Cybersex

[Sienna]

Gender Swapping!

HONESTY!

Yes, that is a big Q........who do you know who it is you are actually cybering with? Male? Female? Alien? Insect? You don't really know do you?

I have a technique which seems to work. I ask a set of questions which to me are obvious. The cyber partner may not be aware of these questions outright, but they give me clues as to their real gender.

There are things that only us females know about ourselves that males could not even know unless they were females, unless of course they were gynaecologists or remember being female in a past life or something. I managed to catch someone out once or twice. You see being bi-fem, some of my past "experiments" have involved other females. Some have turned out to be males zooming in on lesbians or bi-fems who at the time just want other female company.

Now........think of that one......especially the males......is she really a female? (*smiles/winks*)

 

[TigerClaw]

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[lovetoread]

Re: Re: Gender Swapping!

Insect or an Alien, I resemble that comment. I have several tentacles designed for pleasure. I can assure you that I am male. all MALE!

I dunno maybe she should ask a couple of questions of ya...

I'd be interested in hearing the details.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[lovetoread]

I have 3 sisters and would not pass.


correctly that is! I know too much about the


Other Side



<dramatic music in the background>

<laughing>

Funny man.....or alien or bug....

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Gender Swapping!

HONESTY!

Yes, that is a big Q........who do you know who it is you are actually cybering with? Male? Female? Alien? Insect? You don't really know do you?

I have a technique which seems to work. I ask a set of questions which to me are obvious. The cyber partner may not be aware of these questions outright, but they give me clues as to their real gender.
(*smiles/winks*)

Yep, I have a couple of questions that I throw into the conversation to check if a person is the gender they say they are. Even though it's a play of words, I still like to know if they are the gender I think they are...

Don't ask what my questions are... that's my secret It was a guy who told me of the things he slips into conversation so to make a lady think he is a lady !

 

[Sienna]

Re: Re: Re: Gender Swapping!

I dunno maybe she should ask a couple of questions of ya...

QUESTION:-

Do you have more than four legs, capable of breathing in outer space and love chasing the ass of Sigourney Weaver?

 

[TigerClaw]

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[lovetoread]

Re: Uh let me see!

Yes, yes and yes.

I knew it was too good to be true.....

 

[erosman]

to cyber or not?

Good questions LTR. Good feedback as well.
I can't say that cybering works for me. I've only tried a couple of times. The ladies seemed to enjoy it, but...since I traded in masturbation for live sex with a real woman several years ago, I think that I'm not the right profile for the activity. I like what SK had to say about cybering being 'intercourse of the minds'. The imagination is definitely, or rather can be, a huge element of sexual stimulation.
I think that the part I haven't gotten past is the response or reciprocation. Real time sex is...at least for me...very! interactive. Maybe I'm just not good enough on the keyboard...lol. Maybe I'll give it another shot or two as well...just for the experience.
But really peoples, cybering with a green-horn has got to be...funny?....i;m jjissong uor clotutes eiht ny rongii...lol lol

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: to cyber or not?

Maybe I'm just not good enough on the keyboard...lol. But really peoples, cybering with a green-horn has got to be...funny?....i;m jjissong uor clotutes eiht ny rongii...lol lol

Yep, someone that types 5 words a minute just isn't up with the pace. A few typos I can handle and I'm sure that the couple of times I've ventured in, I've made typos, but with the heat of the moments that can be expected.

 

[djacq]

The Lines Drawn

I’ve read the story from Sienna and she’s right. It does have a strange twist to it. I’m not saying to take a cybersex relationship to the extreme. After all, there are lines that must be drawn. If you’re attached to someone, like the character in Sienna’s story, keep your cybersex partner at a distance and discreet.

Like I’ve revealed before, I’ve cybersex but it’s been years and I only do it very rarely nowadays. It can get pretty addictive at times. I still say that it’s really a safe activity and can be enjoyable.

After the fantasy, keep it real.

 

[jinnysub]

A lot of my sexual activity is in my mind, even when I'm with my husband. If there's no place to play out one's fantasies, one plays them out with the subject at hand, even if the subject is unknowing.

The times I've been bound and taken, in my mind, while my husband is having what he considers a normal sexual encounter with me are countless.

