was just being playful and silly.

 

[perks]

I'm thinking of sending her a link of this thread, just so she can see how excited I was. Yeah, there was the Trojan shot, be she should understand, she's 42 for gods sake and three of her kids are boys. What would she think was on my mind? Of course, I was just being playful and silly.

I don't think YOU should send her anything. Why should you keep doing for someone that hasn't? You deserve better. You definitely deserve common courtesy, and she didn't even show you that. No matter what the excuse is, that's rude and unacceptable. Treat yourself better, Zamdrist. Think differently. You're better than being with someone that thinks mistreating you is acceptable behavior. Especially on the first date. Stuff like that only gets worse.

 

[Zamdrist]

I don't think YOU should send her anything. Why should you keep doing for someone that hasn't? You deserve better. You definitely deserve common courtesy, and she didn't even show you that. No matter what the excuse is, that's rude and unacceptable. Treat yourself better, Zamdrist. Think differently. You're better than being with someone that thinks mistreating you is acceptable behavior. Especially on the first date. Stuff like that only gets worse.

Hell, I just want her to see and understand how thrilled I was, so she can understand the gravity of my disappointment.

 

[Zamdrist]

Peppermin Trish is right.

I hope nothing's wrong with her or her kids, but standing people up is just plan rude.
She could have at least called instead of wasting your time.

Don't worry you'll always have us here at Lit.

(((ZAM)))

Thank you Mona. You're sweet as always. Don't know what I'd do without my friends here.

 

[Problem Child]

I feel like I've been watching a one-man episode of Big Brother. The anticipation, the nervousness, the excitement, the preparation, the Trojans. Good choice dumping the Dragon shirt by the way. If I'd gotten to this thread earlier I would have recommended strongly against that.

Don't sweat it Zam. She probably just has a fear of globes.

 

[Zamdrist]

Don't sweat it Zam. She probably just has a fear of globes.

Thanks PC...thanks for making me laugh!

 

[Zamdrist]

She's a chat moderator on MSN, she said the Adult Beach Party, Web Cams Live and Twin City Chat.

I'm fumbling around on MSN, I don't know it as I use Yahoo primarily. I'm hoping someone has seen her around...or something. Ideas anyone?

 

[Ginny]

ooohh mann......zam......grrrr at her.....i mean really cutie....to not let you know she was unable to make it.....i can't even imagine having a date and just not showing....and not calling....


my advice....no more searching for her....you want nothing to do with this fem thang....of course unless she got hit by a truck....which is liable to be her cyber excuse....some big drama to make you feel sorry for her....when she's just a....game playing bitch....

just be careful cutie.....you deserve better.....<lickies>.......

 

[Zamdrist]

Thanks to all of you

Well I managed to find her online on MSN.

She was sufficiently apologetic. The excuse? It's not a great one no. She was at a party, she didn't drive...I can only assume she had a difficult time returning home and missed the date.

Considering she's a mother of four children, I'm gonna give her a break. I know, you're thinking no way, uh uh. But I'm a sap and she's a real good lady it seems. You don't raise four kids, basically on your own, without learning a few things.

So I'll forgive and take another shot at it. It's the least I would want.

Why didn't she contact me? She didn't get my phone number until she returned home, I had sent it a bit before I left, she was already gone. Also, she said she believed I wouldn't even want to talk to her. She was the one who said: "No don't you stand me up!" When we made the arrangments.

Everyone is deserving of a second chance, to be forgiven now and then. God knows I've needed it.

 

[StrawberryPez]

aww Zammie baby, I would never ever have done that to you!!!

You'd have a hard time getting rid of me