Daddy Fetish

[peachesmelba]

FWIW, I don't think you're a bitch. You called it like you saw it.

My two cents:
Being the victim of not one, but two sexual assaults before the age of puberty, nothing disheartens me more than seeing something like this. If you enjoyed it, fine. If it caught you off-guard, fine. Just please, don't misrepresent your feelings about the situation in hopes of garnering false sympathy.

When I read the first post about it, my heart sank. I could feel the pain and anguish I suffered flooding back, as another person has had to deal with it now. The pain is something I'll never fully get over, and having it being brought back to my attention was a bit much.

"Two myself - one at gunpoint - one by being beaten nearly senseless first. I was older but no, you never really get over it you survive it and you go on. Hugs to you!"

 

[Cookie123]

"You need LOTS little sister - like the man said in the movie - "Just set the damn thing on fire!" (James Garner - Sally Field: Murphy's Romance)

Girl, you're not THAT much older than me....I'm sure Daddy is much, much older!

 

[peachesmelba]

Peaches, didn't we just go to bed??!! What are you doing awake?

~realizing my status in the house..sucking the words back in~

"I did but then I laid there thinking and I had to get up - now I'm falling asleep at the laptop again so time to go back to bed again and try again. I love you little sister! Get some sleep and have sweet dreams."

 

[Cookie123]

"Two myself - one at gunpoint - one by being beaten nearly senseless first. I was older but no, you never really get over it you survive it and you go on. Hugs to you!"

Another reason Thursday is special! He is finally going to serve his sentence for what he did to me. He'll be reminded of me, what he did, every time he passes through a metal detector. Unless he finds a doctor willing to take it out.

 

[Cookie123]

"I did but then I laid there thinking and I had to get up - now I'm falling asleep at the laptop again so time to go back to bed again and try again. I love you little sister! Get some sleep and have sweet dreams."

We'll talk tomorrow.. sweet dreams! I love you too!

 

[peachesmelba]

Girl, you're not THAT much older than me....I'm sure Daddy is much, much older!

"Wanna bet?......Just set the damn thing on fire!"

 

[Cookie123]

"Wanna bet?......Just set the damn thing on fire!"

Big sister, Daddy is definitely older! I think he invented paper..

I'll just make a sheet cake, decorate it with images and icing designs of some of your favorite things.. (Rain drops of roses..whiskers on kittens) and have as many candles as I need to spell your first name... all 5 letters. Soo...you will be..28 or 29!. Not open for further discussion!

 

[tiedtits4me]

I agree! That is why it got under my thick skin so much!! Crying wolf....

Yeah exactly

It is nice to have some back up on this, Hayley. Usually, I'm the Lone Bitch.

I'm sorry that you went through what you touched on earlier. I've been there,.done that and no post cards were sent. I'm not a victim..I survived.

Well i'm glad I spoke up then.

Thank you. Exactly

FWIW, I don't think you're a bitch. You called it like you saw it.

My two cents:
Being the victim of not one, but two sexual assaults before the age of puberty, nothing disheartens me more than seeing something like this. If you enjoyed it, fine. If it caught you off-guard, fine. Just please, don't misrepresent your feelings about the situation in hopes of garnering false sympathy.

When I read the first post about it, my heart sank. I could feel the pain and anguish I suffered flooding back, as another person has had to deal with it now. The pain is something I'll never fully get over, and having it being brought back to my attention was a bit much.

*hugs*

(This is what happens when someone keeps me up past my bedtime! Love you too little sister!)

As someone else who is a survivor I too have no sympathy for those who cry wolf - as you said Hayley, because so many lie later about things they initially enjoyed, those of us who actually survive the worst seldom report it - the police don't believe you and want to talk about what you did to 'deserve' what happened to you - no one DESERVES to be raped or sexually molested and there's a huge difference Justine between the fantasy and staring down the barrel of a .38 and knowing you will do whatever you have to do to survive the next few hours and get home to your children. If you enjoyed it and it was relatively harmless that's swell - be proud of it and don't pretend it was anything other than what it was

*hugs as well*

Another reason Thursday is special! He is finally going to serve his sentence for what he did to me. He'll be reminded of me, what he did, every time he passes through a metal detector. Unless he finds a doctor willing to take it out.

Wow so glad to hear that Cookie. My court case starts in two months. Wether he gets away with it or not will be seen (I have him in tape admitting more then once that I said no and stop it) but I had to stand up for myself and say it was wrong. I couldn't for lots of things in my childhood but this I could and he already thinks of me every week when he has to check in at the police station.

 

[INeedLove]

Hi daddies and girls. Wow, this thread moves at warp speed some days. LOL. Extra big hugs to Hayley, Peaches, Photo and Cookie. Unwanted touches and assaults are devastating and serious matters. I don't see you as a bitch Cookie--you are more of a protective force.

Does someone have a birthday approaching??

