We do share that opinion... the bar is set
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That makes two of us.
CD_Bianca
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I would love to help you with your curiousity
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I hope I can meet some more big cocks
I am in the same position as “Another Curious Guy” . I’m very curious, need to be very discreet, and totally nervous. I’ve never done anything but I’m so curious to try. I’m not into men but very attracted to trans women or attractive CD’s. I have been fantasizing about sucking a cock. Honestly, what holds me back is the fear of loving it. Make sense?
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Yes it does make sense
and yes I'm sure that if you were to spend some time with me you will want to do it again in the future
a number of men have done this with me in the past
I’m sure I would. That’s the other thing. I have no idea where to find CD’s or Trans women.
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there are men's clubs or adult book stores and in my case there is a local park (though you need to be careful there)
a men's club I go to charges a fee to enter each time ($20) you can be dressed or go into a sauna room of video room and they have showers and a place for coffee and a bite to eat
a men's club I go to charges a fee to enter each time ($20) you can be dressed or go into a sauna room of video room and they have showers and a place for coffee and a bite to eat
What area are you?
Unless you're a anyone and anyplace type, the hard part is finding that other person who you find connection and comfortable with. It wouldn't seem that it would be a hard thing to find... but it really is.
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I love to crossdress and I am incredibly curious. I want to get together with another crossdresser. I am not passable at all but live the panties, stockings high heels and a camisole. I live in a very small community so I will have to do some traveling. I think about sucking cock and rimming all the time .
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I love your style. And I would love to go through your wardrobe.
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That sounds like a great time. Love reading all your posts.
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It does seem harder to find someone you connect and feel comfortable with, especially if one tends to be more cautious and the goal is to have something more than a one time thing... versus those who are more open. Sort of a introvert vs. extrovert in a way.
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I have used a number of gay/bi sites, as well as DoubleList trying to find a good match - someone I get along with really well, preferably some common interests, sexual interests align, logistics align, etc. Basically planetary alignment! lol
I find that it takes a ridiculous amount of time searching, communicating with them, and ultimately discover its not a good match. That gets disappointing but even worse is when they misrepresent themselves (ok, a polite way of saying they lie) and its not a good fit after all. This makes me far more reluctant to meet and the whole process much more frustrating.
I inevitably quit for a while, get really horny, return to the search, rinse and repeat.
I actually ended up trying to find someone here on Lit because I had hoped that this group was much more inclined to be communicative and open to being more than a quick hook up. I'm not looking for a new best friend, I just want to feel very comfortable with him. I think I am more inclined to want to be with someone if I see them as a friend, even if we never hang out or do things as friends. Does that make sense? Feeling like friends even though its just sex?
It does happen - there have been a few times (after chatting with 58.2% of the men in the US lol) that I have found someone where everything lines up and its great! Unfortunately one thing or another eventually ends it - usually a change in availability like a move, change in employment, etc.
Since I have already written a novel in this reply I may as well go for broke and add this too:
Another challenge I face is that my interests vary. Not sure how common that is with other people, but its a definite pattern for me. First, I should say that I consider myself "mostly straight" in that I'm not attracted to guys at all, I've just found they can be an easier substitute. Huge generalizations here, and I understand that as generalizations, they obviously don't apply to everyone! But in my limited experience guys can be more more open and direct about wanting to suck, much easier to meet with, can keep it limited strictly to physical connection, etc.
So about my interests varying:
I'm most interested in having someone that just loves to suck. Whether its their first time and want to explore or have a lot of experience doesn't matter. I don't care about age/weight/race/etc as long as they want to take their time, give pleasure in slow motion, make it all about the journey and not the destination. Its not even that Im trying to draw the pleasure out, its more that I crave feeling like someone is genuinely enjoying my cock. That seems tremendously difficult to find, at least where everything else also lines up.
But then there are also times when I really want to reciprocate too. I prefer the chemistry, attraction, and form of a woman that makes my excitement so much higher, but cocks are really cool. Sometimes I just want to provide sexual pleasure and have fun with genitalia and the gender doesn't really matter. I find the hornier I am, the more I want to remind myself how exciting it can be to have a guy give me his dick to play with, and then switch off and take care of mine too. Afterwards I feel like I have satiated that interest and it may be a while before I want to do that again, but the interest in being pleasured is always there.
