Daily Tasks

[Oubliette123]

Was wondering if anyone (sub) has daily tasks set for them and if so what sort of tasks?

Kind of looking for some idea's for when myself and my OH are apart.

 

[loneranger8921]

As a Dom I have set different tasks for my subs at different times.
1 wear matching panties and bra.
2 nails done
3 keep your pussy shaved at all times.
4 on weekend getaways only allowed dresses
5 apply lipstick while in my presence
These rules have been applied at one time or another to my submissive and to have them repealed she must beg and give a good reason.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Go commando
Wear ben wa balls
Wear butt plugs
Remain unshaved (until he can do it)
Photo tasks
Orgasm denial
Purchase (and use) of specific items
Wear clothes picked by him

 

[Oubliette123]

Thank you for your replies. I am to be set 5 daily tasks (not necessary BDSM related) as of tomorrow. I find it VERY exciting that he can have a degree of control over me while I am away.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Thank you for your replies. I am to be set 5 daily tasks (not necessary BDSM related) as of tomorrow. I find it VERY exciting that he can have a degree of control over me while I am away.

Lol, wait until he starts with the Dom style jedi mind tricks! Orgasm through mind control seems a perennial favourite. And that can happen with a quick command.... Anywhere (even tesco!). enjoy!

 

[Oubliette123]

Lol, wait until he starts with the Dom style jedi mind tricks! Orgasm through mind control seems a perennial favourite. And that can happen with a quick command.... Anywhere (even tesco!). enjoy!

Oh my!

 

[Netzach]

get my coffee
feed the cat in the am when he's bouncing off our heads
get my coffee again
endure my rants at whatever
end her rants in traffic when I say "stop kvetching already, Jesus."
maker of salads (I don't enjoy this)
washer of dishes (this too)

 

[Oubliette123]

get my coffee
feed the cat in the am when he's bouncing off our heads
get my coffee again
endure my rants at whatever
end her rants in traffic when I say "stop kvetching already, Jesus."
maker of salads (I don't enjoy this)
washer of dishes (this too)

Thank you Netzach This is allowing us to feel closer to each other while I am away. He keeps a little black book to rack up the misdemeanour's for when we are together.

 

[gretchenmilliner]

Providing that a female sub does not subscribe to a religion that already imposes these ordering a mixture of the following can form a really daunting and demeaning task:

When mistress / master is not present:

The slave must not wear any makeup up, nail-polish, hair extensions, false eyelashes etc., etc., that are visible. Similarly the slave must not apply any perfumed product. The only creams permitted are medications and suntan lotion.

The only jewellery permitted a slave are simple gold studs to keep piercings open, an engagement ring, a wedding ring and tokens of status (see below).

A slave may only wear loose fitting clothes that always include a skirt or a dress that falls below the knee and flat, preferably lace up, shoes.

A slave must wear a plain headscarf tied, so far as is possible, to hide the hair but not to cover the head.

The idea is that only the slave's mistress / master will know how beautiful the slave really is and pay her any sexual attention.



Couple the task described above with a second task imposed by ordering one or more of the following and you have a drab exterior hiding a slave that is well prepared.

The slave must keep themselves free of all body hair except for the scalp, the eyelashes and the eyebrows.

The slave must not wear any underwear that covers the slot of their sex or their nipples, large busted slaves may wear a peep hole bra or a normal bra adapted so that the nipples remain uncovered.

The slave must keep their nipples and labia pot-rouged at all times.

The slave must always keep their anal sphincter well greased.

The slave must always wear stockings and suspenders, knee socks or go bare legged.

The slave must wear one, or more, tokens of status: as examples, an ankle bracelet engraved with 'property of name of mistress / master ' or a wristlet engraved 'enslave to name of mistress / master '. A discrete gold necklace with the letters BDSM fitted as a pendant is quite good fun, mistresses / masters be sensible and buy a longish chain.


A third task associated with these is the slave greeting her mistress / master.

On meeting her mistress / master the slave must bend over, not too low, and raise the hem of her dress or skirt and open their mouth wide so that if their mistress / master is in urgent need of pleasure they can avail themselves of which ever orifice they wish. Alternatively if the slave has transgressed the mistress / master can administer some instant correction. Another variation is for the slave to strip naked before they greet their mistress / master: having to place their clothes in a locker which only their mistress / master has the key for adds a little spice too.

Once the mistress / master has finished with any urgent business the slave must go and shower, bathe, scent themselves, make themselves up and arrange their hair and don any clothes that have been put out for them so that their mistress / master can appreciate their full beauty.

 

[Oubliette123]

Providing that a female sub does not subscribe to a religion that already imposes these ordering a mixture of the following can form a really daunting and demeaning task:

When mistress / master is not present:

The slave must not wear any makeup up, nail-polish, hair extensions, false eyelashes etc., etc., that are visible. Similarly the slave must not apply any perfumed product. The only creams permitted are medications and suntan lotion.