I'm fairly new to the cyberworld and haven't had cybersex very often, but I've found that it's a way for me to have, in a way, an interactive fantasy life, especially with other women.

This is the only way that I've ever "had sex" with a woman, and given my circumstances, probably WILL be the only way. But I find that I love the written word's ability to turn me on, and I also love the way that I'm able to express my sexuality verbally, which is a mutual turn on, as well.

I have my doubts, though, whether that many of the women I've "met" in cybersex are really women. Some have just turned me off immediately, and there's just some way that I KNOW this is not a woman. Maybe too much of the "put what where" mentality...maybe just intuition, I don't know. There may be more whom I've not been able to identify who do a very good job at posing, I don't know.

But even having cybersex with a man who is posing as a woman is more like real bi sex than I'll ever achieve.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[jinnysub]

Sitting here thinking about this thread...

For me...cybersex, when it's been "good", has been mutual masturbation with a partner who is able to tell you how he/she feels about what is happening to him/her, and is verbally involved in what you are doing as well.

It's that verbal involvement, that communication, and even better, that sometimes controlling communication, with my mind and, at a distance, with my fingers, that makes a good cybersex session wonderful.

The other thing that I like about cybersex is that I don't have to be "on"...I don't have to worry about what I'm wearing or how I look, to myself or to my partner. I think, but have no experience with phone sex, that even worrying about whether he/she "likes my voice" would take something away from that whole wonderful detachment.

I'm pretty new at this whole thing, very new at it, for that matter, and I don't profess to know even a tiny bit of the "whole," but that's my perspective. I feel like a 19 year old girl again, actually, talking about her vast amount of "experience" when I look back at what I've written, realizing I'm pretty "virginal" in this area!

 

[SilverVeil]

As one who has cybered in the past, and watches people who do it now, I can say that watching two people who manage to connect somehow and put on a scene for others to watch can be very erotic.

For the ones watching, it is like a story unfolding right then and there.
It is the same as reading one here at Literotica.

When my and my guy were seperated, we used cyber to take the edge off, and phone sex too. It was the imagination that kept it alive. Hell we met online... we may as well make love online.

Too many times it is a case of " Oh fuck me baby " and that is all it is. And it becomes stale and boring. And unbelievable.

For example:
One scene I was watching the guy tied the womans hands to the post. And right after he did that she reaches out and grabs him. Guess he did not tie her up good.
Or just last night in chat a woman and a man are going at it. Another guy decides to join in. Well guy # 1 is already doing her anally, and guy # 2 decides to get some butt action going. Rather difficult to do. And made it stilted and not as hot as it had been.

People come to chat sites to often escape from the boredom of reality. In cyber it does not matter that your dick is only 4 inches.... you say it is 10 and in such a way it seems like it is 10 inches. No danger of STD's here !!!

People like to be entertained, and watching a scene is a good way to be entertained. And cyber sex is safe. It is a way to have a mutual masturbation session with someone. I have seen women do a scene all by themselves that have left me all wet and bothered.




Watching a good scene done by people is not different to me than reading a hot story. And that is what it should be IMHO.

 

[GulfCoastAquarian]

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[lovetoread]

Thanks for answering my questions with such details. It was interesting to know that many details...

Its good to see you posting. Whats up with the other thing we spoke about? Doing better?

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

I want to know a few things, if ya'll dont mind.

I searched for this question before I asked,so if its been asked before forgive me and go on...

Why do it?

I used to do it, kind of a spontaineous thing when I was chatting with someone I was close with knowing we couldn't get together in real life. Of course, I hoped it may lead to phone sex too ...lol

No I dont mean all the morality kind of why,but do you do it to get off right then, or is it to get you extremely excited to be finished at a later time?

For me, it was because it turned her on to know I was doin it, and the release was good. Plus, the expressions, sensations and scenarios supply fodder for writing erotica.

Are there fast and hard rules that you should know before you begin?

I would make a few suggestions
Don't jump right into it, try and keep it spontaineous
Don't lie about doing it. If you say you're touching yourself, please be fondling
Participate as much as you're able. Staring at 5 paragraphs that I typed with no feedback causes shrinkage

How much is talk is too much? Meaning when you do this,is it like sex in real life- beginning middle and end? Or is it a jump in and fuck me type deal?

