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You pose an interesting question today, what would one do... the first thoughts that come to mind are obvious... but if it happened, the reality is maybe not so obvious... something to ponder on a rainy day!!!:rose::rose:
 
I feel you on the personal time. The small bit that i get i want to be productively using but if im truthful i usually make excuses and do something else. Maybe i just enjoy saying, "i never have time to ...."

haha, If I see free time on the horizon. I don't even speak of it, just so I don't end up with a productive to do list.

What would you do If you could do anything you wanted to do today and it didn’t really impact tomorrow?

Spend the day watching you take sexy pictures of your hot sexy body and helping you figure out what thing or things to wear before you take them.

haha, well I always enjoy a good fashion show.

For many of us, it's not so much "what would we do" as "whom would we do".

I enjoy your rambles.

I admit it would be too. One of the biggest things I miss is screwing someone new. However, there is a big issue, probably the same issue all my coworker marrying friends, my Ghost hunter friend, my cat yarner puppeteer friend, and my larper friend have too. See I know these women, I spent many a high school party with them including the ghost hunter, I waitressed with cat yarner puppeteer, and I spent many a saturday night jello wrestling with larper. I only still see the larper regularly so I guess I really only know the other 2 pre getting old. Anyway, where I am going with this is I know I and I suspect them, wouldn't know how to meet men today. Times have changed. The old method of leaving your house doesn't work anymore. Larper might be on to something. I would expect a high rate of men, single men, there compared to women. Actually ghost hunter too. Bet most of those outings involve a lot of single men. I might not be giving their activities due credit. They very well might have sat down and thought where would single middle aged men be found. I don't really think it is who would we do, as much as who could we do.

Thanks, gorgeous!

thank you.
 
You pose an interesting question today, what would one do... the first thoughts that come to mind are obvious... but if it happened, the reality is maybe not so obvious... something to ponder on a rainy day!!!:rose::rose:

exactly. What would one really want, and how does one get there. It is harder to get to Z when you just accomplished A than one might think. Especially if you aren't even sure you want to get to Z. Maybe you want to get to *
 
exactly. What would one really want, and how does one get there. It is harder to get to Z when you just accomplished A than one might think. Especially if you aren't even sure you want to get to Z. Maybe you want to get to *

One must be adaptable, cause although you may want Z, maybe X is where you should be.. Well, at least I have something to ponder for the next while... Thank you...:rose::rose:
 
Your Friday ramble reminds me of how I feel about retirement. Is if freedom? True freedom is expensive.
 
One must be adaptable, cause although you may want Z, maybe X is where you should be.. Well, at least I have something to ponder for the next while... Thank you...:rose::rose:

very true, but when you have no idea, it becomes hard to take a step anywhere sometimes, I think. Luckily I am used to wandering around lost so eh.

Your Friday ramble reminds me of how I feel about retirement. Is if freedom? True freedom is expensive.

I could see that. And either it is very expensive or when you have absolutely nothing left to lose, I think.
 
oh side note. I forgot to mention that Woody says hi.
https://www.***********/s/mwxrofvvuhhx7hl/20200124_090124_001.mp4?dl=0

and Woody shares his opinion on my cat picture.
https://www.***********/s/8z80jz6kpq42prr/20200124_092418_001.mp4?dl=0

Stay tuned next week to find out if Woody comes back Monday.
 
oh side note. I forgot to mention that Woody says hi.
https://www.***********/s/mwxrofvvuhhx7hl/20200124_090124_001.mp4?dl=0

and Woody shares his opinion on my cat picture.
https://www.***********/s/8z80jz6kpq42prr/20200124_092418_001.mp4?dl=0

Stay tuned next week to find out if Woody comes back Monday.

Bird brained bird, for sure!
 
I’ll see your ramble and call with a ramble of my own.

