Curious & Experiences

[IKEA_Boy701]

Having a regular buddy would be the best situation, get to know each other and what each other wants... optimally be just regular buddy's doing guy stuff outside going for beers, etc, but becoming very close buddy's behind closed door.
Its a nice fantasy...

Sometimes you get that.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Sometimes you get that.

That is the truth

 

[klippert]

I'm Bi married very experienced and I have regular buddy... well not regular, since real live gets in the way of our play time.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I'm Bi married very experienced and I have regular buddy... well not regular, since real live gets in the way of our play time.

At the least you have the time the two of you do have to get together...

 

[mrno]

Semi-regular would work for me.
Miami here.

 

[cacti35]

Bi-curious as well. Haven't had any experience as of yet. Don't really know anyone for sure that would be interested. But there is this one guy, that was rumored to be either gay 0r bi. He is a retired bank Pres. Rarely ever see in in a place to speak to him. Afraid the rumors are just that & could be a disaster if I said anything. so, I haven't.
I'd like to find someone discrete, clean, and trustworthy. So far..........
In Tenn, BTW

 

[Rich145]

Bi-curious as well. Haven't had any experience as of yet. Don't really know anyone for sure that would be interested. But there is this one guy, that was rumored to be either gay 0r bi. He is a retired bank Pres. Rarely ever see in in a place to speak to him. Afraid the rumors are just that & could be a disaster if I said anything. so, I haven't.
I'd like to find someone discrete, clean, and trustworthy. So far..........
In Tenn, BTW

Definitely would be great to find someone

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Semi-regular would work for me.
Miami here.

Doesn't seem to be all that much to ask for, but finding someone regular/semi-regular can be like trying to find a unicorn. But you have to keep hope up that there is someone local like that.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I finally got to experience sucking cock in late January. He and I had been chatting for over a week before we met in person. He had some experiences, I had zero. He was in town for work again, and was staying at a hotel local to where I live. While we had chatted about what both of us wanted to do, when I met him in his hotel room the intention was to just do a meet and greet. Since I was new, I felt meeting in person, leaving, and arranging another meetup the next time he was in town, would be a safe approach. Who knows, after meeting in person I may have realized it wasn't something I really wanted to do. Since he lives far away from me, I'd most likely never see him again if it was something I decided not to go through with.

But from the second he opened the door, he was chill. He noticed I was super nervous (I told him I was as well), and he reassured me everything was ok, he wasn't going to ask or force me to do anything, I can leave when ready. Talking lead to sitting on the same bed next to each other, he had porn on so we were watching that. I asked if I could see his cock, he took his pants off and started to stroke himself. I asked if I could touch it, he gave me the ok. Then I asked if I could feel him in my mouth, he said if I felt comfortable, I could try that.

When I took him into my mouth he was still soft. It didn't take long until he was fully erect in my mouth. While I didn't have a lot of time to spend with him, I really enjoyed the brief time I had sucking him.

I went through everything that everyone posted here before finally going through with it. I made many posts on sites, I responded to many. Fear of getting caught, getting an STD, getting robbed, me losing interest in meeting, him losing interest in meeting, etc. Finding this guy and this situation took forever, but I'm happy it worked out. He and I have stayed in touch since, he's going to be back at the hotel by me later this week. This time I'll have more time to spend with him.

For those who are still waiting, I recommend being patient. Don't rush into the wrong situation, take the time to find the right guy and the right situation. I honestly thought I had given up on ever trying. One random day, I was going through posts on double list and found his. I can say this, at least for me, it was worth the wait.

A great and honest post that I'm sure many others can see themselves in your situation when they read it.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts

 

[Rich145]

I finally got to experience sucking cock in late January. He and I had been chatting for over a week before we met in person. He had some experiences, I had zero. He was in town for work again, and was staying at a hotel local to where I live. While we had chatted about what both of us wanted to do, when I met him in his hotel room the intention was to just do a meet and greet. Since I was new, I felt meeting in person, leaving, and arranging another meetup the next time he was in town, would be a safe approach. Who knows, after meeting in person I may have realized it wasn't something I really wanted to do. Since he lives far away from me, I'd most likely never see him again if it was something I decided not to go through with.

But from the second he opened the door, he was chill. He noticed I was super nervous (I told him I was as well), and he reassured me everything was ok, he wasn't going to ask or force me to do anything, I can leave when ready. Talking lead to sitting on the same bed next to each other, he had porn on so we were watching that. I asked if I could see his cock, he took his pants off and started to stroke himself. I asked if I could touch it, he gave me the ok. Then I asked if I could feel him in my mouth, he said if I felt comfortable, I could try that.

When I took him into my mouth he was still soft. It didn't take long until he was fully erect in my mouth. While I didn't have a lot of time to spend with him, I really enjoyed the brief time I had sucking him.