Each situation is different. If I were talked into doing it while at work, I'd want "get in, get off, get out". But I prefer to take my time when I can.

Can you cyber too much with too many people?

Imagine if you will cybering with someone who really enjoys how descriptive you can be when you cyber. And this isn't the only guy you're cybering with. Your "FAN" becomes so inspired by your last "session" that he writes a story and submits it to LIT quoting liberally from his experience with you. Now the other guy you cyber with reads the story and see's your style, recognizes what you've said to him.

The cat's out of the bag.

Does anyone do it the same?

You'll find alot of it repeats itself, which is why it's hard to disguise your style and personal touches. You can be creative with it varying the scenarios. Best advice I could give you is to treat it like a collaborative story.

About the actual sex talk...how do you start and end it?

No easy answer, but I kid around alot. So it's easy to work it into a conversation when I want, I just start joking about it and ease into it.

Do you just up and leave when it is over?

Not if you ever want to do it again

How do you start or end a relationship like this?

Depends on the person. One gal I knew for a very long time. We flirted back and forth, and one day we just did it. You can't do it unless you're comfortable with the person, so getting to know them before hand is a good idea. Then, it's like starting a fight, you know which buttons to push

Can you get jealous if the other is cybering elsewhere?

Count on it

Do you tell your cyber partner that you are doing it with others?

Again, not if ou ever want to do it again.

What if you are not turned on by your partner? Is it okay to tell that person?

You likely won't have to say a word. I think it would show in your participation, or lack there of. On a more warped note, women fake orgasm in real life why not in cyber?? lol

 

[PeterBilt]

Why cyber?

Well, given that "cyber" could have a continuum of meanings ...

Because it's there.

Actually, because they're there.

LovetoRead
JuicyLips
RubyFruit
HornyGirl
Sienna
Sabineteas
BlondeBabe
BocaBitch?


... and the beat (list) goes on ...

Sorry, didn't mean to make this list inclusive/exclusive; it doesn't mean a thing too personally if one is not on it, or on it; just the first I thought of in 5 seconds, to illustrate a point that there are so many delectable delights here

... and, I love reading their stories and posts ...

... remember, the mind is the seat of power (ful orgasms), love, etc.

Rambling, so I'll quit now. PeterBilt

 

[GulfCoastAquarian]

Re: Re:Cybersex

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[Dynamite]

A interactive story

It's interactive story time is basically what it truly is. It's really no different than phone sex, except you have to type.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Re: Re:Cybersex

I'm just a detail-oriented person, haha. Either that or I am freaking obsessed with sex. Maybe it's both.

The other thing? So and so. I'm having a hard time letting go. You still have my email?

Check your pm box.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Cybersex

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Each situation is different. If I were talked into doing it while at work, I'd want "get in, get off, get out". But I prefer to take my time when I can.


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Wow, you mean that you cyber at work?? What about getting caught? Or does that add to the excitement?

Cassidy,
loves teasing you....

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

Re: Gender Swapping!

HONESTY!

Yes, that is a big Q........who do you know who it is you are actually cybering with? Male? Female? Alien? Insect? You don't really know do you?

I have a technique which seems to work. I ask a set of questions which to me are obvious. The cyber partner may not be aware of these questions outright, but they give me clues as to their real gender.

There are things that only us females know about ourselves that males could not even know unless they were females, unless of course they were gynaecologists or remember being female in a past life or something. I managed to catch someone out once or twice. You see being bi-fem, some of my past "experiments" have involved other females. Some have turned out to be males zooming in on lesbians or bi-fems who at the time just want other female company.

Now........think of that one......especially the males......is she really a female? (*smiles/winks*)

I've been mistaken for a woman online. Alot. Mostly by some closed minds who see my writing and choice of nic names. But also by women.

How can you say there are things only a woman knows? If you were to put them down in response here, we all would know.

I'd be curious to see how I registered under your scrutiny. And no, I'm not a gynocologist. Maybe I've asked the same questions as you to the women I've known in my quest for intimacy. Maybe I realize that I need to get into a girls head before I can get into her pants. Maybe I'm a romantic fool, or the proverbial "lesbian in a mans body".

You can never be sure of anything, except that you could be mistaken.