If I already have a friend I have been meeting with, I'm fine with reciprocating every time. But if I am looking for a partner it can be challenging because my interest varies -- sometimes I just want to be the receiver, and other times I want to reciprocate.
Lastly, I've found that a number of the guys who just want to suck also want me to dominate them, degrade them, etc. I'm sure there is fun to be had in role playing scenarios that we agree to and I would be fine with that, but I'm not aggressive and pushy or demanding like that by nature. So the sexual alignment can be tough to find too; they might be looking to treat them harshly and I just want to lay back and enjoy the intense pleasure.
wow this is a long post.
thanks for reading if you made it this far! Just throwing in my personal experience, frustration in trying to find someone, etc. For all the challenges I have been incredibly lucky to find partners that have been a great fit. It generally takes me years to find someone but it does happen if I put the effort in.
I find that it takes a ridiculous amount of time searching, communicating with them, and ultimately discover its not a good match. That gets disappointing but even worse is when they misrepresent themselves (ok, a polite way of saying they lie) and its not a good fit after all. This makes me far more reluctant to meet and the whole process much more frustrating.
I inevitably quit for a while, get really horny, return to the search, rinse and repeat.
I actually ended up trying to find someone here on Lit because I had hoped that this group was much more inclined to be communicative and open to being more than a quick hook up. I'm not looking for a new best friend, I just want to feel very comfortable with him. I think I am more inclined to want to be with someone if I see them as a friend, even if we never hang out or do things as friends. Does that make sense? Feeling like friends even though its just sex?
It does happen - there have been a few times (after chatting with 58.2% of the men in the US lol) that I have found someone where everything lines up and its great! Unfortunately one thing or another eventually ends it - usually a change in availability like a move, change in employment, etc.
Since I have already written a novel in this reply I may as well go for broke and add this too:
Another challenge I face is that my interests vary. Not sure how common that is with other people, but its a definite pattern for me. First, I should say that I consider myself "mostly straight" in that I'm not attracted to guys at all, I've just found they can be an easier substitute. Huge generalizations here, and I understand that as generalizations, they obviously don't apply to everyone! But in my limited experience guys can be more more open and direct about wanting to suck, much easier to meet with, can keep it limited strictly to physical connection, etc.
So about my interests varying:
I'm most interested in having someone that just loves to suck. Whether its their first time and want to explore or have a lot of experience doesn't matter. I don't care about age/weight/race/etc as long as they want to take their time, give pleasure in slow motion, make it all about the journey and not the destination. Its not even that Im trying to draw the pleasure out, its more that I crave feeling like someone is genuinely enjoying my cock. That seems tremendously difficult to find, at least where everything else also lines up.
But then there are also times when I really want to reciprocate too. I prefer the chemistry, attraction, and form of a woman that makes my excitement so much higher, but cocks are really cool. Sometimes I just want to provide sexual pleasure and have fun with genitalia and the gender doesn't really matter. I find the hornier I am, the more I want to remind myself how exciting it can be to have a guy give me his dick to play with, and then switch off and take care of mine too. Afterwards I feel like I have satiated that interest and it may be a while before I want to do that again, but the interest in being pleasured is always there.
If I already have a friend I have been meeting with, I'm fine with reciprocating every time. But if I am looking for a partner it can be challenging because my interest varies -- sometimes I just want to be the receiver, and other times I want to reciprocate.
Lastly, I've found that a number of the guys who just want to suck also want me to dominate them, degrade them, etc. I'm sure there is fun to be had in role playing scenarios that we agree to and I would be fine with that, but I'm not aggressive and pushy or demanding like that by nature. So the sexual alignment can be tough to find too; they might be looking to treat them harshly and I just want to lay back and enjoy the intense pleasure.
wow this is a long post.
thanks for reading if you made it this far! Just throwing in my personal experience, frustration in trying to find someone, etc. For all the challenges I have been incredibly lucky to find partners that have been a great fit. It generally takes me years to find someone but it does happen if I put the effort in.
I'd subscribe to your news letter... lol. Your comments are spot on with me, and I'd wager that several other guys reading your post would be nodding their heads also.
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