That personal freedom disappears for men too. I came to being a father through an unplanned pregnancy at 24, she was 33 and separated from hubby and 3 other kids. I had no plan at that point and suddenly had to make some hard choices. I went back to school to have a chance at a better job, worked nights and went to school in the day for a while as we lived in my dad’s basement raising number 1 son. I chose to buckle down and aim to be a responsible person. That formed the basis of my life from there on out and I remained focused on the task of being a father, provider and planning for my kids future. I didn't have a plan beyond that and didn't look to develop my career, rather I took the safe reliable choices all the time. What I forgot about was planning for my future after kids and I think my wife did too.

So secretly enjoying the guilty pleasure of hanging out on Lit and seeing a bit of people’s lives that seem less boring is a bit of a balm against the mind numbing realization that you have become one of the rats in the maze of life pretending to yearn for a breakout but are absolutely terrified of it actually happening.

But then life does change and you will find that you have more freedom that you didn’t plan for. That realization didn't come until the kids (2) were safely out on their own and able to stand (mostly) on their own two feet. I was quite suddenly completely lost and to a certain extent still am. My wife decided to retire early to help deal with her aging parents 2000 miles away and leaves for several weeks, a few times a year for the past 2 years. She replaced one set of dependents for another. So while I have more alone time than you I don't have a way to spend that time that makes me happy. Don't think we are heading for divorce but this certainly isn't how I contemplated heading into retirement. I maybe do regret putting off some things that we could have done earlier but at the time it seemed like the smart (safe) decisions at the time.

What I have come to realize though, is that there is no point in thinking about your situation in terms of who you were or where you came from in the past. What I could have or should have done is irrelevant. Kudos to those that go out and try something new (larping, ghost hunting etc). I think they have at least made the decision to move forward with something and that is what I am trying to direct my energy toward now.
Yes it may be fun to think of those Jello wrestling days as maybe being more of who you really wished you were, but having a family and being responsible does change you and not necessarily in a bad way.

So the real question is not what would you do in a magical situation that will never happen, but what will you do now to make sure you are ready when freedom becomes a reality again.

However to answer your question- with no future consequences I would love to be involved in more group sex with people that just want to enjoy the moment and please each other (yes with both sexes).
 
I’ll see your ramble and call with a ramble of my own.

That personal freedom disappears for men too. I came to being a father through an unplanned pregnancy at 24, she was 33 and separated from hubby and 3 other kids. I had no plan at that point and suddenly had to make some hard choices. I went back to school to have a chance at a better job, worked nights and went to school in the day for a while as we lived in my dad’s basement raising number 1 son. I chose to buckle down and aim to be a responsible person. That formed the basis of my life from there on out and I remained focused on the task of being a father, provider and planning for my kids future. I didn't have a plan beyond that and didn't look to develop my career, rather I took the safe reliable choices all the time. What I forgot about was planning for my future after kids and I think my wife did too.

So secretly enjoying the guilty pleasure of hanging out on Lit and seeing a bit of people’s lives that seem less boring is a bit of a balm against the mind numbing realization that you have become one of the rats in the maze of life pretending to yearn for a breakout but are absolutely terrified of it actually happening.

But then life does change and you will find that you have more freedom that you didn’t plan for. That realization didn't come until the kids (2) were safely out on their own and able to stand (mostly) on their own two feet. I was quite suddenly completely lost and to a certain extent still am. My wife decided to retire early to help deal with her aging parents 2000 miles away and leaves for several weeks, a few times a year for the past 2 years. She replaced one set of dependents for another. So while I have more alone time than you I don't have a way to spend that time that makes me happy. Don't think we are heading for divorce but this certainly isn't how I contemplated heading into retirement. I maybe do regret putting off some things that we could have done earlier but at the time it seemed like the smart (safe) decisions at the time.

What I have come to realize though, is that there is no point in thinking about your situation in terms of who you were or where you came from in the past. What I could have or should have done is irrelevant. Kudos to those that go out and try something new (larping, ghost hunting etc). I think they have at least made the decision to move forward with something and that is what I am trying to direct my energy toward now.
Yes it may be fun to think of those Jello wrestling days as maybe being more of who you really wished you were, but having a family and being responsible does change you and not necessarily in a bad way.

So the real question is not what would you do in a magical situation that will never happen, but what will you do now to make sure you are ready when freedom becomes a reality again.

