Date Night Activity Token ideas

[Wifechangedhermind]

I saw these and thought they would be fun to have:

Here's the different "packs" you can get for ideas:

I like some but but can do without others.

Found a place on 3tsy that will make personalized ones.

Just wondering what y'all would add if given the choice?

Sincerely, D.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I’ve made and gifted vouchers, made of pretty jewel coloured thick paper and written with a gold pen in my best handwriting.
It was a mix of sexual and non-sexual things and very much tailored to his specific likes and wants (and possibly some things I hoped he’d want ).

I stayed away from things that related to a specific outcome (like ”make me squirt” in your example) and tried to stick with things that would be actionable.

 

[seela]

I’ve made and gifted vouchers, made of pretty jewel coloured thick paper and written with a gold pen in my best handwriting.
It was a mix of sexual and non-sexual things and very much tailored to his specific likes and wants (and possibly some things I hoped he’d want ).

I stayed away from things that related to a specific outcome (like ”make me squirt” in your example) and tried to stick with things that would be actionable.

That’s a really good point that aiming at a specific outcome might lead to disappointment.

Of this set my favorite would be 34 Teach Me. I miss teaching and I love to be taught

I don’t even know what I’d pick to teach, so many options!

Edit: 39 sit on your face sounds weird. Like they’re telling someone to sit on their own face?

 

[IrisAlthea]

Of this set my favorite would be 34 Teach Me. I miss teaching and I love to be taught

I don’t even know what I’d pick to teach, so many options!

Hm, I read Teach Me more as ”Teach me Tiger, wowowowo”.
Your take is more interesting.

 

[Wifechangedhermind]

Thanks for the responses.
I agree with staying away from the specific outcome. It needs to be something attainable.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I've seen something similar used at a swinger party. Each person got two blank tokens (poker chips) and each could write one thing they wanted to do and one thing they wanted done to them. Then everyone put them in a bowl and drew them out, then paired off and carried them out. It was a lot of fun.

I think that approach would be best - blank tokens - then personalized.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Ok, how about:

• Commando date (going on a date sans undies)
• Outdoor sex
• Edging
• Naked slow dance
• Clothes pins
• Car sex
• Mutual masturbation

 

[Wifechangedhermind]

Ok, how about:

• Commando date (going on a date sans undies)
• Outdoor sex
• Edging
• Naked slow dance
• Clothes pins
• Car sex
• Mutual masturbation

For the love of all that’s holy, how did I not think of clothespins!?!?
Thanks for the reminder.
Sincerely, D.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Personally, a "Bite Me" token would be a fun addition.

 

[cascadiabound]

Ok, how about:

• Commando date (going on a date sans undies)
• Outdoor sex
• Edging
• Naked slow dance
• Clothes pins
• Car sex
• Mutual masturbation

agree - edging
also:
remote toy session
anal plug
anal beads
leash play
story time (write a sex story/ scene)
foreplay/ extended foreplay
pull my hair/ hair used as a restraint
deny me
naked service
make a sexy video
photo session

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

A few "reverse" tokens. So "tie me up" becomes "tie you up" and "bend me over" becomes "bend you over" for example. Great for exploring "Switching"

"Be a Brat" (Sometimes hearing "No!" or "Make me" from a sub is incredibly arousing)

"Talk dirty to me" (the quick version of a story)

"Strip for Me / You" (fits with Lapdance)

"Dance" (Ok, I would need a "I'm not doing that card lol")

"Hand me your panties" in the restaurant or club

Following on "Just the tip"...."Just the lips"

"No penetration" (frotting; body friction, not a handjob / fingering or a blowjob / eating)

The thread has gotten boring, but I still love the title" "Eat it like you mean it" get me off with your mouth alone

"Play in the mud / Play in the snow"

"Collar in public", especially one that might convince people it is jewelry..."Where did you get that choker?" "My Dom gave it to me after I edged for a month."

 

[cascadiabound]

A few "reverse" tokens. So "tie me up" becomes "tie you up" and "bend me over" becomes "bend you over" for example. Great for exploring "Switching"

"Be a Brat" (Sometimes hearing "No!" or "Make me" from a sub is incredibly arousing)

"Talk dirty to me" (the quick version of a story)

"Strip for Me / You" (fits with Lapdance)

"Dance" (Ok, I would need a "I'm not doing that card lol")

"Hand me your panties" in the restaurant or club

Following on "Just the tip"...."Just the lips"

"No penetration" (frotting; body friction, not a handjob / fingering or a blowjob / eating)

The thread has gotten boring, but I still love the title" "Eat it like you mean it" get me off with your mouth alone

"Play in the mud / Play in the snow"

"Collar in public", especially one that might convince people it is jewelry..."Where did you get that choker?" "My Dom gave it to me after I edged for a month."

Add... jello wrestling
Wet t-shirt contest
Taste yourself on me
Shave me/I'll shave you
Ice play
Rope harness under clothes for public date night
Wear a tail for me

 

[Wildfly11]

Oh some good ideas here. I once made a board game with three sets of cards. First set was all about foreplay with close on/light touching kissing, second set was focused on getting naked self play/exposure/ hot stories and questions, third set was short sex activities to build the excitement. I put a lot of work into it and it was fun. Better than the sex games you can purchase!

 

[Fazer600]

Marry me.. XO OX

 

[NakedNymph]

This is such a good idea that I'm mad I didn't think of it myself

 

[Wifechangedhermind]

Excellent additions!
Thanks everyone.
Sincerely, D.

 

[Trubbycat]

Fetish store try on tease.