I went through everything that everyone posted here before finally going through with it. I made many posts on sites, I responded to many. Fear of getting caught, getting an STD, getting robbed, me losing interest in meeting, him losing interest in meeting, etc. Finding this guy and this situation took forever, but I'm happy it worked out. He and I have stayed in touch since, he's going to be back at the hotel by me later this week. This time I'll have more time to spend with him.

For those who are still waiting, I recommend being patient. Don't rush into the wrong situation, take the time to find the right guy and the right situation. I honestly thought I had given up on ever trying. One random day, I was going through posts on double list and found his. I can say this, at least for me, it was worth the wait.

Good luck when you hook-up again, hope you have fun.

 

[J64stephenson]

Couple for 20 years here with the wife thinking or curious about playing with another woman. Sounds ok to me but do you think this could be the beginning of something bad. Don't hold back

 

[PersonalFavors]

Couple for 20 years here with the wife thinking or curious about playing with another woman. Sounds ok to me but do you think this could be the beginning of something bad. Don't hold back

If she is serious you need to take some G rated photos together and separate. Show your honest body and head shots. Join swinglifestyle as a couple with her being the only one that responds to messages sent to you.
As soon as the male responds you are all done when looking for a woman. Let her do the work. And probably don't meet someone from a message on the site. Get invited to swing parties and get into the vibe. Men are not bi there. Kind of a protocol. Women are expected to NOT pimp their man out to get what she wants. The people you meet there are cool. Same as if you visit Trapeze in Miami. Go down get a hotel near by and enjoy a night dancing. If you feel like going to the onpremise side go. You have to go as a couple. Lean back enjoy the vibe. Only talk to people you want to. I remember my first times. We had to get used to being naked out in the open like that. The first few times she only gave me head. So nervous. But the ladies we met for her were from swinglife parties. Some time after the party we would go out to dinner with the couple with an interested lady. Single ladies we actually brought home with us. You have to have dinner or something else relaxed so you can talk about it. Ground rules are necessary. Most likely the second lady has no interest in you. Or will not let on she does until she is sure she is interested and that it will not upset your lady.
Tread lightly but be persistent. And above all know your wife is leading the way.
It is out there and surprisingly easy to find.

 

[J64stephenson]

If she is serious you need to take some G rated photos together and separate. Show your honest body and head shots. Join swinglifestyle as a couple with her being the only one that responds to messages sent to you.
As soon as the male responds you are all done when looking for a woman. Let her do the work. And probably don't meet someone from a message on the site. Get invited to swing parties and get into the vibe. Men are not bi there. Kind of a protocol. Women are expected to NOT pimp their man out to get what she wants. The people you meet there are cool. Same as if you visit Trapeze in Miami. Go down get a hotel near by and enjoy a night dancing. If you feel like going to the onpremise side go. You have to go as a couple. Lean back enjoy the vibe. Only talk to people you want to. I remember my first times. We had to get used to being naked out in the open like that. The first few times she only gave me head. So nervous. But the ladies we met for her were from swinglife parties. Some time after the party we would go out to dinner with the couple with an interested lady. Single ladies we actually brought home with us. You have to have dinner or something else relaxed so you can talk about it. Ground rules are necessary. Most likely the second lady has no interest in you. Or will not let on she does until she is sure she is interested and that it will not upset your lady.
Tread lightly but be persistent. And above all know your wife is leading the way.
It is out there and surprisingly easy to find.

Thank you for all the good information. This will be exceptionally helpful.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

If she is serious you need to take some G rated photos together and separate. Show your honest body and head shots. Join swinglifestyle as a couple with her being the only one that responds to messages sent to you.
As soon as the male responds you are all done when looking for a woman. Let her do the work. And probably don't meet someone from a message on the site. Get invited to swing parties and get into the vibe. Men are not bi there. Kind of a protocol. Women are expected to NOT pimp their man out to get what she wants. The people you meet there are cool. Same as if you visit Trapeze in Miami. Go down get a hotel near by and enjoy a night dancing. If you feel like going to the onpremise side go. You have to go as a couple. Lean back enjoy the vibe. Only talk to people you want to. I remember my first times. We had to get used to being naked out in the open like that. The first few times she only gave me head. So nervous. But the ladies we met for her were from swinglife parties. Some time after the party we would go out to dinner with the couple with an interested lady. Single ladies we actually brought home with us. You have to have dinner or something else relaxed so you can talk about it. Ground rules are necessary. Most likely the second lady has no interest in you. Or will not let on she does until she is sure she is interested and that it will not upset your lady.
Tread lightly but be persistent. And above all know your wife is leading the way.
It is out there and surprisingly easy to find.

Sound advice especially for any first timers, thanks for sharing!