However to answer your question- with no future consequences I would love to be involved in more group sex with people that just want to enjoy the moment and please each other (yes with both sexes).

Now, I can agree with the more group sex concept as a todo item on the found freedom checklist.

And I am sure men do, I just see it more in women, because they are more likely to have that discussion with me I guess. I disagree a bit on the relevancy of the past. At least for myself. See, I have never been real great at identifying what I want. I jump in and find what I don't want, scratch it off the list, and jump again. So, the past will at least help me with I did or didn't scratch that item off the list.

Also, I don't think the real question is what will I do with freedom that will someday become a reality as there is a fairly decent chance it never will. In the past 2 years, I have had 4 friends die. In the past 3 months, I have had 1 friend die and 2 receive terminal diagnoses. They are my age and younger. While I still feel invincible, people are already starting to drop fast. Couple that with a number of my friends who were also counting down the days, then a teen comes back with a baby. Even the boy children aren't safe bets as they come back with a teen girl and a baby.

I think the better question is where can I find a bit of freedom and what will I do with the bit of freedom I can find at that moment. How to balance both the responsible goals and the irresponsible desires. At this moment, it is dick around here. For now anyway. I think at this point thinking about tomorrow might be a more constructive plan than counting down the next 11 years, or really 25 years, as I appreciate I am not promised those 25 years. Not saying exclude them entirely, just maybe not adding so much to that list.
 
Well, the things that are for sure are: You can’t change the past, so no use living or wallowing in it; and you never know what tomorrow might bring, so enjoy the day.

And on a lighter note, there are three things One should never turn down (male perspective): a good meal; a good glass of single malt; and a blow job. I am sure others have their own lists...

Enjoy your weekend and I hope you get some ‘me’ time.:rose::rose:
 

Leftovers. Hahaha. Very appetizing.

So on to a Friday ramble. This talk of location, as in relation to my pictures and videos, really has me thinking. I am the only regular ampic female with a young child who is fully alone in this activity, aren’t I? Like everyone else either has no kids or older kids, is single or has a spouse who isn’t usually annoyed, anger, or disturbed by their wife’s presence here. Sure, some I don’t know this for a fact, but there is a major difference evident in their pictures. Their pictures often reflect an active participant as a photographer, some pre-thought with fabulous locations, attire, or props. Every bit of participation here puts me at risk of another fight, or a situation I have to bullshit my way out of, or maybe a situation I can’t bullshit my way out of that time. Everything I do here is in a closet or back bathroom when heads are looking the other way. It is fast and in silence as sound might cause someone to turn their head. Every bathroom shot or shower shot is also spent listening for the moment someone walks in wanting something from me, despite my silence. Last time I was alone was 10 minutes on January 5th. Before that was 2 hours on December 19th, before that was the afternoon of November 18th when jury duty was released. I can’t remember before that. I guess technically I am kind of alone on my commute, but surrounded by people, of course. And any deviation or delay of my schedule will cause someone to be looking for me. At best I could steal 10 or 15 minutes from it. That isn’t even enough time to find a spot that is actually private, where I could be unseen and unheard.

Yeah, I do see a personal freedom here that makes me kind of jealous. Of course, if I actually had that freedom, I don’t think I’d be here at all. The internet has been used by me as a slice of freedom where I can’t physically do anything. I was on late at 1am with other woman who were up breast feeding or pumping like I was. All wanting to do something, but unable to, thus finding others who were all wanting to do something, but unable. To me, lit isn’t all that different. I tend to talk with those similar. Those using lit as a little substitute for the freedom that a part of them would like to experience but can't without risking the status quo. I think if I really had that freedom, I wouldn’t be here. Or would I?

