Daddy Play

[Bobbiebi]

I posted this in another forum and got little response. Perhaps this is the correct one.

My lady and I are interested in Daddy/Baby girl play. We have been in the bdsm scene for a couple of years. She is generally the dominant in this play but is interested in being the baby girl in this.
I've tried to do a bit of research into this on the web, but really can't get to square 1.
I would appeciate any advice or suggestions as my lady is VERY important to me and I do want to please her, but with me in the commanding role for once.

Bobbie

 

[Mr. Bootie]

I'm not sure about the scene.

However, I have found it to be highly erotic in private. I've also found out that how you set it up to be highly erotic. Seems that their are a lot of "little girls" that like to play with thier "daddies"

Good Luck in your search.

 

[DuckLover]

I posted this in another forum and got little response. Perhaps this is the correct one.

My lady and I are interested in Daddy/Baby girl play. We have been in the bdsm scene for a couple of years. She is generally the dominant in this play but is interested in being the baby girl in this.
I've tried to do a bit of research into this on the web, but really can't get to square 1.
I would appeciate any advice or suggestions as my lady is VERY important to me and I do want to please her, but with me in the commanding role for once.

Bobbie

You might start in the stories section of Lit, specifically the incest section. There you will find many daddy/daughter stories which may help you create a scene with your wife. (I am hoping and assuming that the daughter role will be that of a sexually developed daughter and not a true child... you won't find much support for the latter.)

Another option is to use the search function (button in the upper right corner) to find pre-existing threads on this topic. Try searching with daddy/daughter, father/daughter, and incest fantasy as keywords.

 

[Bobbiebi]

Please be assured that this is very much adult consensual play. The idea of paedophilia is repugnent to me. Thanks very much for the guide posts. My lady and I are grateful

 

[MissTaken]

Please be assured that this is very much adult consensual play. The idea of paedophilia is repugnent to me. Thanks very much for the guide posts. My lady and I are grateful

Daddy play does not necessarily equate to any incestuous thoughts. For many subs, the Dominant takes on the role of "Daddy" in the sense that He or She brings structure, nurturance and love to the submissive who has the responsibility of a child. Again! This is not to equate Daddy play to incest in any way.

As with anything new, I would suggest moving in small steps. Perhaps taking an evening of role play in which your wife is directed to serve "Daddy."

"Bring Daddy a drink. Rub Daddy's neck."

I would strongly suggest not referring to yourself as "Your Daddy needs a glass of wine." That can, in the beginning, add to confusing a grey line in the play.

To continue, at some point, you may feel comfortable telling her that "Daddy's " cock needs attention or whatever your fantasy suggest.

Best wishes,

 

[X6QvQ9X]

Daddy's girl

I am an adult woman, and the older i get the more i truly enjoy reverting to being a "brat" with my man.

I think it is sexy and sweet if two consenting adults want to play roles that would be taboo in life. Being intimate and loving together, with my man even more than the master then.

Me in a tee shirt with panties and socks drives my D/daddy wild with imaginative lust. And, what man doesn't dream of his lady whining for his lollypop. Such rituals and and play are reasons for lengthy discussions sprinkled with erotic discipline in our home.

There are many wonderful caring things two adults can share when they play house. I have personally not felt more loved by my man as when he is playing my Daddy.

JMHO

 

[s'lara]

i think the term Daddy is endearing, but am uncomfortable with it. i've never used the term and for me, it isn't something i'll ever be comfortable with.

As for the Daddy play, my own preferences were not along these lines. i am sure it is fulfilling for those who find it arousing to have this kind of interaction. Good luck Bobbie.

lara

 

[lilredwolph]

i think the term Daddy is endearing, but am uncomfortable with it. i've never used the term and for me, it isn't something i'll ever be comfortable with.

As for the Daddy play, my own preferences were not along these lines. i am sure it is fulfilling for those who find it arousing to have this kind of interaction. Good luck Bobbie.

lara

you sound just like i did a few months back. the thought of calling somebody other than my birth father Daddy sent chills up my spine. "Daddy" play did nothing for me at all, then i met Him... in our first session i was told this is phase 1 during it you will call Me Sir or Master, ok i could do that yes Sir no Sir. than after about an hour of phase 1 i felt something change, low and behold we were entering phase 2, at which point i was told now you will call me Daddy, and to be totally honest with you it just came out of my mouth naturally, it felt natural i said over and over that night with without missing a beat.

it was something about Him and His dominance over me that made it feel ok and natural. will i ever be able to call anyone else Daddy, i don't know but i won't say never like i used to

 

[s'lara]

you sound just like i did a few months back. the thought of calling somebody other than my birth father Daddy sent chills up my spine. "Daddy" play did nothing for me at all, then i met Him... in our first session i was told this is phase 1 during it you will call Me Sir or Master, ok i could do that yes Sir no Sir. than after about an hour of phase 1 i felt something change, low and behold we were entering phase 2, at which point i was told now you will call me Daddy, and to be totally honest with you it just came out of my mouth naturally, it felt natural i said over and over that night with without missing a beat.

it was something about Him and His dominance over me that made it feel ok and natural. will i ever be able to call anyone else Daddy, i don't know but i won't say never like i used to

i think i can comfortably say i won't ever be at ease calling someone else Daddy. If i were ordered to do so? Yes. But feel comfortable doing it? No. Sounds like you overcame a personal limit lil. That's always something to be proud of in my book.

Cheers,

lara

 

[Richard49]

Though I am not limited to Daddy play
I find that it can be a real high

 

[lilredwolph]

i think i can comfortably say i won't ever be at ease calling someone else Daddy. If i were ordered to do so? Yes. But feel comfortable doing it? No. Sounds like you overcame a personal limit lil. That's always something to be proud of in my book.

Cheers,

lara

i truely don't believe i overcame a limit, because it was never a limit if i was told to do it i did it, i have to believe it was just a matter of meeting the right Person

 

[s'lara]

i truely don't believe i overcame a limit, because it was never a limit if i was told to do it i did it, i have to believe it was just a matter of meeting the right Person

The "personal limit" i was referring to was your ability to be at ease using the word in a way that felt natural to you. That, to me, is overcoming a personal limitation. Your comfortably using the term may have had something to do with meeting the right Person, but it had everything to do with you breaking through a barrier to acceptance and assimilation. In any event, it sounds like the result was a good experience for you.

lara

 

[Meat Whistler]

Though I am not limited to Daddy play
I find that it can be a real high

I'm with you! It can be so erotic and tons of fun!

 

[Richard49]

I'm with you! It can be so erotic and tons of fun!

Shall we play my little daughter?

 

[Quint]

MissT had some very fun ideas. I don't know how pain-based your relationship is, but in mine, the threat of punishment is a big part of the appeal.

"Do this for Daddy, sweetheart. I don't care that you don't want it. Stop being a brat--you don't want me to get out the fucking belt, do you?"

It's incestuous without so much as touching my relationship with my real father, who is nothing at all like the role. Hence my enjoyment.