The only jewellery permitted a slave are simple gold studs to keep piercings open, an engagement ring, a wedding ring and tokens of status (see below).

A slave may only wear loose fitting clothes that always include a skirt or a dress that falls below the knee and flat, preferably lace up, shoes.

A slave must wear a plain headscarf tied, so far as is possible, to hide the hair but not to cover the head.

The idea is that only the slave's mistress / master will know how beautiful the slave really is and pay her any sexual attention.



Couple the task described above with a second task imposed by ordering one or more of the following and you have a drab exterior hiding a slave that is well prepared.

The slave must keep themselves free of all body hair except for the scalp, the eyelashes and the eyebrows.

The slave must not wear any underwear that covers the slot of their sex or their nipples, large busted slaves may wear a peep hole bra or a normal bra adapted so that the nipples remain uncovered.

The slave must keep their nipples and labia pot-rouged at all times.

The slave must always keep their anal sphincter well greased.

The slave must always wear stockings and suspenders, knee socks or go bare legged.

The slave must wear one, or more, tokens of status: as examples, an ankle bracelet engraved with 'property of name of mistress / master ' or a wristlet engraved 'enslave to name of mistress / master '. A discrete gold necklace with the letters BDSM fitted as a pendant is quite good fun, mistresses / masters be sensible and buy a longish chain.


A third task associated with these is the slave greeting her mistress / master.

On meeting her mistress / master the slave must bend over, not too low, and raise the hem of her dress or skirt and open their mouth wide so that if their mistress / master is in urgent need of pleasure they can avail themselves of which ever orifice they wish. Alternatively if the slave has transgressed the mistress / master can administer some instant correction. Another variation is for the slave to strip naked before they greet their mistress / master: having to place their clothes in a locker which only their mistress / master has the key for adds a little spice too.

Once the mistress / master has finished with any urgent business the slave must go and shower, bathe, scent themselves, make themselves up and arrange their hair and don any clothes that have been put out for them so that their mistress / master can appreciate their full beauty.

Thank you very much for your input, some fab ideas there

 

[eric60red]

Was wondering if anyone (sub) has daily tasks set for them and if so what sort of tasks?

Kind of looking for some idea's for when myself and my OH are apart.

You have already had some good ideas from the posts, there are lots of daily tasks, one have to use ones imagination. One that I use, is for my sub to write in long hand, 100 times some thing like "I must learn to do as I am told."
she can not use computer and when away she must scan it and email it to me.

 

[Oubliette123]

You have already had some good ideas from the posts, there are lots of daily tasks, one have to use ones imagination. One that I use, is for my sub to write in long hand, 100 times some thing like "I must learn to do as I am told."
she can not use computer and when away she must scan it and email it to me.

Thank you Eric, I like this idea (I think he will too). My master has already asked me to write my feelings about the tasks I have been set today, in letter form and to post it snail mail. Sometimes life can be too simple with so much technology, its nice to get back to basics once in a while. Also means I have to revisit the tasks in my head-which after this morning will be a heady thing to do!

 

[Inflicto]

As a dom I think its a good idea to have lets say daily tasks. Some tasks should be progressive such as telling the sub they should grow their hair a certain way and length. Other tasks can be daily, such as one day telling your sub to wear pegs on their nipples for 10 minutes when they wake up in the morning, the next day it could be something different like running a pinwheel down their breasts 5 times each. The imagination is the only limit..

 

[eric60red]

Thank you Eric, I like this idea (I think he will too). My master has already asked me to write my feelings about the tasks I have been set today, in letter form and to post it snail mail. Sometimes life can be too simple with so much technology, its nice to get back to basics once in a while. Also means I have to revisit the tasks in my head-which after this morning will be a heady thing to do!

You are most welcome, the main point is that you are happy with the tasks that master sets, but not all masters are the same, some do have a very mean streak.

 

[Oubliette123]

As a dom I think its a good idea to have lets say daily tasks. Some tasks should be progressive such as telling the sub they should grow their hair a certain way and length. Other tasks can be daily, such as one day telling your sub to wear pegs on their nipples for 10 minutes when they wake up in the morning, the next day it could be something different like running a pinwheel down their breasts 5 times each. The imagination is the only limit..

 

[Oubliette123]

You are most welcome, the main point is that you are happy with the tasks that master sets, but not all masters are the same, some do have a very mean streak.

He is testing me today, thats for sure

 

[eric60red]

He is testing me today, thats for sure

Good, by testing he can learn find out if you have been paying attention.