See, one thing I have observed over and over again is women counting down the days. Maybe men are doing it to, and I just don’t know it. But it is women who are planning a divorce 2796 days from now. They have an idea in their head, when the last kid moves out, or 23 days after the last kids 16th birthday, or whatever. My last married to her kids’ father friend just *served her husband divorce papers. 23 days after New Years after the last kid turned 18. The extra days are plausible deniability that they had been planning it for 12 years. Not only all my friends, but my mother did it, her mother did it. But here is the thing, they have been counting so long, they don’t really have any idea what to do with the freedom they have gained. They have changed and the world has changed. Several ended up marrying a coworker rather fast, one started Ghost hunting, one knits outfits for her cats and puts on plays (I shit you not), another one has just started Larping with her newly found freedom. None of these women every discussed wanting to ghost hunt, cat puppeteer, or larp. I think they just can’t identify what to do. Afterall, they were now, and have been for years, one of the masses who give that blank look when asked things like “what do you like to do?” an “what are your hobbies?” There was never time or freedom for what you want to do anyway. I guess I honestly have no idea what I’d actually do if I had freedom to do what I want, as I am not sure what I’d want or how to find what I want. Maybe I’d end up joining my friend larping lol. I guess when a lone middle aged woman shows up at a Larping event, ask how her divorce is going and how her child is enjoying the newly found freedom of adulthood.

Obviously, I have no idea where I am going with this little ramble, beyond just being reminded that I am a little jealous of the personal freedom women often display here, but maybe I am not all that jealous because what would I do with it anyway lol.

What would you do If you could do anything you wanted to do today and it didn’t really impact tomorrow?

Freedom? I have very little myself. I get up at 4:30 to walk the dog, because he's old and has a weak bladder. After that, from 5 am until the next person get up, I'm free. On weekdays, that's until 5:45. Weekends and holidays, maybe 7am, not later than 8am. That's it. SO, I'm a little better off than you, but not much. That's when I do my writing, which is why it takes so long. (I have to stop coming to Lit first thing).

Too much freedom, as you point out can be dangerous. Larping eh? That sounds like marginally the least weird. Unless that includes lots of time drinking ale with wenches, in which case, it's definitely the least weird by a long shot. lol.

I've seen way too much of that "countdown" thing. It kind of astonishes me when it happens, because if the spouse gets no hint, certainly the friends get no hint either. And yes, men do it was well. A friend is waiting until after an upcoming vacation in Mexico so give her the good news. The difference is that I think men more often have their next partner waiting in the wings.

What would you do If you could do anything you wanted to do today and it didn’t really impact tomorrow?

Can I time travel back to get the one that got away?no? Hmm. I would give in to the woman who has been flirting with me for some time. Sadly, it's pretty obvious, even to someone as oblivious as me. That aside, I'd likely do something really decadent like spend the whole day in my workshop...
 
Well, the things that are for sure are: You can’t change the past, so no use living or wallowing in it; and you never know what tomorrow might bring, so enjoy the day.

And on a lighter note, there are three things One should never turn down (male perspective): a good meal; a good glass of single malt; and a blow job. I am sure others have their own lists...

Enjoy your weekend and I hope you get some ‘me’ time.:rose::rose:

Hum, is wifey on board with your never turn down a blowjob philosophy. I think it is a good one, but I know a lot of chicks would not be supportive of that plan.

Leftovers. Hahaha. Very appetizing.



Freedom? I have very little myself. I get up at 4:30 to walk the dog, because he's old and has a weak bladder. After that, from 5 am until the next person get up, I'm free. On weekdays, that's until 5:45. Weekends and holidays, maybe 7am, not later than 8am. That's it. SO, I'm a little better off than you, but not much. That's when I do my writing, which is why it takes so long. (I have to stop coming to Lit first thing).

Too much freedom, as you point out can be dangerous. Larping eh? That sounds like marginally the least weird. Unless that includes lots of time drinking ale with wenches, in which case, it's definitely the least weird by a long shot. lol.

I've seen way too much of that "countdown" thing. It kind of astonishes me when it happens, because if the spouse gets no hint, certainly the friends get no hint either. And yes, men do it was well. A friend is waiting until after an upcoming vacation in Mexico so give her the good news. The difference is that I think men more often have their next partner waiting in the wings.

What would you do If you could do anything you wanted to do today and it didn’t really impact tomorrow?

Can I time travel back to get the one that got away?no? Hmm. I would give in to the woman who has been flirting with me for some time. Sadly, it's pretty obvious, even to someone as oblivious as me. That aside, I'd likely do something really decadent like spend the whole day in my workshop...

