Dark and Unrealistic Fantasies

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Do you ever think about dark and unrealistic fantasies that turn you own, however if you to ever actually try them in real life they would be either extremely unsafe or are just impossible. Let’s discuss, even if they’ll never happen, they’re still hot

I would love a form of bdsm where my sub takes a pill that renders her body completely unable to move. She is essentially unconscious from a movement standpoint, but can see and feel everything happening
 
I would love a form of bdsm where my sub takes a pill that renders her body completely unable to move. She is essentially unconscious from a movement standpoint, but can see and feel everything happening
And what if you were on the other side of it?

There are people paralyzed in that state for years. I've often said that's one of my greatest fears, far worse than death.
 
On consultation with the Mod there, moving this to BDSM Talk where more like minded people can chime in.
 
Do you ever think about dark and unrealistic fantasies that turn you own, however if you to ever actually try them in real life they would be either extremely unsafe or are just impossible. Let’s discuss, even if they’ll never happen, they’re still hot

I would love a form of bdsm where my sub takes a pill that renders her body completely unable to move. She is essentially unconscious from a movement standpoint, but can see and feel everything happening
That is pretty dark, but I’m sure there are a lot of folks who’d think about this and even be down to try it. I always need an out, so a safe word or ability to safe signal is essential, but it’s definitely something to think about.
 
My main problem with this is that a person drugged to that state would not be able to utter a 'safe' word, or make any kind of 'safe' motion or signal.

There are people, who with a great deal of practice can almost self-hypnotize into a nearly lifeless state, even reducing breathing and heart rate. They make a living at being mannequins and can stay in that state for some number of minutes. BUT, they retain consciousness, presence of mind and will and can bring themselves out of it immediately if threatened.
 
Do you ever think about dark and unrealistic fantasies that turn you own, however if you to ever actually try them in real life they would be either extremely unsafe or are just impossible. Let’s discuss, even if they’ll never happen, they’re still hot

I would love a form of bdsm where my sub takes a pill that renders her body completely unable to move. She is essentially unconscious from a movement standpoint, but can see and feel everything happening
See, in my fantasyland we don’t need pills for that kind of thing, but I admit to being a fantasy nerd and actually blame Ms LeGuin for one of those fantasies.

As for the comments to your post:
Most of my fantasies are things like that, as in they would probably be stupid/dangerous, against my principles, impractical or in other ways a no go under current circumstances.
If they weren’t, they probably wouldn’t stay in fantasyland.

I’ve always found the handwringing about these things excessive, as I don’t believe in thought crime.
The difference between fantasy and reality, is that in fantasy we do have total control of the outcome. Hence it is ”safe” by default to explore darker themes and actual practicalities and yucky details can be ignored.
For me, a lot of the things I might enjoy as a fantasy, wouldn’t be enjoyable IRL or at least wouldn’t be without so many caveats that it would be a hassle.
That is why I worry, when people seem to confuse their latest porn/fantasy obsession with an actual interest in experiencing something.
 
As a submissive, I do- and being paralyzed like that isn't one of them (a hard limit in fact.) I've fantasized about some pretty dark, sometimes gross fetishes involving a girl, a bucket and a toilet seat, with me in a compromising position- but I'll just stop here and leave it at that. Because it would obviously be a hard limit, and disturbing to even visualize, for most people.

Any hard core corporal punishment- bullwhips and the like- are hot, and I wish I had the tolerance for pain like that but sadly, I don't.
 
Woman wearing a riding outfit, including tight white pants, black knee-high boots and sharp spurs ... a riding crop in her hand. She sits on my back, starting to ride me like a horse around, while she uses her spurs on my sides. The spurs are very sharp, so she digs them deep in my flesh, causing me to bleed and scream while she enjoys ... when she gets enough wet, she sits on my face, having me eat her pussy until she cums. And while I eat her, she digs the spurs in my sides, cutitng me deep inside ...

This is just a fantasy. I haven't tried it yet ever, for several reasons.

1. I'm not sure whether the pain from the spurs would be really enjoyable. I do enjoy some pain, but not extremes.
2. I was actually used as a ponyboy once (she had no spurs, though) ... and I remember I had difficulty to endure even 30 seconds of it.

That's the mantra which I always keep repeating to novice subs: a sub needs to be perfectly physically fit, more than the dom(me)!

So, unless you are running every morning for at least 5 miles, doing crossfit at least twice a week, plus some quick workout during the week - forget extreme BDSM.
 
Any hard core corporal punishment- bullwhips and the like- are hot, and I wish I had the tolerance for pain like that but sadly, I don't.
As I already said on another thread here - a bullwhip is not a toy. I was at the receiving end of the bullwhip once. She was very skilled with it and she could control how much pain she delivered, but still it did hurt!

The Net is full of porn videos of guys being whipped by domme women. But bear in mind that 99% of those are fakes.
 
My main problem with this is that a person drugged to that state would not be able to utter a 'safe' word, or make any kind of 'safe' motion or signal.

There are people, who with a great deal of practice can almost self-hypnotize into a nearly lifeless state, even reducing breathing and heart rate. They make a living at being mannequins and can stay in that state for some number of minutes. BUT, they retain consciousness, presence of mind and will and can bring themselves out of it immediately if threatened.
Thank you for moving this, I was in no way advocating for being abusive or non-consensual. Which is why it's a fantasy that wouldn't happen in real life. Even if the idea of it turns us on.

Thank you
 
Do you ever think about dark and unrealistic fantasies that turn you own, however if you to ever actually try them in real life they would be either extremely unsafe or are just impossible. Let’s discuss, even if they’ll never happen, they’re still hot

I would love a form of bdsm where my sub takes a pill that renders her body completely unable to move. She is essentially unconscious from a movement standpoint, but can see and feel everything happening
Many imaginary and totally unrealistic fantasies, aliens, werewolves, GoT direwolves etc x too many to list x x x
 
GOT has so many dark sexual ideas, so many rooms in the castles. So much of a power imbalance between characters
Some things really leave a huge imprint on our fantasy world.
I find it interesting how some of it sticks with us for decades even though it might not even have been intended to be sexy, while other things that might even be hot while reading/watching, don’t leave any lasting impression.
 
I have dark fantasies about being forcefully taken by Krampus.

I'm not even sure what response I should give to this. Hm. I think I'll go for:

I appreciate people honoring the culture of the European Alpine region.
 
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