 

[pedal_dew]

tasks, and other things

I see a difference between tasks and other things. I'm not sure what you call those other things, my experience being somewhat limited. But I'm referring to following specific rules and rituals that are laid down by the dominant one, a friend from HS days. I see them as different than tasks.

In my relationship to my dominant person, she does give me tasks, which has become a fun part of our play. Each task is a separate assignment, usually to be performed when we are not together, so it extends our play, making me continue to focus on her even though we are not actually playing in the moment.

As an example, a recent task was to draw a picture of my belly button (I know it may sound funny, and I'm embarrassed to tell about it) using only pencil. I used a mirror, and it was pretty difficult, although I consider myself not a bad artist. It took me a number of "sittings" to finish it. When we met on Friday, I presented it to her. She was delighted with it, and said I must have worked hard to do it. I was so happy that she liked it.

Naturally, I have another task for the next time we meet. It's even more difficult, but I'm working on it, eager to see her reaction. In the moments that I'm working it, I think of her, which is such a delight for me.

 

[Oubliette123]

I see a difference between tasks and other things. I'm not sure what you call those other things, my experience being somewhat limited. But I'm referring to following specific rules and rituals that are laid down by the dominant one, a friend from HS days. I see them as different than tasks.

In my relationship to my dominant person, she does give me tasks, which has become a fun part of our play. Each task is a separate assignment, usually to be performed when we are not together, so it extends our play, making me continue to focus on her even though we are not actually playing in the moment.

As an example, a recent task was to draw a picture of my belly button (I know it may sound funny, and I'm embarrassed to tell about it) using only pencil. I used a mirror, and it was pretty difficult, although I consider myself not a bad artist. It took me a number of "sittings" to finish it. When we met on Friday, I presented it to her. She was delighted with it, and said I must have worked hard to do it. I was so happy that she liked it.

Naturally, I have another task for the next time we meet. It's even more difficult, but I'm working on it, eager to see her reaction. In the moments that I'm working it, I think of her, which is such a delight for me.

Hi Pedal-Dew,

Yes, you hit the nail on the head. My daily tasks are mostly made up of non BDSM things (he is saving those by keeping a record of what I fail at and racking up punishment for when we see each other). The things he asks me to do can be quite mundane, but because I am naturally a day dreamy artistic type I find it hard to focus sometimes, and his direction helps alot. It could be letter writing, daily drawing (I am an art student), making a phone call. Today I have lines to write out as yesterday I failed at one of my tasks. There are usually 5 tasks a day.

The punishment points are written down (in his black book) as strikes-whether its the crop, his hand or whatever. He is very strict with this and will give strikes for things like typo's, not completing something or not doing it on time.

So, even though the things I am having to do seem quite 'normal' they do have me focusing on him completely (which is what is intended). However, today I have to draw a leather coated man with a whip....oh my its a horny picture-thats gonna have me thinking of him for sure!

 

[seela]

My tasks are pretty simple.

1) I have to do something that makes me proud and happy every day. It doesn't have to be a big thing, but as long as there's at least one thing every day that I can look back to and think that yeah, that's great, I've fulfilled my task.

2) I have to eat fruit and/or berries on breakfast.

Then there's the cooking, cleaning, groceries thing.

When we were long distance, I also had a standing order to wear something red every day.

 

[Oubliette123]

My tasks are pretty simple.

1) I have to do something that makes me proud and happy every day. It doesn't have to be a big thing, but as long as there's at least one thing every day that I can look back to and think that yeah, that's great, I've fulfilled my task.

Those seem to be my hardest tasks to complete, the ones he knows that will push a bit of my personality, like confidence in myself for example. But when I have done them, and I look back and can see why he chose them it does make me feel proud

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Last few hours of orgasm denial, woot woot!

 

[eric60red]

Last few hours of orgasm denial, woot woot!

Yes but its so fulfilling, when the release is given, you know you like it

 

[knot_sweet]

For future reference...

When I was involved in a long distance BDSM relationship, I had a toilet schedule.
I'd have to measure my urine output when I went on the scheduled hour, and report it to him, along with the colour. Photos were the easiest way to achieve this. If I missed my window, I'd have to ask permission to go.
It was for my own benefit...I'm notorious for letting myself exist in a more or less permanent state of mild dehydration.

I was only allowed to orgasm once a day, and without any type of penetration. He would tell me when to go play, I would have to do it and call him when I was cumming so he could hear me. It didn't matter when or where (exceptions being circumstances that are socially inappropriate like at my child's daycare, or when my work circumstances did not allow this to be possible).

Sometimes he'd give me little challenges, like flirt with a barrista, or get a guy's phone number at a bar. Again, in hindsight for my benefit as I'm not particularly comfortable with my feminine side.

It just depends on what sorts of things turn you both on. Practically anything can be turned into D/s with the right mental attitude.

Good luck and have fun next time you're apart.