Curious Male with Questions

[CuriousChicago]

Good morning. I really could use everyone's advice

I am in a committed relationship but extremely curious about men, more specifically about servicing a man - no kissing and no strings attached. However, I don't know how to go about meeting 'the right person' or teacher for such a discreet experience, any suggestions? Thank you..

 

[Cigan]

First things first. Clear it with your committed significant other. Not one for behind the back discreetness. Then I suggest such sites as www.blowjobsbyzipcode.com. Also www.gay.com is an excellent resource. They have extensive personals. Beyond that, I just say good luck.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Good morning. I really could use everyone's advice

I am in a committed relationship but extremely curious about men, more specifically about servicing a man - no kissing and no strings attached. However, I don't know how to go about meeting 'the right person' or teacher for such a discreet experience, any suggestions? Thank you..

Don't feel like I'm interrogating you ar anything but I'm curious about something. You'll suck a man's penis, but you draw the line at kissing him?

 

[Pookie]

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Don't feel like I'm interrogating you ar anything but I'm curious about something. You'll suck a man's penis, but you draw the line at kissing him?

This thread from back in December might interest you ...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=213520

 

[Cigan]

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Don't feel like I'm interrogating you ar anything but I'm curious about something. You'll suck a man's penis, but you draw the line at kissing him?

Oh that's a common thing. Especially among bi guys who get all hot and sweaty about other guys, but really only get emotionally attached to females. Sucking cock is just good horny fun. Kissing is much more emotionally involved. I can fall for a person in one kiss. I can put a total strangers dick in my mouth and get my shits and giggles.

 

[Zergplex]

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Oh that's a common thing. Especially among bi guys who get all hot and sweaty about other guys, but really only get emotionally attached to females. Sucking cock is just good horny fun. Kissing is much more emotionally involved. I can fall for a person in one kiss. I can put a total strangers dick in my mouth and get my shits and giggles.

*shakes head* I just can't understand that, to get sexually turned on I need to have an intimate connection with someone. Whatever makes you happy though ^_^

-Zergplex

 

[Queersetti]

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*shakes head* I just can't understand that, to get sexually turned on I need to have an intimate connection with someone. Whatever makes you happy though ^_^

-Zergplex

I see it as a form of denial. As long as one can remain emotionally detached from the sexual activity, it's easier to tell oneself that it is not definitive of your personality.

 

[Cigan]

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I see it as a form of denial. As long as one can remain emotionally detached from the sexual activity, it's easier to tell oneself that it is not definitive of your personality.

Um I have to disagree with you on some level. It can be a form of denial. I am gay, not bi. And I have intimite moments and I have purely sexual moments. It really depends on what my mood is. When I first discovered that I could go down on a guy without even knowing his name or anything about him left me floored, and the instant it was over I was pretty much in shock as to that I was capable of it. I am usually very intimiate with the men I'm involed with. It's certainly not in denial as to my nautre. I'm a big ol fag, and I likes the dick. It's just if I get horny enough I don't really care. I'm not saying this is a good thing, and I have very particularly avoiding environments similar to what incited my first (and thankfully only) anon oral experience. I'm just saying it's a fairly normal male experience.

Zergplex I also totally understand what you are saying, and 90% of the time it's true for me. But for a lot of people it's not. For people who are into anon stuff kissing is way way to personal.

 

[Bitchslapper]

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This thread from back in December might interest you ...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=213520

Now I'm confused. One day you talk as if you hate my guts and you think I'm a trolling asshole, but another day you link me to some thread. So what's the deal?

 

[glamorilla]

sucking cock is like a drug.

 

[Pookie]

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Now I'm confused. One day you talk as if you hate my guts and you think I'm a trolling asshole, but another day you link me to some thread. So what's the deal?

The deal is ... I don't hate your guts. There are only a few people in this world I can truly say I hate, and I know them IRL. I'm not out to start arguments with you all the time. I think you can contribute something to this board, but that contribution tends to get lost in your delivery at times.

Be cool ... and things will be cool. Okay? It doesn't mean I'm gonna agree with you on some things though, but that's cool too.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Then why do you call me an asshole so often?

 

[glamorilla]

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Um I have to disagree with you on some level. It can be a form of denial. I am gay, not bi. And I have intimite moments and I have purely sexual moments. It really depends on what my mood is. When I first discovered that I could go down on a guy without even knowing his name or anything about him left me floored, and the instant it was over I was pretty much in shock as to that I was capable of it. I am usually very intimiate with the men I'm involed with. It's certainly not in denial as to my nautre. I'm a big ol fag, and I likes the dick. It's just if I get horny enough I don't really care. I'm not saying this is a good thing, and I have very particularly avoiding environments similar to what incited my first (and thankfully only) anon oral experience. I'm just saying it's a fairly normal male experience.

Zergplex I also totally understand what you are saying, and 90% of the time it's true for me. But for a lot of people it's not. For people who are into anon stuff kissing is way way to personal.

i think how you feel can apply to anyone~gay or straight. we all get horny and we all have our fantasies regarding casual sex. some of us act on them, for others it just remains a fantasy.

i think what que is referring to is that there are a lt of closeted men who maintain girlfriends,wives,families and totally heterosexual lifestyles while seeking out male companionship on the sly to avoid beling labelled as gay or bi out of fear.

they exist and they usually start off with "i'm not really gay but" before trying to have sex with you.

 

[Pookie]

Then why do you call me an asshole so often?

The deal is ... I don't hate your guts. There are only a few people in this world I can truly say I hate, and I know them IRL. I'm not out to start arguments with you all the time. I think you can contribute something to this board, but that contribution tends to get lost in your delivery at times.

Be cool ... and things will be cool. Okay? It doesn't mean I'm gonna agree with you on some things though, but that's cool too.

 

[Queersetti]

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Um I have to disagree with you on some level. It can be a form of denial. I am gay, not bi. And I have intimite moments and I have purely sexual moments. It really depends on what my mood is. When I first discovered that I could go down on a guy without even knowing his name or anything about him left me floored, and the instant it was over I was pretty much in shock as to that I was capable of it. I am usually very intimiate with the men I'm involed with. It's certainly not in denial as to my nautre. I'm a big ol fag, and I likes the dick. It's just if I get horny enough I don't really care. I'm not saying this is a good thing, and I have very particularly avoiding environments similar to what incited my first (and thankfully only) anon oral experience. I'm just saying it's a fairly normal male experience.

Zergplex I also totally understand what you are saying, and 90% of the time it's true for me. But for a lot of people it's not. For people who are into anon stuff kissing is way way to personal.

I was specifically referring to the phenomenon in regard to bisexual men.

 

[Bitchslapper]

And what, specifically, makes you such an all-fired expert on bisexual men?

 

[Metrix]

I have been in threeways.. and have sucked and been sucked...but have no desire to kiss a man.. frankly i think men are ugly ..no offense .. but the cock is intriging ......