Thank you.

And that is one great thing about a larged fenced property, I open the door and let the dog out.

And yeah, I thought the larping was odd at first but upon further thinking, it is a predominantly male hobby, and predominantly single males. I might actually mention it to cat sweater friend. I remember in her 20s, she had a special affinity for virgins. I thought it was odd, but she said she liked to be the one to train them to her liking. She is actually a bit older than I am but our friendship worked. We would throw parties and invite our friends which meant I invited a significant number of late teen/early 20s, and she invited a significant number of mid and late 20s, so we both had a pool of our preferred demographic. Anyway, point is, she might be able to find quite a few single middle aged males who are also virgins at larping events. And maybe she can knit herself a costume.

As for the countdown thing, i think there are usually hints. Many times the person said what they wanted for years, but it fell on deaf ears, because they didn't seem to do anything about their wants being ignored, and eventually they stopped asking and instead started the countdown list. Maybe there wasn't a strong recent warning, because the person long stopped trying to have things they wanted, and was just running down the clock, adding wants to the list. Like where you see a spouse who appears so amicable and agreeable to the point of almost saintly, and things seem to always go the way of the other's preference. The couple never fights. That is the biggest warning as the amicable one stopped asking for and fighting for what they wanted because they are just now counting down the days.

And sorry, no time travel. But flirty chick seems a reasonable thought. Kind of goes with the prior blowjob philosophy. Now, what would you make in the workshop if you spent the day there?
 
I admit it would be too. One of the biggest things I miss is screwing someone new. However, there is a big issue, probably the same issue all my coworker marrying friends, my Ghost hunter friend, my cat yarner puppeteer friend, and my larper friend have too. See I know these women, I spent many a high school party with them including the ghost hunter, I waitressed with cat yarner puppeteer, and I spent many a saturday night jello wrestling with larper. I only still see the larper regularly so I guess I really only know the other 2 pre getting old. Anyway, where I am going with this is I know I and I suspect them, wouldn't know how to meet men today. Times have changed. The old method of leaving your house doesn't work anymore. Larper might be on to something. I would expect a high rate of men, single men, there compared to women. Actually ghost hunter too. Bet most of those outings involve a lot of single men. I might not be giving their activities due credit. They very well might have sat down and thought where would single middle aged men be found. I don't really think it is who would we do, as much as who could we do.

Interesting, as I think most of us following this thread would think that with your looks you could do whomever you wanted. I suppose that doesn't mean you'd want to do whomever you normally cross paths with.
 
Hum, is wifey on board with your never turn down a blowjob philosophy. I think it is a good one, but I know a lot of chicks would not be supportive of that plan.



Thank you.

And that is one great thing about a larged fenced property, I open the door and let the dog out.

And yeah, I thought the larping was odd at first but upon further thinking, it is a predominantly male hobby, and predominantly single males. I might actually mention it to cat sweater friend. I remember in her 20s, she had a special affinity for virgins. I thought it was odd, but she said she liked to be the one to train them to her liking. She is actually a bit older than I am but our friendship worked. We would throw parties and invite our friends which meant I invited a significant number of late teen/early 20s, and she invited a significant number of mid and late 20s, so we both had a pool of our preferred demographic. Anyway, point is, she might be able to find quite a few single middle aged males who are also virgins at larping events. And maybe she can knit herself a costume.

As for the countdown thing, i think there are usually hints. Many times the person said what they wanted for years, but it fell on deaf ears, because they didn't seem to do anything about their wants being ignored, and eventually they stopped asking and instead started the countdown list. Maybe there wasn't a strong recent warning, because the person long stopped trying to have things they wanted, and was just running down the clock, adding wants to the list. Like where you see a spouse who appears so amicable and agreeable to the point of almost saintly, and things seem to always go the way of the other's preference. The couple never fights. That is the biggest warning as the amicable one stopped asking for and fighting for what they wanted because they are just now counting down the days.