 

[tiedtits4me]

Hi daddies and girls. Wow, this thread moves at warp speed some days. LOL. Extra big hugs to Hayley, Peaches, Photo and Cookie. Unwanted touches and assaults are devastating and serious matters. I don't see you as a bitch Cookie--you are more of a protective force.

Does someone have a birthday approaching??

And some days it doesn't move at all. Funny thing.

I think they do INL.

*hugs back* I hope you have a great day

 

[Sugarbunny096]

Good morning everyone.

 

[horny4incest]

Good morning all my little girls! i hope your all going to behave today.

 

[stan_man13]

Girl, you're not THAT much older than me....I'm sure Daddy is much, much older!

That may or may not play a roll in why you love me so.

I'm saddened to hear that so many little girls from here have been abused. It sickens me. If I had any say in the justice system, there would be a lot of eunuchs running around with a little tube sticking out of their pants and "offender" tattooed across their forehead.

Cookie, one trait I love about you is calling bull shit when you see it. Love you little girl!

 

[photograph]

Thank you for the hugs everyone.

Mine all happened almost 2 decades ago. I've had a long time to carry the scars, learn how to cover them up.

One of the offenders did pay for what he did to me. Not long enough though. He was sentenced to 10 years, only served 4. Ended up marrying another woman with kids, despite his record. At least they were boys and not girls.

The second offender never did pay for what he did. No one believed me the first time around(since it was my father's brother), except my mother. The second time around, it was my step-father, and my own mother didn't believe me, so he got away with it. I just dealt with it until I was old enough to decide I didn't want him in my life and avoided him at all costs. I still do.

I have two little girls of my own now. No one quite understands why I am so leery of them being alone with any male, even family. Then again, no one has tried to understand. It's one of those things my family has so desperately tried to sweep under the rug.

 

[tiedtits4me]

That may or may not play a roll in why you love me so.

I'm saddened to hear that so many little girls from here have been abused. It sickens me. If I had any say in the justice system, there would be a lot of eunuchs running around with a little tube sticking out of their pants and "offender" tattooed across their forehead.

Cookie, one trait I love about you is calling bull shit when you see it. Love you little girl!

It's sad isn't it. So is how they go about prosecuting. The victim is put on trial not the rapist.
I read somewhere that if you were a victim of a hold up they wouldn't ask you questions like well did you ask for it? You wanted to be robbed didn't you? The way you dressed was just asking for it?
Yet in cases of rape that's what happens.
So pathetic

 

[stan_man13]

It's sad isn't it. So is how they go about prosecuting. The victim is put on trial not the rapist.
I read somewhere that if you were a victim of a hold up they wouldn't ask you questions like well did you ask for it? You wanted to be robbed didn't you? The way you dressed was just asking for it?
Yet in cases of rape that's what happens.
So pathetic

I'm amazed defense attorneys still use that approach. All that has been been proven false by psychiatry some 30 years ago. It's not a crime of passion but a felony assault of one weak minded soon to be eunuch exerting power and control over an innocent. Bet they don't use that defense on a 94 year rape victim that was assaulted in her own house. (Is the example I recall)

I can't quite recall the joke comparing defense lawyers and toilet paper....

 

[peachesmelba]

Thank you for the hugs everyone.

Mine all happened almost 2 decades ago. I've had a long time to carry the scars, learn how to cover them up.

One of the offenders did pay for what he did to me. Not long enough though. He was sentenced to 10 years, only served 4. Ended up marrying another woman with kids, despite his record. At least they were boys and not girls.

The second offender never did pay for what he did. No one believed me the first time around(since it was my father's brother), except my mother. The second time around, it was my step-father, and my own mother didn't believe me, so he got away with it. I just dealt with it until I was old enough to decide I didn't want him in my life and avoided him at all costs. I still do.

I have two little girls of my own now. No one quite understands why I am so leery of them being alone with any male, even family. Then again, no one has tried to understand. It's one of those things my family has so desperately tried to sweep under the rug.

Oh yes - the 'conspiracy of lies' that covers up for the family abuser be they male or female, physical, sexual or mental - or an alcoholic or addict - and makes it your fault for not 'keeping the peace'. What a crock! There's an excellent reason why I no longer speak to my birth family - and why the family members I have chosen over the years are closer and more supportive than any blood relative I had.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I will not share my experience in detail.
A. I have never really discussed it. What happened, happened. My father offered to call the police, but there were so many involved, and nothing actually "happened" that I told him to let it go. We were all young, and they were stupid. I chalk it up to that. I am thankful I am a quick talker and despite only being 5'2" can raise my hackles if needed and a least seem a bit scarier than I really am.
B. Despite this being an "anonymous" forum, I tend to think I am all over the place here. (not exactly trying to hide, if you catch my drift) If I thought my story would help someone in any way, I'd have said something a long time ago.

I'd never confuse unwanted with wanted, either. I'll be the first to admit, I can't wait til I have a Daddy who loves me enough and is proud enough, AND CONFIDENT enough in me and my love for HIM that he might enjoy a little playdate with someone else. But the key to this scenario (for me anyway) is you have Daddy there to protect. You always belong to one Daddy, and if both of you don't agree to it, then it's a NO-GO. Daddy will not make you do anything he does not think you are prepared to handle.. PERIOD.

People who think they can take whatever they want by force or fear are a different breed.They should be punished. Even though I did nothing wrong, I can still see how I might have been made out to be deserving of what happened. I recall after the fact that one of the boys MOTHERS made comments all over town about how I was one of the only girls out there that night, and she could only imagine what I was doing with all those "boys"..
I was like, are you kidding me? I played football with these "boys" for years...I shot slingshots and climbed trees with these boys for years.. NOTHING gave them the right to do what they did, and I had NO way of knowing I was "putting myself" at risk with guys I'd grown up with.. Yet, this woman found some way to exonerate her child's behavior at my expense.

Whatever..#irritated at the gaul of some people...

In any event, I'm very protective both of myself and others.(big D'OH there ) I hope all the littles know that they can confide in me about anything. I'm hear to listen, and will offer advice if I can and it's asked for. I'm leery of men in general because intentions are never really clear. I'm bolder when I have Daddy around, and if I need to be reigned in, he'll take care of that. Otherwise, I have the run of the yard, so to speak

 

[peachesmelba]

That may or may not play a roll in why you love me so.

I'm saddened to hear that so many little girls from here have been abused. It sickens me. If I had any say in the justice system, there would be a lot of eunuchs running around with a little tube sticking out of their pants and "offender" tattooed across their forehead.

Cookie, one trait I love about you is calling bull shit when you see it. Love you little girl!

"In Ancient Italy rapists had their genitals pierced and a large bell was hung from them and in the days of the toga and chiton literally everyone knew and could avoid them!"

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

"In Ancient Italy rapists had their genitals pierced and a large bell was hung from them and in the days of the toga and chiton literally everyone knew and could avoid them!"

Nowadays I think this would be considered a "fashion statement"

 

[peachesmelba]

I will not share my experience in detail.
A. I have never really discussed it. What happened, happened. My father offered to call the police, but there were so many involved, and nothing actually "happened" that I told him to let it go. We were all young, and they were stupid. I chalk it up to that. I am thankful I am a quick talker and despite only being 5'2" can raise my hackles if needed and a least seem a bit scarier than I really am.
B. Despite this being an "anonymous" forum, I tend to think I am all over the place here. (not exactly trying to hide, if you catch my drift) If I thought my story would help someone in any way, I'd have said something a long time ago.

I'd never confuse unwanted with wanted, either. I'll be the first to admit, I can't wait til I have a Daddy who loves me enough and is proud enough, AND CONFIDENT enough in me and my love for HIM that he might enjoy a little playdate with someone else. But the key to this scenario (for me anyway) is you have Daddy there to protect. You always belong to one Daddy, and if both of you don't agree to it, then it's a NO-GO. Daddy will not make you do anything he does not think you are prepared to handle.. PERIOD.

People who think they can take whatever they want by force or fear are a different breed.They should be punished. Even though I did nothing wrong, I can still see how I might have been made out to be deserving of what happened. I recall after the fact that one of the boys MOTHERS made comments all over town about how I was one of the only girls out there that night, and she could only imagine what I was doing with all those "boys"..
I was like, are you kidding me? I played football with these "boys" for years...I shot slingshots and climbed trees with these boys for years.. NOTHING gave them the right to do what they did, and I had NO way of knowing I was "putting myself" at risk with guys I'd grown up with.. Yet, this woman found some way to exonerate her child's behavior at my expense.

Whatever..#irritated at the gaul of some people...

In any event, I'm very protective both of myself and others.(big D'OH there ) I hope all the littles know that they can confide in me about anything. I'm hear to listen, and will offer advice if I can and it's asked for. I'm leery of men in general because intentions are never really clear. I'm bolder when I have Daddy around, and if I need to be reigned in, he'll take care of that. Otherwise, I have the run of the yard, so to speak

"In any herd of mustangs, there's a stud Stallion.....but there's a herd Mare who really runs things.......we just happen to tolerate more than one Stallion in our little herd"

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

"In any herd of mustangs, there's a stud Stallion.....but there's a herd Mare who really runs things.......we just happen to tolerate more than one Stallion in our little herd"

*gigglesnort*

 

[Cookie123]

Good morning/evening!

I'm so proud of the women all are, despite wrongs others have committed against you. You are all brave and beautiful ladies and I'm happy you are in my life. I'm here if any of you need an ear or a shoulder.

Seems we may have decent weather today! Woohoo!

Daddy, there are hundreds of reasons why I love you so!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

LOL.. Posted this in my thread... thought it was appropriate over here, as well.
http://www.lovethispic.com/uploaded_images/11144-I-m-Not-Princess....jpg

 

[Cookie123]

LOL.. Posted this in my thread... thought it was appropriate over here, as well.
http://www.lovethispic.com/uploaded_images/11144-I-m-Not-Princess....jpg

I lovveee it!!! Thanks for sharing!!!