And sorry, no time travel. But flirty chick seems a reasonable thought. Kind of goes with the prior blowjob philosophy. Now, what would you make in the workshop if you spent the day there?

I'm gonna make everyone go "Awww". I would finally yet around to building my grandson his own workbench, 2/3 the size of mine. I have designed one that will grow with him.

Back to your perving!

Oh, and tor my Canadian Brother, when you hit 60, never pass a bathroom, never trust a fart and never waste a hard-on
 
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Interesting, as I think most of us following this thread would think that with your looks you could do whomever you wanted. I suppose that doesn't mean you'd want to do whomever you normally cross paths with.

it is not as easy as one might think. I think today's man needs flowers and wining and dining and romance or whatever.

I'm gonna make everyone go "Awww". I would finally yet around to building my grandson his own workbench, 2/3 the size of mine. I have designed one that will grow with him.

Back to your perving!

Oh, and tor my Canadian Brother, when you hit 60, never pass a bathroom, never trust a fart and never waste a hard-on

awww. My kid actually just uses a standard table. Of course, not like I am letting him use the band saw. Honestly, even I won't use the band saw. I blame my 6th grade industrial arts teacher. 10 year old me was happy enough to take the course until I met the teacher. The man in charge of teaching me to use this equipment safely was missing several fingers. Now I don't know for a fact that he lost them on shop equipment, but that was enough for me. My standard is how fast and easily could a tool remove a finger. If it is a yes it could do it in one fast move, I am a big nope.

so yeah, band saw, big nope, for both me and kid lol

https://i.imgur.com/RWG8e8n.gif

nope, nope, nope
 
in other news, I am excited to see the new Florida Department of Education's BEST standards and hope

https://www.fox13news.com/news/desa...-s-t-standards-floridas-answer-to-common-core


not only will it give some money to the schools, and more freedom to the teachers, but by 2022, it should give me back an extra 10 hours a week. I spend 4 to 10 hours a week forcing my kid to draw arrays or circles after arrays of circles because arriving at the correct answer in mathematics is no longer relevant. You must constantly use standard eureka math arrays and draw them for every problem, whether you need to or not. knowing the answer and demonstrating knowledge is not enough. I can't even make up an answer of why he must spend so much time drawing circle after circle after circle, ad nauseam, when none of the circles are needed and you doesn't need to draw it for the 5000th time this month to prove he could. I don't think it is confusing, but I do think it is crazy to make something simple take 10 times as long then repeat it 20 times a day everyday for years simply because someone somewhere said so years ago. It will be nice to see the answer matter again. And they will be permitted to teach and allow students to use cursive. Cursive has so many advantages for teaching dysgraphic, dyslexic, ADHD, and even just young students. Overall, it is just more efficient as well. It will be nice to see kids permitted to use it again. I am not really a Desantis fan, well any politician, and when I must pick, I tend to lean republican, but I am a fan of anyone in gives me an extra 10 hours a week.

we also have florida woman walking around the airport naked. ah florida woman
https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/community/miami-dade/article239310353.html

and florida man crashing cars while dress as the easter bunny
https://www.kiro7.com/news/trending...rash-troopers-say/ZIX54JLGQNBHVDGF3I2GXK2DQ4/

fyi, he was also the fighting easter bunny last year
https://www.wftv.com/news/local/eas...s-during-fight-in-downtown-orlando/942303529/


ok, florida man wins today, but florida woman gets props for being hot and walking outside and sitting on the patrol car because she could.
 
Thanks for starting my Saturday off wonderfully. Those slippery boobs look like so much fun to play with

You are quite welcome. I don't actually play with them a lot in the shower.

This is worthy of Dribble's pic of the week. Yes.

Thanks. I think the black and white made it more impactful.

Enjoying you enjoying your shower :devil:... very sexy posts ;)

I do enjoy my showers. Glad you do too.
 
You are quite welcome. I don't actually play with them a lot in the shower.



Thanks. I think the black and white made it more impactful.



I do enjoy my showers. Glad you do too.

True...but it is the way you looked around your arm. The smile. The eye. The way your hair fell. Perfect. Seriously perfect. It belongs in a book.
 
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